Hello there, my name is Sullivan Bono. I am a queer, disabled individual who would love nothing more than to be a disability advocate, a social worker, and/or a peer-support specialist. As I was forced to escape from my abusive family a few years ago, I have faced great struggles with paying for college. But for the sake of getting to know my story, let's start from the beginning. Around the age of 5, my Dystonia started in my feet and quickly spread to my legs, then my trunk, and then finally my hands and neck. When I was 7, I had completely lost all of my mobility and independence: I couldn’t dress myself, stand up, or sleep, and I completely relied on a wheelchair, as my muscles would twist, tighten, contort, shake, and spasm for hours on end. At 9 years old, I was among the youngest to receive deep brain stimulation surgery, and it took me months of physical therapy to re-learn how to walk. My mother and father ended up divorcing shortly after my brain surgery. Their separation was filled with malice and venom, and in their own way, my parents preferred to numb themselves from their responsibilities, with my disability being the largest one. Before and during my brain surgery, my mother was a hardcore alcohol and nicotine addict - I don't need to get into detail about how that affected me, anything your mind wanders to is most likely correct. I was forced to play the part of the happy and compliant girl in the wheelchair - or face verbal and physical abuse as a consequence. The threatening texts, whispers into my ear, and squeezes she gave my arms and wrists were warning enough - "Keep your mouth shut", they said. My father wasn’t much better: When he got full custody of me as a teen, I was left alone for days on end, in a house with little food and had its water and electricity periodically shut off. For many days I did my homework by the light of a battery-powered lantern and ate canned peaches or cold soup from my school’s pantry. After my dad got arrested for the third or maybe even fourth time, I had the terrifying realization that as long as I stayed in my home state, my safety would always be at risk. So, at 18 I made an escape plan that would become a reality at 21. I am turning 24 next Friday, and I now look back and admire everything I have accomplished since then. I've excelled socially and academically: I’ve held a 3.9 GPA, received an academic award for excellence, participated in two clubs, was elected as a student rep on a college board, and am currently acting as a student leader for NHTI’s fall food pantry initiative. I’m so excited to say that I've been accepted as an SNHU student for the upcoming spring semester (Jan 2025)! I know that I will flourish and find great opportunities there, but at the same time covering its costs is a major source of stress. I feel that I must use my life to make a difference so that the world will instinctively consider the lives of others, and acknowledge and accommodate their diversities from a place of kindness and support. I plan to make this a reality, whether through advocacy work or starting a nonprofit. Being able to afford to continue my education is the only I can work towards accomplishing these goals, so any assistance in doing so would be greatly appreciated. Thank you!

Leaving an abusive family and being on your own at a very young age holds its own terror. People assume that it’s a deliberate choice, the responsibility being only on those who leave, a flimsy decision caused by common disagreements, and differences in values within the family, and that the members left behind can be reconciled with. In my case, that couldn't be farther from the truth. I assert that estrangement grief is a loss that's as heavy as death. You grieve the loving and healthy relationship with your parents that, as much as you tried to make it happen, it really could never be, because neither of your parents were ever capable of being reliable, safe, or stable figures in the first place. Persevering through such a situation makes the difference between being trapped in a house with heavily addicted and dangerous people, terrified that every day might be my last, and having the ability to say that the joy, love, and safety you've longed to have for years is a work in progress. Fleeing and going no contact creates opportunities to grow and thrive that you would never have if you stayed. But building your own life up from dirt and ashes brings a unique terror. Stability is never assured until you’ve figured the next thing out, and the list is endless. But it’s better than a cold and dark house with splintered cabinets that reek of trash and alcohol, locking yourself in a room, and fearing the next morning might need to use the remaining half of your concealer to go to school and prevent your teachers from having a heart attack. Leaving that situation (and getting a restraining order) is an effort to protect yourself and ensure that you can finally psychologically heal. You carve out a better future that you couldn't have had prior. You carry the hope that one day you can wake up content with your life. You may have diagnoses of C-PTSD, anxiety, and depression, but you look for and find a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and a shower to clean yourself off in. And sometimes, that same place is where you get your education. My education, as much as it has allowed me freedom and safety, has always been a source of unyielding financial stress and uncertainty. I am low-income and every semester Is a never-ending scramble to figure it out on my own. Every day I take one hour at a time, finding little joys and taking steps, big or small, to secure my stability and maintain my mental health. I would love to get a BA in psychology, and one day be a social worker and advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want those stuck in an abusive home to know that getting out is possible. And most importantly, I want to help individuals of all diversities to have their needs met - that would be my ultimate goal. I move forward hoping that my story and skills will help others and that my near-perfect GPA (3.98) will have merit outside the academic world, reflecting the drive, dedication, and heart I have placed in my life mission. At this point, the only way I can achieve these goals is by continuing my education and being able to afford to do so, so any financial assistance would be appreciated and life-changing. Thank you!

