Age
19
Gender
Female
Ethnicity
Black/African, Hispanic/Latino
Religion
Christian
Church
Catholic
Hobbies and interests
French
Reading
Environment
I read books daily
US CITIZENSHIP
US Citizen
LOW INCOME STUDENT
Yes
FIRST GENERATION STUDENT
Yes
Victoria Charles
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FinalistBio
I am Victoria Charles, an enthusiastic and committed environmental studies major with a legal studies minor at Queens College. My academic journey has fueled my passion for environmental protection and policy, and I am now focused on advancing my career in the environmental policy sector.
Through my experiences as a Community Engaged Intern with NOAA and as a Natural Areas and Nature Based Features (NNBF) Intern with the Natural Areas Conservancy, I have gained valuable hands-on experience in environmental stewardship, public engagement, and ecological assessment. These roles have not only sharpened my skills but also deepened my commitment to driving positive change in environmental policy.
Looking forward, I plan to pursue a Master of Science in Environmental Policy. This advanced degree will equip me with the knowledge and skills necessary to contribute effectively to the creation and implementation of policies that protect our environment and promote sustainability.
My diverse experiences have helped me develop core competencies in legal writing, policy research, public speaking, and community outreach. I am eager to continue building on these skills and making a meaningful impact in the field of environmental policy.
Education
CUNY Queens College
Bachelor's degree programMajors:
- Geography and Environmental Studies
- Environmental/Natural Resources Management and Policy
- Environmental/Environmental Health Engineering
Minors:
- Law
Jamaica Gateway To The Sciences
High SchoolMiscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Master's degree program
Graduate schools of interest:
Transfer schools of interest:
Majors of interest:
- Plant Sciences
- Environmental/Natural Resources Management and Policy
- Geography and Environmental Studies
- Community/Environmental/Socially-Engaged Art
Career
Dream career field:
Renewables & Environment
Dream career goals:
Environmental Policy!
Community Engaged Internship
NOAA: National Oceanic & Atmospheric Administration2024 – Present12 monthsNatural Areas and Nature Based Features (NNBF) Intern
Natural Areas Conservancy2024 – 2024Intern for Senator Stavisky
NYC GOV2024 – 2024CUNY Caucus Scholars Program
The City University of New York2024 – 2024Account Manager
STATE FARM2023 – 20241 yearUrban Planner
NYC PARKS2022 – 20231 year
Sports
Soccer
Intramural2017 – 20236 years
Research
Environmental/Natural Resources Management and Policy
Natural Areas Conservancy — Natural Areas and Nature Based Features (NNBF) Intern2024 – 2024
Arts
Jamaica Gateway to the Sciences
Dance2019 – 2020
Public services
Volunteering
NYC PARKS — Urban Planner2022 – 2023
Future Interests
Advocacy
Politics
Volunteering
Entrepreneurship
Vegan Teens Are The Future Scholarship
My decision to become a vegan was born out of a deep commitment to environmental stewardship and social justice, principles that have guided much of my personal and academic journey. As someone who has always been passionate about protecting the environment and advocating for marginalized communities, veganism became a natural extension of these values. The more I learned about the environmental impact of animal agriculture and the ethical implications of consuming animal products, the more I realized that adopting a vegan lifestyle was not just a personal choice, but a necessary step toward living in alignment with my beliefs.
Veganism is important to me because it represents a holistic approach to addressing some of the most pressing issues of our time—environmental degradation, animal rights, and social justice. The environmental impact of animal agriculture is profound, contributing to deforestation, water pollution, and greenhouse gas emissions. By choosing a plant-based diet, I am actively reducing my carbon footprint and minimizing my contribution to these harmful practices. Moreover, veganism challenges the systemic exploitation of animals and promotes a more compassionate way of living, one that recognizes the intrinsic value of all living beings.
