Ever since we were children, we always looked up to someone, let it be a superhero from a cartoon, a family member like mom and dad, or any other. We always sought the advice of that one person we considered to be all-knowing and perfect, and it was not for nothing as he or she was the one who showed us the way to live a good life. In my case, my Mami was and is still my role model. She taught me how to face adversity and succeed, how to become strong in every aspect of life, how to be more by walking that extra mile, how to prioritize my responsibilities, and how to be light in the darkness. My mom is everything I could ever ask for, and even if she is not able to give me everything she would love to, my mom still demonstrates her love and caring through her actions as she knows that nothing is more important than God and our family. She knows that no material thing can change that.
The greatest sacrifice my mom has made for my brothers and me was to stop working, to stop pursuing her goals to dedicate herself to her children. She gave up everything for us because she knew that having a parental figure for her kids to follow would raise successful, independent, and helping individuals that would make a change in this chaotic world we live in. Because of her decision to prioritize our future over her own, I understood that no achievement, no recognition, or no reward is worth more than my family and my wellbeing.
At one point, I used to think that my mother was being lazy for not working and just staying home, but as I closely watched everything she has done, I learned that she was never being lazy nor irresponsible. She was staying up until late at night either searching for better ways to provide for us, reflecting on the Bible, being that emotional support that my dad needed due to the exhausting and in-humane job that he used to work at, or doing all house chores, which believe it or not, it is a very tedious and long-lasting thing to do. Everything my mom did in front of me or behind my back made me reflect upon the meaning of hard work both my mom and dad taught me what it meant to give it your all and not desist before any circumstance. They shaped the way I am today by being resilient, persistent, responsible, hard-working, and turning away from deterring opinions that are only meant to bring you down.
Because my mom sacrificed her everything for my brothers and me, I want to be reciprocal and give back to my family and my community through my hard work and dedication to pursuing my dream of becoming a great doctor who can give professional care to everyone and anyone regardless of their socioeconomic background or extenuating circumstances.
Reflecting upon the time I have spent with my parents, I can say with confidence that nothing I have achieved so far has been by my own strength it has always been my parents' and God's will to make me reach this far in life. Every big and small obstacle I have conquered has been because of the influence that my mom has. The values she has bestowed upon my brothers and I have made us conscious about our surroundings, our behavior, our situation, and about being sympathetic and kind to those who surround us. I remember my mom taking us to the streets and under the bridges to give clothes and toys to those who have had it really tough and are not able to live a pleasant life on Christmas Eve. Those little actions ignited a flame in my heart to continue pushing myself so that later on, I can also help those in need.
My mom is and will continue to be my role model because she portrays the traits of a leader, a compassionate, sympathetic, and kind individual. Most importantly, she depicts the attributes of a mother.