The issue of rape and sexual exploitation is becoming more of culture in my country. Sadly, the punishment of such crime depends on who the victims or perpetrators are. I live in n environment where there exit no safe haven for women n girl who re constantly assaulted n abused sexually. Couple of weeks ago, my nanny came to work as he usually would. The motorcyclist we usually hire had come to drop her off as usual, only to make an attempt to kiss her. When he pulled back swiftly, he grabbed her from behind n squeezed her in an inappropriate manner. On my return from work that evening, I was informed of the incident that happened earlier in the day. I called her n apologized for the embarrassment that she faced and told her that she should have reacted to put the guy in check. However, I called the motorcyclist the following day if I wanted him to take me to town as usual. When he arrive at my home that morning, he was taken aback that I wasn't dressed up to go out like I had told him. When I asked him why he had touched my nanny inappropriately, he responded, " I was only joking with her." I told him he had disrespected and assaulted her n he should be ashamed of himself. He w as in shock and said, "I have never disrespected her before, I was only playing with her." Unfortunately, just like the motorcyclist, lot of men and boys in our society do not only abuse women and girls, they do not see it as an offense. It has become o much of norm to handle ladies inappropriately that they see nothing wrong with it. Then I realized that, his action wasn't the only thing that was wrong, his mindset was too. So I took the opportunity not only to stand up for my nanny but to school the motorcyclist on what is and isn't appropriate when it comes to women. The incident made my nanny confidence in me grew stronger, change the mindset of not only the motorcyclist but the people that were also in the compound during the discussion. And the experience taught me that, change start with just one person. We can all make difference in the world if we are deliberate about our actions and how we handle negative situations around us. From that time, I have learned to processed things differently before reacting. I now think about what change i will make if i choose to react to certain things or people.