In addition to the environmental and ethical aspects, veganism also resonates with my commitment to social justice. The industrial food system disproportionately affects marginalized communities, particularly in terms of access to healthy, affordable food and exposure to environmental harms. By advocating for veganism, I am also advocating for a more equitable food system—one that prioritizes sustainability, health, and justice for all.
As I continue my education in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies at Queens College, I am increasingly focused on how I can use my knowledge and skills to advance the vegan movement. My experiences as a Community Engaged Intern with NOAA and my work in environmental stewardship have shown me the power of education and community engagement in driving change. I plan to use these experiences to promote veganism through a multifaceted approach that includes advocacy, policy work, and community education.
In the future, I aspire to work in environmental law and policy, with a focus on advocating for sustainable food systems and stronger protections for both animals and the environment. I believe that legal frameworks play a crucial role in shaping our food systems and that by working to influence these policies, I can help create a world where plant-based diets are not only accessible but also prioritized for the sake of the planet and all its inhabitants.
Moreover, I am passionate about continuing to engage with communities to raise awareness about the benefits of veganism. Whether through organizing educational workshops, participating in policy discussions, or leading community-based initiatives, I am committed to using my platform to inspire others to make more conscious and compassionate choices. I also envision collaborating with environmental organizations, like those I’ve worked with during my internships, to integrate veganism into broader environmental advocacy efforts.
Ultimately, my dream is to contribute to a future where veganism is widely embraced as a key component of a just and sustainable world. I want to help dismantle the barriers that prevent people from adopting plant-based lifestyles and to advocate for policies that support this transition. By combining my passion for environmental justice with my commitment to veganism, I believe I can play a meaningful role in growing the movement and creating lasting change for the planet and all its inhabitants.
Bright Lite Scholarship
One of the most impactful experiences in contributing to my community came during my time as a Community Engaged Intern with the National Oceanic and Atmospheric Administration (NOAA) in New York. This internship provided me with the unique opportunity to merge my academic background in Environmental Studies and Legal Studies with practical, hands-on work in environmental justice. My role involved collaborating closely with local communities to tackle pressing environmental challenges, enhance ecological resilience, and promote sustainable practices that aligned with both environmental needs and social equity.
A significant part of my contribution was through conducting environmental stewardship projects that were deeply rooted in advancing environmental law and justice. One such project focused on addressing shoreline erosion in vulnerable communities, where rising sea levels and poor land management practices had led to increased flooding and habitat degradation. Working alongside local residents, environmental scientists, and policymakers, I helped to develop and implement strategies that not only mitigated these issues but also empowered the community to take active roles in the stewardship of their local environment.
We conducted workshops to educate residents on the importance of maintaining natural barriers, such as marshlands and native vegetation, which are crucial in protecting against erosion. Additionally, we engaged the community in hands-on activities, like planting native species and restoring degraded areas, which fostered a sense of ownership and responsibility toward their environment. The collaboration didn’t just stop at physical restoration; it extended into policy advocacy, where I worked with local leaders to push for stronger environmental protections and equitable resource allocation for these communities.
This experience was profoundly rewarding because it allowed me to witness the direct impact of our efforts. Seeing the community come together to address their challenges, and knowing that I played a role in facilitating that change, reinforced my dedication to environmental justice. It also highlighted the importance of a holistic approach—one that integrates scientific research, community insights, and policy advocacy—to create sustainable and equitable solutions.
Looking ahead, I plan to continue making a difference by pursuing a career in environmental law and policy, with a focus on addressing systemic environmental injustices that disproportionately affect marginalized communities. My future aspirations include advocating for stronger environmental protections at both the local and national levels and working to ensure that all communities, regardless of their socioeconomic status, have access to clean air, water, and green spaces.
Moreover, I intend to stay deeply involved in community engagement and education. My experience with NOAA underscored the power of knowledge and the role it plays in empowering communities to advocate for themselves. Whether it’s through leading workshops, developing educational programs, or participating in policy discussions, I am committed to using my skills and experiences to help others protect and improve their environments.