Growing up with a mom who pushed her (toxic) conservative Christian ideals of gender roles onto me, my “self” had extremely limited means of expression”. I was only allowed to wear very “ demure feminine” clothing with soft colors and subtle designs. “Bold” patterns or colors of clothing, especially those that exposed my arms or the skin above the knees, were looked upon with disgust. I wasn't allowed to cut or dye my hair. Bold eyeshadow, eyeliner, lipstick, nail polish, and piercings with jewelry were deemed "slutty", and “attention seeking”, and were strictly prohibited. To summarize, My mother forced me to be as stereotypically feminine and meek as possible. Any attempt to persuade her would be met with screaming and threats of physical discipline. As I grew older, these were no longer threats but "punishments" I would face behind closed doors. After escaping from that environment, I realized that I was comfortable with femininity, but there was so much more to MY experience with gender, and that I HATED the boundaries I was given. So I explored, finding myself drawn to bold patterns, smokey makeup, overly feminine pastel styles, and darker, grungy gothic-alternative styles. I began to cut my hair and slowly grew to feel at home with myself. Escaping my family In 2021 was freeing but came with a great cost. The stress of constantly scrambling to pay for college life heavily weighs me down. A new semester means a desperate scramble to maintain stability. The best part of starting college, however, was making friends with members of the LGBTQ community who easily accepted and even encouraged my means of self-expression. I have learned that my authentic self is worthy of friendship, compassion, love, and celebration, and I have fully embraced that family is more than blood. Family can consist of people who support you unconditionally, simply want the best for you, and will be there to support you or watch you develop and succeed at every turn. Due to my situation, I have found great motivation to pursue psychology/social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to help those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to be there for those who are in and/or come from abusive or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love, found family, and building an affirming life, I want to offer these realistic and attainable joys to anyone who is desperately lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. Most importantly, I would love to make enough of a difference in this world that people can actively acknowledge the diversities of others from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. If I could help provide individuals of all diverse groups access to resources that meet their needs, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others in any way I can, either through my future as a social worker or maybe even by starting a nonprofit. But at the moment, my life situation and my poverty are huge barriers to achieving this. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 24-year-old queer, a disabled individual who has escaped their abusive family and currently faces great financial struggles as a result. Due to my life situation, I have found great motivation to pursue social work, and I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (as often these spheres greatly overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. Starting my education has enabled me to develop a fluid and inclusive life perspective, and I believe I can greatly contribute to the fields of social work and psychology by helping organizations take on a more diversity-centered approach so that every aspect of humanity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) is considered and respected. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love, found family, and building a life that affirms yourself - I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves and others and to take pride in doing so. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify widespread and pervasive misinformation about the disabled population. I want mental health systems to not only be more accessible but also for practices to prioritize validating and supporting the autonomy and personal growth of all their clientele. I want to make a change that fosters a productive and accepting environment for all. Most importantly, I would love to make enough of a difference in this world that people can actively acknowledge the diversities of others from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. I have already made small strides towards this goal as a student, as I have been secretary for the theater club and hall council, participated in the alliance club, worked in the ESOL center, volunteered with student senate events, and participated in a diversity, inclusion, and retention committee, earning myself the title of student leader. My last project before I leave for a 4-year institution in January 2025 is to improve my current college's food pantry, making sure that all students can have their nutritional and hygiene-related needs met. If I could be a resource that can meet the needs of all diverse individuals, that would be my ultimate goal. I want to contribute to making this a reality in any way I can, whether that means being a social worker or running my own nonprofit. I move forward hoping that my life story and skills will help others and that my near-perfect GPA (3.98) will have merit outside the academic world, reflecting the drive, dedication, and heart I have placed in my goals. The only way I can achieve my goals is to continue my education and be able to afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 24-year-old queer, a disabled individual who has escaped their abusive family and currently faces great financial struggles as a result. Due to my life situation, I have found great motivation to pursue social work, and I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (as often these spheres greatly overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. Starting my education has enabled me to develop a fluid and inclusive life perspective, and I believe I can greatly contribute to the fields of social work and psychology by helping organizations take on a more diversity-centered approach so that every aspect of humanity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) is considered and respected. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love and/or found family and building a life that affirms yourself, I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves and others and to take pride in doing so. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify widespread and pervasive misinformation about the disabled population. I want mental health systems to not only be more accessible but also for practices to prioritize validating and supporting the autonomy and personal growth of all their clientele. I want to make a change that fosters a productive and accepting environment for all. I have already made small strides towards this goal as a student, as I have been secretary for the theater club and hall council, participated in the alliance club, worked in the ESOL center, volunteered with student senate events, and participated in a diversity, inclusion, and retention committee, earning myself the title of student leader. My last project before I leave for a 4-year institution in January 2025 is to improve my current college's food pantry, making sure that all students can have their nutritional and hygiene-related needs met. If I could be a resource that can meet the needs of all diverse individuals, that would be my ultimate goal. I want to contribute to making this a reality in any way I can, whether that means being a social worker or running my own nonprofit. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 24-year-old queer, a disabled individual who has escaped their abusive family and currently faces great financial struggles as a result. Due to my life situation, I have found great motivation to pursue social work, and I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (as these spheres often greatly overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. Starting my education has enabled me to develop a fluid and inclusive life perspective, and I believe I can greatly contribute to the fields of social work and psychology by helping organizations take on a more diversity-centered approach so that every aspect of humanity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) is considered and respected. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love and/or found family and building a life that affirms yourself, I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves and others and to take pride in doing so. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify widespread and pervasive misinformation about the disabled population. I want mental health systems to not only be more accessible but also for practices to prioritize validating and supporting the autonomy and personal growth of all their clientele. I want to make a change that fosters a productive and accepting environment for all. I have already made small strides towards this goal as a student, as I have been secretary for the theater club and hall council, participated in the alliance club, worked in the ESOL center, volunteered with student senate events, and participated in a diversity, inclusion, and retention committee, earning myself the title of student leader. My last project before I leave for a 4-year institution in January 2025 is to improve my current college's food pantry, making sure that all students can have their nutritional and hygiene-related needs met. If I could be a resource that can meet the needs of all diverse individuals, that would be my ultimate goal. I want to contribute to making this a reality in any way I can, whether that means being a social worker or running my own nonprofit. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 24-year-old queer, a disabled individual who has escaped their abusive family and currently faces great financial struggles as a result. Due to my life situation, I have found great motivation to pursue social work, and I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. Starting my education has enabled me to develop a fluid and inclusive life perspective, and I believe I can greatly contribute to the fields of social work and psychology by helping organizations take on a more diversity-centered approach so that every aspect of humanity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) is considered and respected. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love and/or found family and building a life that affirms yourself, I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves and others and to take pride in doing so. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify widespread and pervasive misinformation about the disabled population. I want mental health systems to not only be more accessible but also for practices to prioritize validating and supporting the autonomy and personal growth of all their clientele. I want to make a change that fosters a productive and accepting environment for all. I have already made small strides towards this goal as a student, as I have been secretary for the theater club and hall council, participated in the alliance club, worked in the ESOL center, volunteered with student senate events, and participated in a diversity, inclusion, and retention committee, earning myself the title of student leader. My last project before I leave for a 4-year institution in January 2025 is to improve my current college's food pantry, making sure that all students can have their nutritional and hygiene-related needs met. If I could be a resource that can meet the needs of all diverse individuals, that would be my ultimate goal. I want to contribute to making this a reality in any way I can, whether that means being a social worker or running my own nonprofit. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

Leaving an abusive family and being on your own at a very young age holds its own terror. People assume that it’s a deliberate choice, the responsibility being only on those who leave, a flimsy decision caused by common disagreements, and differences in values within the family, and that the members left behind can be reconciled with. In my case, that couldn't be farther from the truth. I made a very painful realization at a very young age: that neither of my parents would be able to acknowledge their toxicity, nor were they able to make choices that demonstrated their ability to function as reliable, safe, or stable figures in my life. I have grieved the reality that my parents were never capable of loving or protecting me many times over. For me, “leaving” meant the difference between being trapped with heavily addicted and violent people, terrified that every day I woke up in that house might be my last. Sometimes fleeing and going no contact creates an opportunity to survive that you can lose if you stay. But it's also pure terror. Stability and getting through the next day - none of that is assured until you’ve figured something out. But it’s better than a cold and dark house that reeks of trash and alcohol, full of shattered glass and splintered cabinets, and fearing the next day you might need to use the remaining half a bottle of concealer to prevent your teacher from having a heart attack. From my perspective, leaving that situation is an effort to protect yourself and ensure that you can finally heal. You afford yourself opportunities to carve out a better future that you wouldn't have had prior (like getting a restraining order). You carry the hope that one day you can wake up content with life, and say that the joy, love, and safety that you crave is a satisfactory work in progress. You may have diagnoses of C-PTSD, anxiety, and depression, but you find a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and a shower to clean yourself off in. You find a place to heal, to make friends, to accept yourself, and to thrive. And sometimes, that same place is where you get your education. College, as much as it has allowed me to gain these, has always been a source of unyielding financial stress and uncertainty. I am low-income and every semester Is a never-ending scramble to figure it out on my own. I want nothing more than to one day be an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community, as those persons often come from difficult family situations. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to let those who have an abusive and/or unsupportive family know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disabled community. If I could help meet the needs of as many diverse communities as possible, that would be my ultimate goal. At this point, the only way I can achieve my goals is through continuing my education and being able to pay for it. so any financial assistance would be appreciated and life-changing. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 24-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I myself have experienced personally a great deal of system-related injustices, horrid and inhumane conditions, psychological abuse, and domestic violence, and therefore I have gained much insight into the inadequacies of 1) larger practices/organizations, 2) communication between practices/departments, and 3) communications made between patient and clinician and/or between a team of clinicians/providers managing a patient. The core of these problems often lies within neglecting or failing to acknowledge the needs of culturally/neurologically/disability-diverse patients/clients. For those who are part of disadvantaged, discriminated against, and/or widely stigmatized groups, there is a distinct relationship that must be addressed with facing oppressive and/or poor quality life experiences and being at high risk of encountering some form of abuse and/or violence in their lifetimes. Discrimination against and/or infantilization of the victim is often a factor that is highly relevant to the abuse experienced. Often this is not made central in these persons's mental health treatment plans, and services can not provide the best experiences access-wise if providers are uneducated about, show ignorance to, or are bigoted toward diverse persons. As a traumatized youth, my providers did not support me with building self-advocacy skills or help me recognize that my queerness and my disability existed and could be a source of self-empowerment. In fact, no one recognized that these facets of myself contributed to the reason why I endured abuse at the hands of my family. No one realized that my PTSD reactions were closely tied with sensory overwhelm and trauma, or that the behaviors that my family punished me for perfectly aligned with neurodivergence. Non-acceptance was central to a majority of the violence that I endured, and the foundational root for most of my trauma. Conversely, acceptance and pride in myself helped greatly in therapy and within my healing journey, and only by learning to advocate for myself and my access needs have I been able to thrive and achieve more than my past self could ever imagine. Therefore, I believe an intersectional approach is best suited to fully recognizing how every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) needs to be taken into consideration when an individual of a diverse group expresses distress that affects their mental health. The most appropriate method to help others is through context-specific responses which keep in mind that multiple categories of oppression co-exist to construct unique experiences of violence and abuse and that responses should be formulated in a way that is respectful and accessible to a person, keeping their diverse needs in mind in a way that considers and validates their autonomy and goals towards personal growth. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments and often have mental health needs that would respond most positively to the approach listed above. My goal is to let those who have a poor quality of life due to having abusive experiences or having an unsupportive family know that getting out, finding safety and stability, and having their mental health needs met can be achievable. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disbaled community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical, mental health, and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow individuals of all diverse groups to have their unique needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to making this a reality in any way I can. I would love nothing more than for my struggles to have meaning, and for my drive and dedication (as well as my 4.0 GPA) to hold merit outside the educational world. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

My parent's incarcerations have allowed me to recognize the cycle of toxicity and addiction that has rampaged my entire family, and as a person who went through consistent abuse and neglect at their hands, I decided that I must be the cycle breaker. My mother's emotional and violent outbursts heavily stemmed from her poor mental health and her pill, cigarette, and alcohol addictions. I remember as a young child seeing her passed out on the floor and/or couch, with her breath reeking of liquor and nicotine. I remember the smashed bottles, the yelling, the empty lunch boxes, and the debilitating feeling of fear I always felt around her during my earliest years. Even when she got clean and stayed sober for many years, her aggression and mood swings didn't stop, and there was nothing for her to use as an excuse for her actions or behavior any longer. My father was a different story. He relied on the validation of female partners to function, to such a degree that he would show up to their houses unannounced and stay there for days, leaving me, still a minor at the time, alone in a house with no heat, food, running water, or electricity for days on end. Each breakup made him more and more aggressive and prone to drowning himself in whiskey, taking pills to sleep for long hours, and further self-destructive melancholy. I was parentified at a very young age, coming home to either care for and play therapist for my father or to an empty house in which my survival depended on learning to cook, do dishes, do laundry, clean the house, take care of the dog, visit food pantries and do schoolwork all at the same time. Multiple DUIs and physical assaults from my father later, I made my plan to escape to college and cut my family off for my own safety. In the present, I have earned not only a protective order against my family, but also my associate's degree with a consistent 4.0 GPA, and I am looking to start my bachelor's degree in the spring. Not only did I swear off of all addictive substances, but I learned from every mistake they modeled for me: Make sure to budget so that you can pay necessary expenses, have a cushion of emergency funds, be considerate of other's emotional state, learn to both empathize and sympathize with others, listen nonjudgmental, don't make fun of or belittle the trauma of others, and in a situation where danger is present, always prioritize the safety of yourself and others and fight for it with all you have. Communicate clearly and respectfully, but assertively when the situation requires it. And lastly, it's okay to dwell on life's hardships, but don't try to numb them or deny them, accept them for what they are and make a plan to move forward. In terms of self-care measures, I go to therapy, socialize with my friends, go on a light walk, listen to music/watch videos, wrap myself in blankets and take a nap, read a book, or do a creative leisure project. And I think about all that I've accomplished and am capable of accomplishing in the future. I want nothing more than to continue my education and make more progress in building a future for myself where I can be successful and extend aid to others. I want my current 4.0 GPA and my experiences to go hold merit and to help others in abusive and neglectful situations to achieve safety and stability. Any assistance with achieving these goals is greatly appreciated.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I require help with paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and currently face great financial struggles as a result. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. Starting my education has enabled me to develop a fluid and inclusive life perspective, and I believe I can greatly contribute to the fields of social work and psychology by helping organizations take on a more diversity-centered approach so that every aspect of humanity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) is considered and respected. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love and/or found family and building a life that affirms yourself, I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who don't have them should know that they do deserve them. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify widespread and pervasive misinformation about the disabled population. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves and others and to take pride in doing so. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want mental health systems to not only be more accessible but also for practices to prioritize validating and supporting the autonomy and personal growth of all their clientele. I want to make a change that fosters a productive and accepting environment for all. If I could help organizations be a resource that can meet the needs of all diverse individuals, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and want to contribute to making this a reality in any way I can. I have already made small strides towards this goal as a student, as I have been secretary for the theater club, am involved with the alliance club, have worked in the ESOL center, and participate in hall council as well as having participated in the college's diversity, inclusion, and retention committee, resulting me gaining the title of student leader. My latest project includes working with the college's CARE team to improve our school's food pantry and to ensure that all types of students can have their nutritional and hygiene-related needs met. I move forward hoping that my life story will help others and that my near-perfect GPA (3.98) will have merit outside the academic world l. I want it to reflect the drive, dedication, and heart I have placed in my goals. The only way I can work toward achieving my goals is by having enough funds to continue my education, so any assistance would be appreciated.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about advocacy, and I would love nothing more than to pursue a career in psychology/social work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. It took all of my willpower to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. Growing up, I used to be in a wheelchair, completely unable to walk and lacking any ability to control my muscles. I remember the distress I felt not only because of how my condition impacted my quality of life, but because of how others judged and perceived me, and made assumptions instead of trying to get to know me. I was shamed for not only my fluctuations in mobility but for catering to my needs in general, being my authentic self, and communicating about my conditions openly. It came to a point where no matter how hard I tried, I knew my best would never be acceptable to some. And so I moved forward to places where my best was enough, or even more than. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, navigate court/government systems, and to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. My goal is to let those who have an abusive and/or supportive family situation know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disabled community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. As a cane user and an individual with mobility impairments, chronic pain, and low energy levels, I understand the importance of promoting accessibility at every turn. I hope someday I can help systems and major institutions be infinitely more considerate of accessibility needs that benefit all individuals (able-bodied and disabled) and consequently show them the advantages of catering to as many areas of disability as possible. I would love to be able to educate people and make enough of a difference that people will instinctively consider the feelings of others, and acknowledge their diversities from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford it, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

Leaving an abusive family and being on your own at a very young age holds its own terror. People assume that it’s a deliberate choice, the responsibility being only on those who leave, a flimsy decision caused by common disagreements, and differences in values within the family, and that the members left behind can be reconciled with. In my case, that couldn't be farther from the truth. I had to make a very painful realization at a very young age, that neither of my parents would ever be able to acknowledge their toxicity, nor were they able to make choices that demonstrated their ability to function as reliable, safe, or stable figures in my life. I assert that estrangement grief is a loss that's as heavy as death. You grieve the loving and healthy relationship with your parents that, as much as you tried to make it happen, it really could never be, because neither of your parents were ever capable of it in the first place. For me, “leaving” meant the difference between being trapped with heavily addicted and dangerous people, terrified that every day I woke up in that house might be my last, and having the ability to say that the joy, love, and safety I spent years longing for is a work in progress Sometimes fleeing and going no contact is creating an opportunity to survive that you eventually will lose if you stay. But it's also pure terror. You have to build your own life up from dirt and ashes. Stability and getting through the next day - none of that is assured until you’ve figured something out. But it’s better than a cold and dark house with splintered cabinets that reek of trash and alcohol, locking yourself in a room, and fearing the next day you might need to use the remaining half a bottle of concealer to go to school and prevent a teacher from having a heart attack. Leaving that situation is an effort to protect yourself and ensure that you can finally psychologically heal. You afford yourself opportunities to carve out a better future that you wouldn't have had prior (like getting a restraining order). You carry the hope that one day you can wake up content with your life here on this Earth. You may have diagnoses of C-PTSD, anxiety, and depression, but you look for and find a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and a shower to clean yourself off in. And sometimes, that same place is where you get your education. My education, as much as it has allowed me freedom and safety, has always been a source of unyielding financial stress and uncertainty. I am low-income and every semester Is a never-ending scramble to figure it out on my own. I want nothing more than to be able to get a degree in psychology and social work, and one day be an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want people who are stuck in an abusive situation to know that getting out is possible. If I could help individuals of all diverse communities to have their needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. At this point, the only way I can achieve my goals is through continuing my education and being able to pay for it. so any financial assistance would be appreciated and life-changing. Thank you!

