The All American Drug
By: William Ellis
During my high school career, I have met many different people. After all this time, I can say that everyone seems caught up in a flurry of greed and self. So many of my generation become wrapped up in their own reflections that they forget what matters in life. When I started taking college classes, I decided to sign up for sociology in order to better understand culture and demographics. While I never expected to learn much, I found that culture is diverse, and it can be broken down into many different components. I saw this as an opportunity to break down my own culture, and I was absolutely appalled. I didn’t understand why we put so much emphasis on materialism until I looked into one of America’s oldest ideals-the American dream.
Throughout our history as a nation, we have encouraged our young people to search for the golden light. ‘Reach for the stars’ is a common aphorism, but why do we follow it? The idea of the American dream has been around for decades, so it has become a commonly associated cultural staple. However, it is unhealthy how an older ideal has come to rule and dictate the lives of many American citizens. For this reason, many Americans see money-hungry workaholics as immoral. At the same time, there are still many corporate executives who work to gain their white picket fence story. If the populace understands how toxic money can be, why is wealth so important? What is it about American culture that defines one’s worth based on material standards as opposed to virtue? Why do we crave success so much? Why can’t we just be normal?
In order to understand why the American dream isn’t healthy for us, we must first deconstruct it. After all, we cannot use a word without knowing the definition. The American dream is defined by the belief that hard work will lead to success, and financial stability is essential when it comes to happiness and satisfaction. However, this one-size-fits-all interpretation of life is extremely superficial. It doesn’t take into account someone’s current financial situation and what it would take to rise in ranks. When it comes to business, there is no exact algorithm of success because everyone succeeds due to their differences. As we can see, the ideal seems quite vague and plastic.
In addition to its lack of clarity, the American dream doesn’t take into account what kind of happiness people truly want. The American dream says that money brings happiness, but is this really true? In order to accumulate wealth, some millionaires and billionaires spend their whole life working to achieve their goals. While their dedication is admirable, what does that money mean? Simply put, how much is that money worth? Money can’t be spent if one is too busy accumulating more. In addition, why waste your time? Money can’t afford a true friend or time. Personally, I don’t understand why one would want a private jet when they would lose all the time they could have with their loved ones.
Furthermore, I have found that the American dream also perpetuates a “trendy” culture. Throughout high school, I’ve seen droves of unfortunate teens flock from one faulty fashion to another. While I’ve never been one to conform, I don’t understand why it is so important to follow someone else’s path. When we conform to cultural beauty and ideological standards, we surrender our individuality, creativity, and self-worth. Many offer up their souls to plastic idols in hope of popularity, and it’s so unfortunate. Instead of promoting following one person’s decisions, we should promote starting our own trends.
Clearly, we can see that the American dream can spiral out of control if we don’t analyze how it affects us. The only question that remains is how do we stop it. It is simple: start your own culture. I learned in high school that we are not numbers-we can have our own opinions and beliefs. During my high school years, I created my own culture by refusing to conform. I decided to wear different clothes and believe in different principles that many of my generation did not believe in. After all, we can’t expect change if we don’t inspire it.
Altogether, I want to change how we see ourselves and each other. We don’t all have to be looking for dollar bills all over the place. We can be lovers, explorers, or helpers. We can be anything that we want to so long as we are willing to work for it. In conclusion, we as a nation need to understand our unhealthy relationship with money and need to inspire a counterculture to stop our addiction.