In conclusion, my time as a Community Engaged Intern with NOAA was a pivotal moment in my journey toward making a lasting impact in my community. It reinforced my belief that positive change is possible when people come together with a shared purpose and that by combining education, advocacy, and hands-on action, we can create a more just and sustainable world. I am excited to continue this work in the future, driven by the knowledge that each contribution, no matter how small, can lead to significant and lasting change.
TEAM ROX Scholarship
My journey toward helping others be their best has been shaped by a combination of personal experiences, academic pursuits, and a deep commitment to social and environmental justice. Over the years, I have developed skills that allow me to empower others, foster resilience, and inspire positive change in the communities I care about.
One of the foundational aspects of my development has been my academic journey. As a student majoring in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies, I have immersed myself in understanding the intricate connections between people, their environments, and the legal frameworks that govern them. Through my coursework and internships, I have gained valuable knowledge about environmental justice, community advocacy, and the importance of equitable access to resources. This academic foundation has not only equipped me with the tools to analyze complex issues but has also deepened my passion for helping others navigate and overcome the challenges they face.
However, my growth has not been limited to the classroom. My experiences outside of academia have played a crucial role in shaping my skills and purpose. During my time as an Urban Park Ranger intern with Senator Toby Ann Stavisky’s office, I coordinated habitat restoration projects, supervised volunteer initiatives, and organized educational events focused on sustainable practices. These experiences taught me the importance of community engagement and the power of collective action. I saw firsthand how providing people with the knowledge and tools they need can inspire them to take ownership of their environment and contribute to the well-being of their communities.
One of the most significant ways I have developed my skills in helping others has been through mentorship. As a mentor to younger students and peers, I have learned to listen actively, offer guidance, and provide support tailored to their individual needs. Mentorship has taught me the value of patience and empathy, as well as the importance of fostering a safe and supportive environment where others feel comfortable sharing their struggles and aspirations. By helping others recognize their strengths and navigate their challenges, I have been able to contribute to their personal and academic growth.
My passion for helping others be their best extends beyond individual interactions to a broader commitment to social and environmental justice. I am driven by the belief that everyone deserves the opportunity to thrive, regardless of their background or circumstances. This belief has guided my involvement in various community initiatives, such as leading water quality education projects and advocating for environmental justice in underserved neighborhoods. Through these efforts, I strive to empower communities by providing them with the resources and knowledge they need to create positive change.
In addition to my hands-on experiences, I have also honed my communication and leadership skills. Whether it’s through public speaking, organizing events, or collaborating with diverse groups of people, I have learned how to effectively convey ideas, inspire action, and bring people together toward a common goal. These skills have been instrumental in my ability to advocate for others and help them realize their potential.
Ultimately, my purpose and passion for helping others be their best stem from a deep sense of responsibility and a desire to make a meaningful impact in the world. I am committed to using my skills, knowledge, and experiences to uplift others, whether it’s through environmental advocacy, mentorship, or community service. I believe that by helping others realize their potential, we can collectively work toward a more just, equitable, and sustainable future. This mission drives me every day and continues to shape my path forward.
Emma Jane Hastie Scholarship
I’m Victoria Charles, a sophomore at Queens College, majoring in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies. As an aspiring environmental lawyer, I’m deeply passionate about addressing environmental injustices and advocating for marginalized communities who are disproportionately affected by environmental issues. My experiences have shaped my commitment to making a meaningful impact in the world, particularly in the realm of environmental stewardship and justice.
Growing up as a Black Caribbean woman, I’ve always been aware of the disparities that exist in our society, especially when it comes to the environment. This awareness fueled my desire to pursue a career where I could make a difference, not just in theory, but in tangible ways that directly benefit communities. My journey toward this goal has been marked by a series of experiences that have taught me the value of service, resilience, and the importance of uplifting others.
