Entering the gates of my university, I was uncertain about my future – it was a bastion of elitism and wealth, filled with students who had a story, a purpose, and often, a history within a space like Yale. They had, and were called, legacies. To me, legacy quickly became synonymous with privilege – a story of descent from consistent cycles of success. I soon realized that my story, and my family’s “legacy,” was not one of material wealth, nor did we have access to that wealth. It was of struggle, impact, community, and rebuilding, over and over.
Telling my story reminded me that being unlike those with financial wealth doesn’t make me legacy-less. Instead, I am the next iteration of my family’s legacy, building upon and expanding the foundation they too built upon. As I navigate life, I am reminded of legacies built, stories told, collective experiences, and impacts made. Legacy is an ever-evolving story that functions as an individual path, built brick by brick, and as part of a collective experience that imprints itself in varying ways.
Legacy is persistence. Often, I reflect on my name, Viktor, named after my paternal great grandfather who passed away fighting Nazis in WWII. His heroism and passion for freedom played a role in freeing my maternal family, trapped in Nazi-occupied Ukraine, only by happenstance escaping the Babi Yar massacre. These same survivors rebuilt, establishing a life in Soviet states, warding off Antisemitism while cementing themselves as neighborhood doctors, like my paternal grandfather, seamstresses, like my maternal grandmother, and repairmen, like my maternal grandfather. When Soviet pogroms made it impossible to remain, they fled and rebuilt in the US, supported by and then supporting those around them, building new interconnected communities.
Legacy is impact. My maternal grandfather passed away in 2023. Since then, my mother has worked diligently to see his remaining family members, from Connecticut, all the way to Estonia. Each new cousin, second uncle, great aunt, or distantly connected relative spoke of my grandfather’s kindness, his diligent and masterful work, and stories of his prized boat, back in Kiev. They recalled his love for animals and showed me the items he repaired, from TVs to woodwork, out of the kindness in his heart. He remains integral to our family, even as many had last seen him prior to the fall of the USSR. His memory is a blessing and his legacy an inspiring impact.
In my upbringing, I continuously hear stories of my family – lessons from my dad to not drink boiling hot tea the way his grandfather did, or my grandfather dumping a bowl of noodle soup on my mom’s head when she was younger. These stories build legacy, providing deeper context into the experiences that brought me into the very moment I am in, creating my own story. They are interwoven, paint character, and build community. Often, in decision-making, I think of the headstrong, yet goodwill character that remains as part of my grandfather’s legacy, something I believe my siblings and mother do as well. Never having met my paternal grandmother, I too reflect on her benevolent legacy that has been imparted onto those who, regardless of lifetimes, are connected to her. The legacy of those before me, alongside me, and ahead of me push me to build community, so that when my story is to be told, it is a continued story of my namesake, great grandpa Viktor, the story of those I know little of, and the ones who continue to inspire me today, to do good, build camaraderie, and persist to make an impact.