# The Impact of My Grandmother on My Life and Future Goals When I think about the person I am today, one of the first people who comes to mind is my grandmother. She was the woman who raised me, helped shape my values, and taught me lessons I still carry with me every day. Growing up under her care meant being raised with a strict Southern upbringing, where respect, discipline, hard work, and accountability were expected. She wasn't always easy on me, but I understand now that her strictness came from wanting me to become a strong, responsible person who could stand on my own. She taught me that life would not always be easy, but I should never let difficult circumstances stop me from working toward my goals. Since her passing, I have reflected on those lessons more than ever. Losing her has left a void in my life, and continuing my college journey without her has been harder than I ever imagined. Still, the values she instilled in me remind me why I must keep pushing forward. My grandmother taught me to be independent, resilient, and determined. She encouraged me to take pride in myself and never give up simply because something became difficult. Her lessons helped me understand the importance of education and building a better future through hard work. As I began pursuing my college degree, I carried those lessons with me and remembered the strength and discipline she taught me whenever I faced challenges. Losing my grandmother has been one of the most painful experiences of my life. Because she played such a significant role in raising me, her passing has been difficult to process. Grieving while balancing schoolwork, employment, and personal responsibilities has made completing college more challenging than I anticipated. There have been times when staying focused and motivated felt overwhelming because I was learning to live without someone who had always been such an important part of my life. Despite these challenges, I have continued working toward my educational goals. I have learned that moving forward does not mean forgetting the person I lost. Instead, it means finding ways to carry their influence with me. I am learning to be patient with myself, appreciate my progress, and keep going even when things feel difficult. My grandmother taught me not to quit when life gets hard, and that lesson means more to me now than ever. My future goals include completing my associate degree in liberal arts and continuing my education toward a bachelor's degree. I also hope to advance my career in youth development and pursue leadership opportunities where I can make a positive difference in the lives of children and families. Being raised by my grandmother showed me how much guidance, consistency, and encouragement can influence a person's life. I want to provide young people with that same support and help them recognize their potential, even when they face obstacles. Ultimately, my grandmother's influence will always be part of who I am. Although losing her has made my college journey more difficult, it has also reminded me why finishing matters so much. Earning my degree represents my determination to build a better future and honor the values she taught me. I want to make her proud by pursuing my dreams and using what I have learned from her to positively impact others. No matter how challenging the journey becomes, I am determined to finish what I started and carry her legacy forward.

Faith and My Journey Faith has been the foundation that has carried me through some of the most challenging seasons of my life. There were times when I questioned whether I was on the right path, especially when I found myself working one dead-end job after another. Although I was grateful to have employment, I knew I was capable of more. I wanted a career that gave me purpose, financial stability, and the opportunity to make a positive impact. No matter how hard I worked, it felt like I was just getting by instead of moving forward. During those difficult years, I often prayed for direction. I trusted that God had a greater plan for my life, even when I could not see it. My faith reminded me that setbacks are not the end of the story and that perseverance, combined with trust in God, can open doors that seem impossible. Scriptures like Jeremiah 29:11, which says, "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future," gave me hope when I felt discouraged. Eventually, I decided to take a leap of faith and start my own event planning business. It was one of the scariest decisions I have ever made because there were no guarantees of success. I stepped away from the comfort of simply working for someone else and invested in myself, trusting that God would guide my steps. Building a business has required long hours, patience, and determination, but I have already seen God's faithfulness throughout the journey. Things are beginning to go much smoother than they once did, and I am grateful for every opportunity that has come my way. While I know there is still room to grow, I can clearly see that taking that leap of faith was one of the best decisions I have ever made. My faith has also encouraged me to continue pursuing my education. I believe God calls us to use the talents He has given us and to continue learning so we can better serve others. Going to college has not always been easy, but I know that earning my degree will equip me with additional knowledge and skills that will help me grow both personally and professionally. I see my education as another step in fulfilling God's purpose for my life. As I continue my career, I believe my faith will guide the way I lead and serve others. Whether I am planning events, working with clients, or expanding my business, I want to treat every person with kindness, honesty, and integrity. I want my business to reflect my values by creating meaningful experiences while building genuine relationships with the people I serve. Looking back, I realize that God never abandoned me during the difficult seasons. He used those experiences to strengthen my character, deepen my faith, and prepare me for greater opportunities. Today, I have hope because I know my future is not determined by the jobs I once had but by the purpose God has placed in my life. My faith gives me the confidence to continue pursuing my education, growing my business, and trusting that God will continue to direct my path.