One of the most impactful experiences I’ve had in serving my community was during my time as an Urban Park Ranger intern with Senator Toby Ann Stavisky’s office. In this role, I coordinated habitat restoration projects, supervised volunteer initiatives for tree planting and park cleanup, and organized educational events on sustainable practices. These activities were not just about improving the environment; they were about empowering the community to take ownership of their surroundings and instilling a sense of pride in our shared natural spaces.
A particularly memorable project was a tree-planting initiative in a neighborhood that had been historically underserved and lacked green spaces. Many of the residents had never participated in such activities before, and some were initially hesitant to get involved. However, as we explained the long-term benefits of increasing green spaces—such as reducing flooding, improving air quality, and providing shade—they began to see the value in what we were doing. By the end of the project, not only had we planted dozens of trees, but we had also fostered a sense of community among the participants. They were no longer just residents of a neighborhood; they were stewards of their environment, working together to create a healthier, more sustainable future.
This experience was deeply rewarding for me. It reinforced my belief that positive change is possible when people come together with a shared purpose. It also taught me the importance of education in fostering that change. By providing people with the knowledge and tools they need to make a difference, we empower them to take action and become advocates for their communities.
Beyond the immediate impact of these projects, I believe that the true measure of success lies in the lasting effects on the community. The trees we planted will continue to grow and provide benefits for years to come, but more importantly, the sense of empowerment and community that was fostered during the project will hopefully inspire further action and advocacy. I’m proud to have played a role in that process, and it’s experiences like these that drive me to continue my work in environmental justice.
In the future, I hope to expand my impact on a larger scale, using my education and experiences to address environmental issues through legal avenues. Whether it’s fighting for policy changes or representing communities in environmental lawsuits, I’m committed to using my skills and passion to make a positive difference. My experiences in serving my community have shown me that change is possible, and I’m excited to continue this journey of advocacy and action.
Ethel Hayes Destigmatization of Mental Health Scholarship
My experience with mental health has profoundly shaped my goals, relationships, and overall understanding of the world. Navigating my own mental health journey has taught me the importance of self-awareness, resilience, and empathy—qualities that have become central to who I am and what I aspire to achieve.
In terms of my goals, my struggles with mental health have fueled my passion for pursuing a career in environmental law and justice. I understand the importance of advocating for those who may not have the resources or the voice to fight for themselves, whether it’s individuals or entire communities. The challenges I’ve faced have made me more determined to create meaningful change, particularly in areas that are often overlooked or marginalized. I’ve learned that true justice isn’t just about legal outcomes; it’s about understanding and addressing the underlying issues that contribute to inequality and suffering.
My relationships have also been deeply influenced by my mental health experiences. I’ve learned to prioritize emotional intimacy and connection, recognizing that healthy relationships are built on mutual support and understanding. This has led me to cultivate relationships that are genuine and nurturing, while also setting boundaries with those who may drain my energy or negatively impact my well-being. I’ve also become more empathetic towards others, understanding that everyone has their own battles, even if they aren’t immediately visible.
Finally, my understanding of the world has evolved to include a more nuanced view of human experience. I recognize that life isn’t always black and white, and that people’s actions and decisions are often influenced by factors beyond their control. This has made me more compassionate and patient, both with myself and with others. I’ve come to appreciate the complexities of the human experience, and I’m committed to making a positive impact in the world by advocating for justice, equality, and mental well-being.
Black Leaders Scholarship
In honor of Black History Month, I want to highlight the profound influence of Wangari Maathai, a trailblazing environmental and political leader, who has deeply inspired my journey as an aspiring environmental lawyer and advocate. Born in Kenya, Wangari Maathai became the first African woman to receive the Nobel Peace Prize in 2004 for her work in sustainable development, democracy, and peace. Her life and work resonate with me on multiple levels, particularly as a Black Caribbean woman committed to environmental justice and community empowerment.