Growing up with a mom who pushed her (toxic) conservative Christian ideals of gender roles onto me, my “self” had extremely limited parameters within my “role” as a “Christian girl”. I was only allowed to wear very “ demure feminine” clothing with soft colors and subtle designs. Never solid black, red, or “bright” rainbow colors or ANY “bold” patterns, or anything tight fitting or “revealing” that exposed my arms or skin above the knee. I wasn't allowed to cut or dye my hair. Anything “attention seeking” was prohibited, so colorful and bold eyeshadow, eyeliner, lipstick, nail polish, and piercings with jewelry were “out of the question”. To summarize, my mother made it mandatory to be as stereotypically feminine and passive-looking as possible. Any attempt to persuade her otherwise would be met with screaming or threats of violence. And as I grew older, threats became actions, and the hurt I went through (physically and mentally) only escalated and escalated. After escaping from that environment and having the opportunity to explore, I realized that WAS NOT who I was or wanted to be. I was comfortable with femininity, but there was so much more to MY experience with gender which made me realize that I HATED the boundaries I was given. So I explored and expanded my fashion sense, finding myself drawn to bold patterns, smokey makeup, overly feminine pastel styles with eye-grabbing accessories, and darker, grungy gothic-alternative styles with leather, metal spikes, bright eyeshadow, and red and black lipstick. I got piercings and cut my hair, I became more confident and finally felt at home with myself. Escaping my family In 2021 was freeing but came with a great cost. I no longer feared being screamed at, or being punched, slapped, or controlled, but I had to start my life over from scratch with nothing but the money in my bank account, my nerves, my birth certificate, and two small suitcases packed with necessities. The stress of my life heavily weighs me down, as well as my never-ending struggle of figuring out college payments and grasping for stability. Due to my situation, I have found great motivation to pursue psychology/social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to help those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want to be a resource for those who are in and/or come from abusive and/or unsupportive family situations. Everything from communal love and/or found family and building a life that affirms yourself, I want to offer these realistic and attainable pieces of life to anyone who is desperately lacking them. These are necessary parts of stability, and those who do not have them should know that they do deserve them. Most importantly, I would love to make enough of a difference in this world that people can actively acknowledge the diversities of others from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can. But at the moment, my life situation and my poverty are huge barriers to achieving this. The only way I can achieve my goals is through being able to continue my education and afford to do so, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I have consequently developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and creating streamlined methods for organization and time management. As a result of my life situation, I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. As a cane user who's become highly aware of the present accessibility barriers wherever I go, I feel that I must use my life to make a difference so that the world will instinctively consider the lives of others, and acknowledge and accommodate their diversities from a place of kindness, understanding, and support. I believe that within the field of mental health and social work service, an intersectional approach is best suited to fully recognizing how each and every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) should be taken into consideration when an individual experiences oppression-related distress that influences and/or adds to their mental health struggles and/or life struggles. Interventions should be respectful and accessible to a person and should validate their autonomy and goals toward personal growth. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow individuals of all diverse groups to have their needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to making this a reality in any way I can. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want people who are stuck in an abusive situation to know that getting out is possible. Most importantly, I would love to make enough of a difference in this world that people can actively acknowledge the diversities of others from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can. But at the moment, my life situation and my poverty are huge barriers to achieving this. The only way I can work towards achieving my goals is by having enough funds to pay for college, so any assistance would be appreciated.

