Wrestling is more than a sport to me; it's a discipline, a struggle, and growth all woven into one. When I step onto the mat, it isn't just about facing an opponent; it's about facing myself, Feelings, and Mentality. Wrestling has pushed me into moments where giving up would have been easier, but choosing to fight taught me the value of resilience. Every practice, every weight cut, every hard lesson carved out of a toughness in me that no classroom or textbook could ever match.
Through wrestling, I've learned that strength isn't only in the body, it's in the mind. It's in waking up early when I'm sore, choosing accountability when I fall short, and respecting both victory and defeat. Wrestling has made me humble enough to know that progress comes slowly, and confident enough to believe I can rise after every setback
This sport taught me that success doesn't come from talent alone, but from the willingness to struggle, sweat, and keep moving forward no matter what. Wrestling has shaped me into a woman who doesn't fear challenges, because I've learned to meet them head-on.
Wrestling is about respect. I have learned to respect my opponents, my teammates, and my coaches. Even when the match is over and the outcome isn't in my favor, there is respect in the handshake. That respect extends beyond the mat; it has shaped the way I treat people, handle conflict, and carry myself with humility.
There are times in my life when wrestling became more than just competition; it became a matter of survival. On days when I felt weighed down by stress, doubt, or even the hardships life threw at me, the mat was the one place I could let it out. Every takedown, every escape, every hard practice was a way of proving to myself that I could endure pain and still rise. The sport gave me an outlet when words weren't enough, and in that silence, I found the strength I didn't know I had.
Wrestling gave me hope when I needed it the most. It reminded me that no matter how heavy the burden feels, I can carry it a little farther, one match, one practice, one step at a time. It showed me that even when I am down, I am never truly defeated unless I stop fighting. That lesson goes beyond the mat; it is how I now face life itself. Wrestling has given me more than victories or medals; it has given me resilience, purpose, and the unshakable belief that no matter how hard life tries to pin me down, I will always find a way to stand back up.
To me, wrestling has always meant much more than a sport. It has been a place to fit in, to grow, and to discover who I really am. Wrestling gave me a community when I didn’t know where I belonged, and it offered me a space where I could learn to be confident in myself, even when I was the only girl on the mat. When I first stepped into the Comanche wrestling room in junior high, I had no idea how much this sport would shape my life. I did not know that being the first female wrestler in my school—and one of the first in my county—would come with challenges, expectations, and pressure. But I also didn’t yet understand the strength, leadership, and sense of purpose wrestling would give me in return.
Because I was the only girl in the program, every practice and every match pushed me to prove that I belonged. There were no footsteps for me to follow, no older teammates showing me the way. I became the example without ever meaning to be. That responsibility motivated me to work harder, stay humble, and commit myself fully to learning the sport. Over the years, that dedication paid off. I became the first female state champion for both my high school and my county. That moment didn’t feel like a victory just for me—it felt like a victory for every girl who had ever wondered if she could wrestle, and for every person who believed girls deserved a place in this sport.
What means the most to me now is seeing the growth that has happened because I stayed on the path even when it was challenging. I started as the only girl in junior high, but today, during my senior year, our high school has a full girls’ roster. Our youth program is growing every season. I get to watch younger female wrestlers walk into the room with excitement instead of hesitation. They don’t have to wonder if they belong, because they can see that they do. They can see someone who has been in their shoes, someone who competed, succeeded, and refused to quit. To me, that is one of the greatest gifts wrestling has given me—the chance to open the door wider for those who are coming after me.
I try to give back to younger athletes as much as I can. I encourage them to be bold, to be confident, and to understand that strength is not only physical but mental. I want them to know that it is okay to fail, because every loss teaches something valuable. Wrestling has shown me that character comes from getting back up, from pushing through doubt, and from believing in yourself even when it’s difficult. These are lessons I try to pass on because wrestling is not just about winning matches; it is about becoming a stronger person.
Wrestling has helped shape the kind of teammate, student, and community member I am today. It has taught me discipline, resilience, and humility. It has shown me the importance of supporting others and working hard when no one is watching. It has taught me that what matters most is not where you start, but how you choose to grow.
If I’m chosen, I will continue to represent my school and community with pride, kindness, and heart. I want to be someone younger wrestlers can look up to. Wrestling is my family, and being part of this sport has taught me to live with strength, respect, and pride. I am grateful for the opportunities wrestling has given me.
Wrestling, to me, is more than just a sport. Wrestling has consumed my life for more years than I can count. Whether it was watching my brother at wrestling practice while I tumbled around the mats when I was young, to now, being 17 , a 2x California State Championships qualifier, eager to pursue my wrestling career at the college level. Being a woman in wrestling means breaking barriers.
When I first started wrestling, all I wrestled was boys, now women's wrestling is one of the fastest growing sports in the country. Being on the mat gives me a sense of pride, strength, and an adrenaline rush that you can't get from anything else. The sport of wrestling has taught me the true meaning of hard work, dedication, discipline, and perseverance. Each minute on a wrestling mat gives me an opportunity to grow, to learn, and most importantly to push my limits- not just physically but mentally as well. The sport of wrestling demands a different level of focus and determination that people who haven't wrestled, will never understand. Being a women in wrestling allows me to be the voice and advocate for the future of women's wrestling. No matter what I was feeling on any given day: tired, stressed, worthless, a failure- wrestling was always there for me. Knowing after a bad day, going into a wrestling room, lacing my shoes up, and working hard could always bring me a sense of comfort that no one or anything else could. Nothing compares to the feeling of getting your hand raised after giving your all time and time again during practices, matches, and behind the scenes.I live for the thrill of getting my hand raised. Wrestling gives me a platform to inspire others.
Wrestling may be "just a sport" to others, but to me it's about showing little girls- that plan to wrestle or not, that with passion and dedication, they can excel in anything they put their heart and mind to. Wrestling has taught me that setbacks are just setups for comebacks, and every challenge faced on and off the mat, is a lesson in being resilient that I carry into all aspects of my life. Wrestling, to me, is not just a sport- it's a symbol of empowerment, a testament to the strength of women, and a constant reminder that I can break through any barrier set before me.