“Whose terrible idea was this!” I complain lightheartedly. My feet ache and the sun burns my face; we’d been walking for hours. I glare at my brother, who appears perfectly fine. “It was your idea,” he responds, grinning. With a mischievous look in his eyes, he begins walking faster: a challenge. Suddenly, I forget that I’m exhausted and have over five miles before we reach the beach. I accelerate to a jog, he starts running, and we build up to a sprint, racing down the river.
Last year, my little brother, Joaquin, decided he wanted to join cross country, so I helped him train. Since then, we’ve gone on hundreds of adventures, exploring the city. My favorite of these: a fourteen mile round trip to the beach. It took us over five hours, but we made it. And after a few months of training, we began running with his cross country team. Together, we motivate each other to never give up; we always reach the finish line.
As a kid, I didn’t interact with peers nearly as much as I did with Joaquin. So when he was diagnosed with Autism at the age of three, I didn’t understand what was “different” about my brother. Sure, he always needed extra help with homework and explicit explanations of unspoken social rules. But to me, these were standard jobs for an older sister. My idea of “normal” was based on Joaquin.
Just like he inspires me to be a better runner, Joaquin inspires me to be comfortable being “different”.
As I pursued my interest in engineering, I realized it wasn’t “normal” for a girl to love STEM. I was the only girl in my robotics team and the only girl in my school’s Ham Radio club. Even though I felt out of place, I never gave up on my dream of becoming an engineer. Following Joaquin’s example, I learned to embrace my uniqueness and motivate others to do the same.
Just like Joaquin inspires me, I want to inspire other underrepresented groups to pursue their passions, regardless of social norms. As a co-founder of Women’s Woodworking at school, I’ve brought together future engineers into a supportive community where we further our engineering skills, plan our future, and build camaraderie among women-in-stem. I use my expertise from working in the engineering lab to instruct members in machines like the bandsaw, drill press, and laser engraver: “translating” tedious instructions from manuals into easily-digestible explanations. I love watching them master these machines and develop their own enthusiasm for STEM. I'm proud to have normalized women in STEM at our school, but I won’t stop here.
Joaquin has been the biggest driving force in my life. I want to utilize the supportive spirit I’ve developed as Joaquin’s sister to encourage underrepresented groups to defy societal standards and pursue their interest in STEM. I want to prove to the next generation of engineering that their identity shouldn’t impede them from following their dreams and achieving their goals.
Together, we can all reach the finish line.