If I could start a business with my late brother, Christopher, we would open a premier, heavy duty automotive and mechanical customization shop. Growing up, we shared an unbreakable bond fueled by a mutual fascination with how things worked. Our shared dream truly crystallized when we took a technical class together. Sitting side by side in that classroom, working through the same projects, we realized that our individual interests combined into a massive shared passion. We spent countless hours after that dreaming of the day we would both become mechanical engineers and build a legacy together from the ground up. Christopher had the brilliant mind and the spirit of a true creator. When he passed away in 2025, a part of that shared dream felt out of reach, but my determination to honor his memory only grew stronger.
As I began pursuing the path to engineering, I hit a difficult reality: the advanced, abstract mathematics required for the degree became a major roadblock for me. It was a frustrating and humbling realization. For a while, I worried that struggling with calculus meant I was failing Christopher and abandoning the future we had envisioned in that classroom together. However, I realized that while the specific academic route had to change, the core of our dream did not. Engineering was not just about formulas on a chalkboard; it was about problem solving, grit, and keeping things moving forward.
Instead of letting that obstacle defeat me, I chose to pivot my focus and pursue sociology. While studying human behavior and social structures seems a world away from engineering, it has provided me with invaluable insights into leadership, team dynamics, and organizational management. My passion for mechanics never wavered, but sociology equips me with the foundational skills needed to manage a workforce, understand consumer needs, and build an enterprise that truly serves its community. By merging my technical interests with a deep understanding of people, I found a path that fits my strengths while keeping our shared dream alive.
The business we would have started, and the business I still plan to build in his honor, would be a reflection of that resilience. It would be a shop dedicated to high level customization and mechanical repair. Christopher would have been the visionary designer behind the technical builds, and I would be the driving force managing the operations, organizational structure, and team coordination.
Winning the Arin Kel Memorial Scholarship would provide the critical financial support I need to complete my education. This scholarship is more than just financial aid; it is an investment in a promise I made to myself and to my brother. Christopher’s time was cut tragically short, but his impact on my life is permanent. Every day I face a tough challenge, I carry his memory with me. By investing in my education, you are helping me build the foundation for a business that will keep Christopher’s name, passion, and legacy alive for decades to come.
If I could start a business with my twin brother, Ojdrew (whom I lost as a toddler) it would undoubtedly be a medical clinic, a place rooted in healing, service, and the bond we shared even in our earliest days. Though our time together was heartbreakingly short, some of my most vivid and cherished memories come from those quiet, imaginative moments when we would play doctor with our toy stethoscope. We would take turns checking each other's heartbeat, pretending to diagnose mysterious illnesses and offer grand cures, with nothing but our childlike wonder and an unspoken promise to care for each other and the world around us. Even then, something about medicine felt like home.
Our play sessions weren’t just games; they were early expressions of our shared curiosity and compassion. Ojdrew had this gentle seriousness about him when we played doctor, as if he truly believed he could make someone feel better just by listening carefully and offering a smile. I remember how he’d press the plastic stethoscope to my chest, eyes wide with concentration, and say, “You’re okay now.” In those moments, we were more than toddlers, we were a team. A team of tiny healers, dreaming big in our little world.
If he were still here, I believe with all my heart that we would have carried those dreams forward into adulthood. We both would have become physicians, drawn to the same path not just by childhood imagination, but by the deep-rooted desire to help others. Together, we would have opened a clinic, not just a place for treatment, but a space for connection, comfort, and community. It would be warm, welcoming, and accessible, reflecting our shared values and the love that began in our earliest days together.
The clinic would specialize in family medicine, serving people across all ages and walks of life. We’d focus on holistic care, emphasizing not just physical health but emotional and mental well-being. Perhaps we’d even include a small playroom with toy stethoscopes, inviting a new generation of siblings to dream like we once did. Our logo might even include a small tribute to those childhood days, a simple symbol of two stethoscopes crossing, forever connected.
Starting a business like this with Ojdrew would mean more than fulfilling a dream; it would be honoring a bond that time and tragedy could never erase. His absence is something I carry with me every day, but so is his spirit…gentle, curious, and full of promise. In many ways, my path toward medicine now is also for him. The clinic we never got to open still lives in my heart, a symbol of what we might have built, and what I still strive to become: the doctor we both dreamed of being.