The most challenging part of being both a student and a single parent is balancing the demands of today while working toward a better future for tomorrow. As the sole financial provider for my household, every decision I make must consider my son's needs first. I work full-time, manage our household, and pursue my degree while raising an active seven-year-old boy who keeps me on my toes.
In addition to school and work, my son plays club soccer, a sport he has loved since he was two years old. We have practices three nights each week, as well as games and tournaments on many weekends. It makes for a very busy schedule, but I am incredibly grateful that he received sponsorship support, allowing him to continue participating without the financial burden of paying out of pocket. Watching him grow, develop confidence, and pursue something he loves reminds me why I continue pushing toward my own goals.
Finding time for coursework often means studying late at night after work, soccer practices, household responsibilities, and parenting duties are complete. There are many days when I feel pulled in multiple directions, trying to be the best employee, student, and mother I can be. However, my son remains my greatest motivation.
My path to higher education has not been traditional. After leaving an abusive relationship when my son was just five months old, I had to rebuild our lives from the ground up. For seven years, my focus was on creating stability, safety, and security for him. Returning to college had to wait because his needs came first. While it was difficult to put my educational goals on hold, I knew providing a strong foundation for my child was my most important responsibility.
Today, I am finally in a position where I can pursue my education while continuing to provide for my family. As a first-generation college student, I am navigating a path that no one in my family has traveled before. I am learning the college process, financial aid systems, and degree planning largely on my own while balancing work and parenting responsibilities. Despite the challenges, I remain committed to earning my AAS in Criminal Justice and continuing my education beyond that degree.
The greatest barrier I face is financial. I am currently paying off existing student debt while funding my education and supporting our household on a single income. Because of these responsibilities, I can only attend school part-time at the moment. My determination has never been the issue; financial limitations are simply the reality I must carefully navigate.
This scholarship would significantly impact both my future and my son's future. It would reduce financial stress, lessen my reliance on loans, and potentially allow me to take additional classes and complete my degree sooner. More importantly, it would bring me closer to my goals of returning to law enforcement, continuing my education, and eventually becoming a Criminal Justice professor.
Most of all, this scholarship would show my son that perseverance matters. Every class I complete, every challenge I overcome, and every goal I achieve sends him a message that difficult circumstances do not define us. Through education, hard work, and determination, we can create opportunities, change our future, and build a life that once felt out of reach. That is the example I hope to set for him every day. This scholarship would not only invest in my education but also in the future I am working to build for my son. As a mother, sacrifice is a daily part of life. More often than not, my needs and wants come second so that my son can have what he needs first. I thrift many of my own clothes so I can spend my money on clothing, shoes, and necessities that will last him throughout the school year. As we prepared for him to start second grade, after purchasing school supplies, clothes, shoes, and a haircut, I had just $20 left until payday. That is motherhood, making sacrifices and prioritizing my child without hesitation.
My "me time" often looks different than most people's. Once my son is asleep, I make myself a cup of tea, put on a face mask, and sit down with my textbooks. Studying has become both a relaxing and rewarding part of my routine because I know I have fulfilled my responsibilities as a mother for the day. Yet it can be difficult to quiet my mind. I often find myself thinking about the next morning: Did I make his lunch? Did he pick out his clothes? What am I making for breakfast? Motherhood does not come with an off switch. However, I am learning to appreciate those quiet moments and remind myself that my son is safe, healthy, loved, and that it is okay to focus on my own growth, too.
Being a mother has been the greatest blessing of my twenty-seven years. I cannot imagine life without my son, Julian. Each year brings new challenges, lessons, and opportunities as he grows, and I continue growing alongside him. I am committed to being the best mother I can be while also being a student, employee, friend, sister, daughter, and advocate for the youth I serve every day. Wearing so many hats can be exhausting, but it is also one of life's greatest gifts. This scholarship would help ease the financial barriers that stand between me and my educational goals, allowing me to continue building a future that shows my son what is possible when determination, hard work, and love guide the way.