The one series I can watch over and over again is definitely Dr.Stone. The anime is fantastic no matter if you watch it with Japanese voice actors or English voice actors, but I have an especially spot spot for their dub cast. Senku's dub actor (Aaron Dismuke) is one of my all-time favorite voice actors who is a star in my eyes in Dr. Stone and other envigorating anime series (Tamaki Amajiki from My Hero Academia and Hyoma Chigiri from Blue Lock). Other honorable mentions are Rico Fajardo, voicing not only Taiju but also Mirio from My Hero, Yoichi from Blue Lock, and Nozel Silva from Black Clover. Tsukaska is voiced by the beloved Ian Sinclair, who has a well-deserved lengthy resume (his performances are always a joy to hear). I feel very similarly about Brandon McInnis as Gen and Matt Shipman as Chrome, who are my second and third favorite Dr. Stone VA's. Through their performances, these VAs demonstrate a clear emotional resonance with their characters, as voice lines that range from excited/devious to sad/mournful feel genuine and not fake. I find their heart-rendering portrayals of sadness particularly striking, as VAs will skillfully sniffle and alter the volume and pace of their breathing/words. Their use of vocal "wobbles" and "pinching" specific phrases implies an anxious tension in their throats that audiences pick up on. Dr. Stone's balance of humor, determination, and solidarity of the heart through its plot is what transformed me into an enthusiastic fan. The show's emphasis on character eccentricities and the chemistry between characters to gain laughs far triumphs the usual anime-tactic of fan service, which this series thankfully has little to none. The show's missions (realized through on-screen antics) bring an air of delight and fascination to the audience's learning and watching experience, drawing them fully into the Kindom of Sciences' plight to advance civilization and restore the knowledge lost to the petrification ray. While Dr Stone loves its campy humor, bits, and amusing animation changes, it's the characters' interpersonal ties that beautifully contextualize messages of learning, growth, compassion, empathy, perseverance, trust, teamwork, and comradery. Taiju and Senku's friendship is a perfect example of a duo who care for, trust, and place faith in each other unconditionally, and even cover for one another's shortcomings (the balancing of smarts and muscle for survival). Tajiu fully emotes/is transparent about his connection with Senku and Yuzuriha, which makes certain scenes involving the three intensely heartbreaking. Senku, on the other hand, is more reserved in expressing sentiment/concern for others, and yet it clearly reflects through his scientific drive to help and maintain the welfare of those close to him and those in need. The show even goes out of its way to call him out for it If Senku is logic and Taiju is emotion, then Chrome is the perfect mixture. He cares deeply about Ruri and uses his knowledge, skills, and determination to work with Senku to develop a cure for her illness. His compassion and will drive him not only to compel Senku away from potentially sacrificing himself to poisonous fumes, but also to escape from imprisonment to warn everyone from falling victim to Tsusaka's devious war tactics. Finally, the friendships between Suika and Kohaku and Ginro and Kinro illustrate how one may willingly forgo the safe and comfortable path when another person's well-being and survival are in jeopardy. In conclusion, Dr. Stone captured both my funny bone and heart in a way that no other anime has, and I feel both heavy-hearted and excited for the final season to air in the soon-coming future.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. College payments have been a great source of stress Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to keep up with the necessities of living such as cooking meals, cleaning, doing laundry, accessing food banks, and emotionally regulating under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. I started little. Sneaking out of the house to make my own bank account and getting odd minimum-wage jobs I could manage while doing online college. For these jobs, I would discreetly take any extra hours I could, and sacrifice my free time and sleep at times to maintain this secret. I gathered legal documents, filled out FASFA forms, and convinced my parents to let me work an out-of-state Summer Camp job. I registered for college and sent emails to staff members secretly during my lunches and 15-minute breaks. I was accepted, had a dear friend assist me with the move, and was able to safely cut off contact with everyone who did me physical and psychological harm. I recently sent in my request for a 5-year extension on my protective order against my father. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. The financial stress of my life heavily weighs me down, as well as my never-ending struggle against becoming homeless. For now, dorm living is my temporary solution, but I am determined to find a more permanent solution as soon as I have access to resources that would afford me to do so, as well as being hopeful of someday transitioning from "barely able to functionally survive and afford life" to a much more stable position. Nonetheless, I have consistently been communicative with staff, pro-active with finding solutions, and faithfully made payments towards my education whenever I could, even if it came out of my meager income. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I feel the skills I know that the skills I have gained prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. My goal is to let those who have an abusive and/or supportive family situation know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. I want to support any of those people in any way I can. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disbaled people.I want to teach people how to accommodate for themselves and to be able to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want people to be able to access the treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning, and my college education (as well as my 4.0 GPA) to hold merit. Being given the highest honors possible and an academic achievement award, I believe, is indicative of that. Even if I can’t change the world, I deeply desire to contribute to positive change in any way I can. I feel that the only way I can work towards achieving my goals and continually grasp any form of life stability past August of this year is through gathering as much financial aid as possible. Any help with my situation would be so appreciated and life-changing, and I would be so, so grateful. Thank you for hearing my story.