As the bright blue door finally shut and the sound of tiny tap shoes began to fade away, Samantha’s eyebrows furrowed in anticipation of her question. “She just won’t listen to me,” she said, “What should I do?” I searched deep into all areas of my brain for the perfect piece of advice, but what came out was my most authentic response: “I don't know.”
It was my first year as a dance teacher, the job I longed for ever since I took my first dance class at eight years old, and I was accountable for planning classes, teaching dance skills, and nurturing creativity. What I hadn’t anticipated, though, was the responsibility of training and mentoring assistants, preparing them to be teachers themselves. After all, I’d been an assistant myself for years before I began teaching. But on this day, when I racked my brain and came up with nothing; a long exhale withdrew from my lungs. I felt like a failure. I didn’t know exactly what I was going to do, but I knew I couldn’t give up.
Upon arriving home, I dove into my computer. My tabs were rapidly filled with classroom management videos, staff meeting notes, and messages with other dance teachers. Though exhausted, I combed through everything I could find until I gathered a few substantial ideas that would assist Samantha. When I saw her again, I was practically overflowing with ideas and suggestions. I spent the following weeks watching her take my advice and reach success with the challenging student.
Though I wanted to be a wise, all-knowing teacher, I learned something vital about leadership that day; a true leader does have all the answers. A true leader has the humility to admit when they need help and is committed to finding that help. The importance of humility has transformed how I approach the world. After all, I’ll always have more to learn and discover.
My experience of getting to teach and mentor became something I want to devote all of my time to. I will spend my life becoming increasingly selfless, determined, and resilient, not by myself, but alongside others. With that in mind, I have begun my education towards a teaching degree, so that I may keep influencing the great minds of tomorrow. A good leader makes others better people than they are themselves, and I think that is a teacher's job as well.