Wangari Maathai’s story is one of resilience, courage, and unwavering dedication to both her people and the environment. She founded the Green Belt Movement in 1977, an environmental organization focused on tree planting, environmental conservation, and women's rights. Through this movement, Maathai empowered thousands of women in Kenya, encouraging them to plant trees to combat deforestation, restore their lands, and earn an income. Her work was not just about planting trees; it was about planting seeds of change in a society that often overlooked the voices of women and the importance of sustainable practices.
What inspires me most about Wangari Maathai is her ability to connect environmental issues with social justice. She recognized that the environment and human rights are deeply intertwined, and she fought tirelessly to ensure that marginalized communities had a say in how their natural resources were managed. Her vision of environmental stewardship was not limited to conservation; it was about creating a just and equitable society where everyone, regardless of their gender or economic status, could thrive.
As a first-generation college student majoring in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies, I am driven by the same values that guided Maathai’s work. My parents, who immigrated to the United States from Dominica and Haiti, have instilled in me the importance of education, hard work, and giving back to the community. Their journey, coupled with the inspiration I draw from leaders like Wangari Maathai, has fueled my passion for addressing the environmental challenges that disproportionately affect marginalized communities, including those within the Black diaspora.
Maathai’s approach to environmental advocacy was holistic and inclusive, emphasizing the importance of community engagement and the empowerment of women. In my own work, I strive to follow her example by involving local communities in environmental projects and advocating for policies that protect both the environment and the people who depend on it. Her legacy reminds me that true leadership is not just about personal achievements, but about uplifting others and making a lasting impact on the world.
Wangari Maathai’s life and work have profoundly shaped my understanding of what it means to be a leader in the fight for environmental and social justice. Her courage in the face of adversity, her unwavering commitment to her principles, and her ability to inspire change at both the grassroots and global levels continue to motivate me as I pursue my own path. In honoring her legacy, I am reminded that the work of building a just and sustainable world is ongoing and that each of us has a role to play in making that vision a reality.
Maida Brkanovic Memorial Scholarship
My name is Victoria Charles, and I am a first-generation college student with roots in the Caribbean. My father was born in Dominica, and my mother was born in Haiti. Their journeys to the United States were fueled by dreams of a better life, not just for themselves but for their future children. As their daughter, I carry the weight and honor of their sacrifices, and it has profoundly shaped my beliefs about life and the way I navigate the world.
Growing up as the child of immigrants, I witnessed firsthand the challenges that come with starting over in a new country. My parents faced language barriers, economic hardships, and the daunting task of building a new life from the ground up. Despite these challenges, they instilled in me the values of hard work, perseverance, and a deep sense of responsibility to give back to the community. These values have become the cornerstone of my identity and have greatly influenced my beliefs about life.
Being a first-generation student means more than just being the first in my family to attend college; it means carrying the hopes and dreams of my parents and honoring their sacrifices by pursuing the opportunities they never had. This responsibility has fueled my ambition to succeed academically and to use my education as a tool for creating positive change in the world. I am currently studying Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies at Queens College, where I am dedicated to addressing the environmental issues that disproportionately affect marginalized communities, including those in my own Caribbean heritage.
My experience as a first-generation student has taught me the importance of resilience and determination. There have been times when the path forward seemed uncertain, and I questioned whether I could overcome the challenges ahead. But each time, I reminded myself of my parents' journey—their courage, their perseverance, and their unwavering belief in the power of education. Their stories have inspired me to push through adversity and to see challenges as opportunities for growth.
In addition to my academic pursuits, I have also committed myself to serving my community, much like Maida Brkanovic did. I have been actively involved in environmental advocacy and education, particularly in underserved communities. Through my internships and volunteer work, I have led projects aimed at promoting environmental awareness and sustainability, with a focus on empowering young people to take action in their own communities. This work has been deeply fulfilling, and it has reinforced my belief in the importance of selflessness and service to others.
