Ryan R. Lusso Memorial Scholarship

My mother’s 4 year battle with incurable Multiple Myeloma has been one of the most defining experiences of my life. Watching her fight this illness has changed me in ways I never expected. It’s incredibly painful to see someone you love go through something so devastating, but it has also taught me how to find strength and resilience even when the future feels uncertain. One of the most important lessons I’ve learned is to truly appreciate time. Before my mother’s diagnosis, I didn’t think much about how fragile life is. Now, every moment with her feels precious, whether it’s laughing together over something small or just sitting with her, enjoying each other’s company. It’s made me realize that it’s not the big, flashy moments that matter most, but the simple ones we sometimes take for granted. I’ve learned that being there for someone, without needing to say the right thing, can mean the world. This experience has also forced me to grow up faster than I expected. I’ve had to face tough realities, and it’s made me stronger and more focused on what truly matters. I’ve learned how to stay strong for my mom, even when I feel scared or overwhelmed. There are days when it’s really hard, but I’ve discovered that I can push through those moments. Her strength inspires me to be strong, too. My mother’s fight has also driven me to go after my own dreams with more determination than ever. Knowing how unpredictable life can be, I’ve become more focused on making the most of every opportunity. Whether it’s working hard in school or pursuing my passion for game design, I want to make sure I’m living my life to the fullest. Seeing my mom’s courage motivates me to push through my own challenges and never take anything for granted. This has also taught me the importance of empathy and being there for others. I now understand how much small acts of kindness can mean, not only to my mother but to anyone facing a difficult situation. It’s made me more aware of the struggles others might be going through and has deepened my desire to support those in need. This experience has given me a greater sense of purpose, driving me to make a positive impact wherever I can. I’ve learned that even in the darkest times, love and support can bring light and hope. In the end, this journey has made me a more compassionate, driven, and grateful person. It’s given me a deeper understanding of what it means to be strong and how to appreciate the love and support around me. While it’s been incredibly difficult, my mother’s battle with Multiple Myeloma has shaped me in ways I’ll carry with me forever.