I began my journey into the volleyball world uniquely. I was a freshman, transferring from public school to a private catholic school and I just wanted to make some connections. I knew I was not an athletic girl. I knew I also did not know anything about volleyball. However, my future coach asked me to consider helping out the team as a manager. That one decision changed me and my life. I would also argue it was one of the bravest decisions I made. I chose to try something new, have the confidence to build connections, and learn how to appreciate each member of a team.
The sport of volleyball taught me several lessons. It taught me to be self-motivated, and detail-oriented, manage multiple things at one time, and be an excellent communicator. It taught me to advocate for myself and my teammates and built confidence to speak up when I saw a mistake being made. Volleyball is a high-paced, electric, and detail-oriented sport. Although I was not on the court, I was responsible for keeping the statistics for the team, keeping scores, interacting with referees, managing the libero sheet, managing rosters and lineups for both teams, and keeping track of substitutions throughout each game. On more than one occasion, the game would stop and the referees and coaches would turn to me to identify rotations, illegal substitutions, or some other aspect of the game that would determine if our team or the other would receive a point. My ability to focus and manage the book as well as manage the scoreboard correctly did have an impact on the outcome of the game. I needed to manage relationships with adults on both sides of the court as well as provide the referees with the information they needed as the game progressed. My impact didn't just end at the scorer's table. I also was responsible for helping my team run drills, shagging balls, assisting the coaches at practices, accessing our athletic trainer when needed, refilling water, managing and insuring line judges were present to work the varsity game and the list goes on. My greatest responsibility however was team morale. I worked diligently to encourage my teammates after a play went wrong. I reminded them of their contribution to the team and sought to "hype them up". I was a friendly, smiling, and encouraging face for them to turn to in stressful moments.
I realized I was "just the manager". Over the past 4 years, I have diminished my role as a manager and excused my contribution to the team, but with the help of my coaches and family, I now know I have an equally important role. I will take what I learned on the sidelines of the volleyball court into my future career as a teacher. As a manager, I developed good time management skills and learned how to manage multiple personalities at a time. I became detail-oriented and learned how to focus in a highly stressful environment. But most importantly I learned to celebrate the kids that often go unseen. The kids who are in the background. Athletes are great but it takes more than one person to make a team and it's not always just the ones you see on the court. I will now see my future students, their potential, and their gifts and how they can use that to contribute to all teams, clubs, school activities, and their community. Volleyball taught me a lot but perhaps its greatest lesson was to just get out there and step out of your comfort zone and be seen!