The values that my parents instilled in me, combined with my experiences as a first-generation student, have shaped my belief that we all have a responsibility to contribute to the greater good. I believe that true success is not measured by personal achievements alone but by the impact we have on others and the world around us. This belief drives my commitment to community service and my passion for environmental justice.
Receiving the Maida Brkanovic Memorial Scholarship would be an incredible honor and would further enable me to continue my education and my work in service of others. It would allow me to carry forward the legacy of selflessness that Maida embodied, while also honoring the sacrifices of my parents and the resilience they passed down to me. With this scholarship, I am committed to using my education and my voice to make a positive difference in the world, just as Maida did.
Diva of Halo Legacy Scholarship
My name is Victoria Charles, and I am a proud bisexual Caribbean woman living in New York. My identity has been a guiding force in my life, shaping my experiences, values, and aspirations. Growing up in a vibrant yet often challenging environment, I developed a deep sense of resilience and a passion for advocating for justice—both environmental and social. As I’ve navigated the complexities of my identity, I’ve come to understand the importance of intersectionality in all areas of life, particularly in the fight for equity and justice.
Environmental advocacy is my greatest passion, with a specific focus on the intersection of environmental justice and policy. I am currently pursuing a degree in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies at Queens College, where I am dedicated to addressing the pressing environmental issues that disproportionately affect marginalized communities, including those within the LGBTQIA+ community. My ultimate goal is to become an environmental lawyer who champions the rights of these communities, ensuring that everyone, regardless of their background or identity, has access to a safe and healthy environment.
Being a member of the LGBTQIA+ community has profoundly shaped my goals and dreams. It has taught me the value of visibility, representation, and standing up for what is right, even when the odds are against you. My identity has fueled my commitment to advocating for those who are often overlooked or marginalized, both in environmental justice and in broader societal contexts. I have personally experienced the challenges of being part of a community that is frequently misunderstood and marginalized. This understanding drives my commitment to ensuring that all voices are heard and respected in the fight for environmental justice.
Coco Chanel’s legacy is one of innovation, boldness, and breaking barriers—qualities that resonate deeply with me as I navigate my own path in life. To me, continuing Coco's legacy means using this scholarship to further my education and empower myself to make a meaningful difference in the world. The financial support would allow me to focus on my studies, engage in impactful internships, and gain the knowledge and experience needed to drive change in my community and beyond. It would also enable me to continue my involvement in community outreach, particularly in educating and inspiring young people from diverse backgrounds to take action in their own communities.
In pursuing a career in environmental law, I intend to honor Coco’s legacy by being a catalyst for change, challenging the status quo, and advocating for a more equitable and just world. I believe that true progress is made when we embrace our identities, leverage our unique perspectives, and use our passions to create positive change. This scholarship would not only support my academic journey but also empower me to continue Coco’s legacy by being a force for good in the world.
I am committed to making a difference, not just in the field of environmental advocacy but also in the broader fight for social justice. With the support of this scholarship, I am confident that I can continue to build on Coco’s legacy by contributing to a world where all individuals, regardless of their identity, can thrive in a healthy and just environment.
HeySunday Eco-Innovation Scholarship
The most pressing environmental challenge we face today is undeniably climate change. Its far-reaching impacts are evident in rising global temperatures, increasingly frequent and severe natural disasters, and the profound disruption of ecosystems and communities worldwide. As the climate crisis accelerates, it threatens not only the natural world but also the well-being of millions of people, particularly those in vulnerable communities. Addressing climate change is not just an environmental imperative; it is a matter of social justice and equity.
Climate change is a complex issue that requires a multifaceted approach to address effectively. It demands coordinated efforts at the global, national, and local levels, as well as the involvement of individuals, businesses, and governments. While the challenge is daunting, I believe that meaningful change is possible through collective action and the implementation of sustainable solutions.