Mental illness has had a significant impact on my life and my family's ability to pursue higher education. My grandmother lived with bipolar disorder, I have struggled with depression and anxiety, and all of my sisters have experienced depression. These mental health challenges have affected my family in different ways, creating emotional, financial, and personal obstacles that made pursuing a college education much more difficult than I ever imagined. Growing up, I saw how bipolar disorder affected my grandmother and the people who loved and cared for her. As I got older, I began facing my own struggles with depression and anxiety. There were days when it was difficult to stay motivated, concentrate on schoolwork, or believe in myself. At the same time, watching my sisters navigate their own battles with depression reminded me that mental illness does not affect just one person, it affects entire families. We leaned on one another for support while trying to manage responsibilities, maintain hope, and keep moving forward. These experiences made attending college especially challenging. Balancing my mental health with work, family responsibilities, and academics often felt overwhelming. There were times when I questioned whether I could continue, but I refused to let my circumstances define my future. Instead, I chose to keep taking one step at a time, knowing that earning a degree would create opportunities not only for me but also for my family. My experiences have taught me resilience, compassion, and perseverance. Living with depression and anxiety has given me a greater understanding of the invisible challenges many people face every day. It has also inspired me to be more patient, supportive, and understanding of others. Rather than allowing these experiences to discourage me, I have used them as motivation to pursue an education and build a future where I can make a positive impact in my community. Receiving this scholarship would reduce the financial burden of completing my education and allow me to focus more fully on achieving my academic goals. I believe education is one of the most powerful tools for breaking cycles of hardship and creating opportunities for future generations. My goal is to earn my degree, continue growing professionally, and use my experiences to encourage others who may feel that their circumstances are preventing them from reaching their potential. Although mental illness has shaped my family's journey, it has not taken away our hope. My grandmother's battle with bipolar disorder, my own experiences with depression and anxiety, and my sisters' struggles with depression have shown me the importance of perseverance, compassion, and never giving up. These experiences have strengthened my determination to succeed. With the support of this scholarship, I will continue pursuing my education, building a meaningful career, and demonstrating that even in the face of significant challenges, it is possible to achieve your goals and make a positive difference in the lives of others.

Vincent Howard Rochester NY Southern New Hampshire University As a nonprofit educator, I've had the opportunity to contribute to the betterment of young people, and one incident in particular remains vivid. During my time as a mentor for HS, I observed that the boy who was struggling at home had significant issues with both academic and emotional development. He frequently entered the program feeling sluggish and uninterested, leading to poor academic performance. My focus was on establishing a personal connection with him, regardless of the academic level.' His daily check-ins, assignments, and listening were all ways I observed him gradually become more open. One afternoon, he told me: "I was first you saw, so I knew for sure that presence and consistency could do the trick.". His grades had improved, he was more engaged in class, and a friend started helping his classmates at the end of the school year. The experience reinforced my belief that all students can achieve success when they are listened to, heard well, and believed in. I believe that the most significant aspect of education should be a truly equitable and culturally sensitive system. A significant number of students, particularly those in underprivileged areas, are pursuing education that does not accurately represent their true identities, backgrounds, or abilities. This is an issue. Schools that are poorly funded, have outdated materials, and a lack of culturally relevant courses are common obstacles for these students. From my perspective, students are entitled to an education that not only provides equal access but also offers education as a means of asserting their individuality, needs, and abilities. This involves promoting more diverse educational settings, teaching administrators how to recognize and confront prejudices, and equipping students with the skills to engage in critical thinking. The attainment of equal education is essential if we are to ensure that all students achieve their goals. I would honestly have to say all of my high school teachers at the Teaching and Learning Institute in East High School were a catalyst for me to pursue education, which has left me hooked. Their confidence in me was unbreakable. My abilities were uncovered by them, and they fostered my confidence by inspiring me to take charge, reflect, and explore the possibility of contributing in the future. Their love for teaching and dedication to students resonated with me. The connection was what motivated me to pursue education at Johnson C. My academic pursuits at Smith University were centered on education and mathematics as minors. In my work with young people, I am constantly reminded of the power of educators to change lives not only through their teaching methods but also through the cultivation of relationships, by modeling compassion, and elevating student behavior to meet high standards. From a student to an entrepreneur, I've witnessed the transformative power of education in action. My goal is to be a part of the transformation, which involves not only helping students excel in school but also creating societal systems that allow for visibility, encouragement, and support.

At the age of 37, I find myself at a significant juncture in my journey, one that has been influenced by a profound and enduring passion for education, as well as a commitment to assisting young individuals in realizing their fullest potential. From my earliest years, I recognized the power of knowledge and the critical role that strong, compassionate educators play in shaping the future. This understanding has shaped my path and continues to guide my efforts today. I commenced my formal educational journey at East High School, where I participated in the Teaching and Learning Institute. It was in this environment that my passion for education was nurtured and cultivated. Surrounded by mentors who recognized my potential, I excelled academically and graduated with a GPA of 3.8—an accomplishment that reflects both my dedication and my enthusiasm for learning. Motivated to further my development, I pursued higher education at Johnson C. Smith University. There, I majored in Education and minored in Mathematics, thereby establishing a robust foundation in both pedagogy and subject matter expertise. My experiences at Johnson C. Smith deepened my understanding of the essential role educators fulfill, not merely in classrooms, but also within communities. I came to regard teaching not solely as a profession, but as a vocation, one that requires patience, vision, and a genuine belief in the potential of every student. Presently, I am engaged in the nonprofit education sector in Rochester, NY, where I remain dedicated to supporting and inspiring youth. My role affords me the opportunity to interact with young individuals from diverse backgrounds, assisting them in navigating challenges, cultivating confidence, and developing the skills necessary for success. Whether through mentoring, facilitating workshops, or supporting enrichment programs, I strive to serve as a positive influence and a source of encouragement. In addition to my professional endeavors, I also coach step and dance, creative outlets that empower youth to express themselves while learning the values of discipline, teamwork, and self-respect. These experiences outside the classroom frequently serve as catalysts for growth within the academic setting, and I take pride in aiding students as they discover their voices and strengths through movement and performance. Looking forward, my objective is to continue expanding my impact in the realm of education. I aspire to become a certified educator, leading my own classroom and fostering inclusive learning environments where students feel acknowledged, supported, and challenged to reach their utmost potential. Education has transformed my life, and I am now committed to employing my experiences, skills, and passion to positively influence the lives of others.