Since the day I was born, I have been at a disadvantage; this is typical when you are born early and placed in the NICU; there is an increased risk for permeant delays that you will not overcome. Many people throughout my life, including doctors and former teachers, did not think I would accomplish much of anything. Quickly after I was born, my mom became a single mother of 3, with me being the youngest. I grew up watching my mom struggle to get by, but she always stressed the importance of education. At 18, I proved a lot of people wrong and graduated high school, but I have done much more than that since I was 18. I went on to college, majoring in psychology, and graduated with honors. During college, I had limited finical resources. I had to take out loans in addition to working.
Further, to gain more experience, I also took on an unpaid internship. However, this internship helped me decide on my educational path. As an undergrad, I found my calling; I got an internship at Marcus Autism Center, a place that helped children with Autism and others with developmental delays reach their full potential. After witnessing this, I knew that was what I wanted to do. Specifically, being a Black woman coming from a low-income household, I knew I wanted to help other marginalized communities succeed and reach their full potential. After graduating, I went on to earn my master's in educational psychology. In this program, I was able to get an assistantship that helped cover my tuition; however, even with this, between supporting myself and helping out my mom, it was still very tight. Due to this, in addition to my assistantship, I also took on a part-time job where I could both work and gain supervision hours for the Board-Certified Behavior Analyst credential I was pursuing while in graduate school. In addition to my financial struggles, I also faced several hardships while in my master's program. When I was working on proposing my thesis, my best friend of over 15 years suddenly passed away. It sent me into a depression that took a lot of therapy for me to overcome, I took a two-week break from school, but then I went back and pushed through, knowing that she would not want me to stop. Eventually, I was able to finish and defend my thesis and finish my master's program after 2.5 years.
My next and final step in my education was getting my Ph.D. to become a licensed psychologist. I applied to several programs and ended up being admitted to USF. I was so excited; however, that is when another obstacle occurred. All of a sudden, I had dizzy spells, and I did not know why. When I went to the doctor, I was told it was likely vertigo, the result of a horrible ear infection; I could no longer walk straight and could no longer drive. However, in 6 months, I had to move to a new state. So, I did what I had to do to get better; I had to take time off work every week to attend physical therapy, where we worked on getting my balance back, it took 5 months, but it worked. Now I am a 2nd-year Ph.D. student in my program. I still have struggles, but I know there is nothing I cannot overcome at this point in my life. As long as I am working towards the goal of helping others, there is no adversity I cannot overcome.