One of the ways I would like to contribute to solving the climate crisis is by advocating for and advancing environmental policies that prioritize sustainability and resilience. As a student majoring in Environmental Studies with a minor in Legal Studies, I have gained a deep understanding of the critical role that policy and law play in shaping environmental outcomes. I am particularly interested in working at the intersection of environmental science and law to develop policies that mitigate the impacts of climate change, promote renewable energy, and protect natural resources.
In addition to policy advocacy, I am committed to engaging communities in climate action through education and outreach. I have had the privilege of leading environmental education initiatives, such as the City Island Water Quality Education Initiative, where I worked with young students to raise awareness about environmental issues and inspire them to become active participants in conservation efforts. I believe that empowering individuals with knowledge and tools to take action is essential for driving the cultural and behavioral changes needed to address climate change.
Another area where I hope to make a difference is in promoting climate resilience in vulnerable communities. Climate change disproportionately affects marginalized communities, exacerbating existing inequalities and posing significant threats to their health, livelihoods, and safety. I am passionate about advancing environmental justice by advocating for policies and practices that protect these communities from the impacts of climate change and ensure they have access to the resources and support they need to adapt and thrive.
Ultimately, I envision a career where I can combine my passion for environmental advocacy with my legal studies to become an environmental lawyer. In this role, I hope to contribute to the fight against climate change by holding corporations and governments accountable for their environmental impact, supporting the development of sustainable practices, and ensuring that all communities have a voice in the decision-making processes that affect their environment.
The climate crisis is the defining challenge of our time, and it is one that requires urgent and sustained action. I am committed to being part of the solution by advocating for policies that address climate change, engaging communities in environmental action, and working to ensure that the transition to a sustainable future is equitable and just. Through these efforts, I hope to contribute to a world where both people and the planet can thrive.
Future of Environmental Science Scholarship
Dr. Edward V. Chavez Athletic Memorial Scholarship
Losing my father in July of 2022 was the hardest thing I’ve ever faced. It felt like the ground was ripped out from beneath me, and everything I once knew and relied on was suddenly gone. My father was more than just a parent; he was my rock, my guide, and the person who always had my back no matter what. His absence has left a void that I’m still learning how to navigate, and the process has been anything but easy.
The pain of losing him has been intense, sometimes overwhelming. There are days when the grief hits me out of nowhere, and it feels like I’m drowning in emotions that I don’t know how to process. I’ve had to learn how to live with this constant ache, to wake up every day and find a way to move forward, even when it feels like the world has lost its color.
One of the biggest challenges I’ve faced is learning how to be strong on my own. My father was my biggest supporter, and without him, I’ve had to figure out how to be my own cheerleader. It’s been a journey of self-discovery, pushing myself to grow and become more independent. I’ve had to find strength I didn’t know I had and develop resilience in the face of pain. This process has taught me that it’s okay to not have all the answers, and it’s okay to lean on others when I need to.
In the midst of all this, soccer has been my lifeline. My love for the game has been a constant source of comfort, a place where I can escape the pain and focus on something that brings me joy. Soccer has always been more than just a sport to me—it’s a passion, a way to connect with others, and a space where I feel free. On the field, I can lose myself in the rhythm of the game, the rush of adrenaline, and the satisfaction of giving my all. It’s been a crucial outlet for my emotions, allowing me to channel my grief into something positive.
Playing soccer has also taught me valuable life lessons that have helped me cope with losing my dad. The discipline, teamwork, and determination required in the sport have translated into other areas of my life. Soccer has given me a sense of purpose, something to strive for even on the hardest days. It’s reminded me that I’m capable of achieving great things, even in the face of adversity.
As I look to the future, I’m determined to turn this tragedy into something meaningful. I want to honor my father’s memory by using my experiences to help others who are going through similar losses. Whether it’s through mentoring, volunteering, or simply being there for someone who needs support, I’m committed to paying it forward. I know that my father would want me to live a life full of purpose and positivity, and that’s what I intend to do.
Soccer will continue to be a huge part of my journey. I want to use my love for the game to inspire others, to show them that even in the darkest times, there’s always a way to find light.