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. Having much lived experience as a victim of psychological abuse and domestic violence, my experiences have provided me insight into the larger picture of gaps within protective and mental health policies and services, as well as the inadequate practices and insufficient communication methods within and between these services and institutions. I give back in many ways. I have helped many peers who have needed assistance with the above. In addition, I was part of a student-led movement that addressed and dismantled my college's plan to implement unjust academic requirements that would have severely impacted the mental health and academic performances of students from many groups, including those who work full-time jobs, those from racially diverse backgrounds, those that are low income, those with disabilities, etc. I also have notified a college that their psychology and disability textbooks were outdated, had inaccurate information, and contained perspectives and language that is stigmatizing and at times dehumanizing towards the groups being described. I pushed constantly to make progress with this while being enrolled in classes, but the support I received from the school was not adequate enough to make important changes within the college considering my remaining time there. In terms of my long-term goals, the best way to explain them is through my social work outlook: I assert that there is a distinct cultural and sociological relationship that must be addressed for those who are part of disadvantaged and discriminated against and/or widely stigmatized groups facing oppressive and/or poor quality life experiences and being at high risk of encountering some form of abuse and/or violence in their lifetimes. Discrimination against and/or infantilization of the victim is often a factor that is highly relevant to the abuse they experience. An intersectional approach, I believe, is best suited to fully recognizing how each and every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) needs to be taken into consideration when an individual of a diverse group expresses some oppression-related distress that influences and/or adds to their mental health struggles and/or life struggles. I advocate that the most appropriate method to help others is through context-specific responses which keep in mind that multiple categories of oppression co-exist within an individual's life to construct unique experiences of poverty, life insecurity, violence and abuse, and responses should be catered to an individual in a way that is respectful and accessible to a person, keeping their diverse needs in mind in a way that considers and validates their autonomy and goals towards personal growth. My basic goal is to let those who have a poor quality of life due to having abusive experiences or having an unsupportive family know that getting out, finding safety and stability, and having their mental health needs met can be achievable. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow individuals of all diverse groups to have their needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to making this a reality in any way I can. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through being able to pay for college this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. Having lived through many hardships, my experiences provided me insight into the larger picture of gaps in policies and services, as well as the inadequate practices and insufficient communication methods within and between these services and institutions. I was part of a student-led movement that addressed and dismantled my college's plan to implement unjust academic requirements that would have severely impacted the mental health and academic performances of students from many groups, including those who work full-time jobs, those from racially diverse backgrounds, those that are low income, those with disabilities, etc. I also notified my college that their psychology and disability textbooks were outdated and contained information that was inaccurate and contained perspectives and language that was stigmatizing and at times dehumanizing. In terms of my long-term goals, the best way to explain them is through my social work outlook: I assert that there is a distinct cultural and sociological relationship that must be addressed for those who are part of disadvantaged and discriminated against and/or widely stigmatized groups facing oppressive and/or poor quality life experiences and being at high risk of encountering some form of abuse and/or violence in their lifetimes. Discrimination against and/or infantilization of the victim is often a factor that is highly relevant to the abuse they experience. An intersectional approach, I believe, is best suited to fully recognizing how each and every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) needs to be taken into consideration when an individual of a diverse group expresses some oppression-related distress that influences and/or adds to their mental health struggles and/or life struggles. I advocate that the most appropriate method to help others is through context-specific responses which keep in mind that multiple categories of oppression co-exist within an individual's life to construct unique experiences of poverty, life insecurity, violence and abuse, and responses should be catered to an individual in a way that is respectful and accessible to a person, keeping their diverse needs in mind in a way that considers and validates their autonomy and goals towards personal growth. My basic goal is to let those who have a poor quality of life due to having abusive experiences or having an unsupportive family know that getting out, finding safety and stability, and having their mental health needs met can be achievable. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow individuals of all diverse groups to have their needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to making this a reality in any way I can. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through being able to pay for College this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

Hello there! My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who has had to fight very hard through most of my life because I was forced to escape from an abusive family. I faced all sorts of cruelty (medical and general neglect, emotional, mental, and physical abuse, etc), I was largely resented, and I was treated as a huge burden on my parent's shoulders. As well as this, every family member of mine suffered from some kind of money-draining addiction, trying to numb themselves or distract themselves from their life responsibilities. This caused them to struggle financially, and also myself by extension. As a teen, I was alone for days on end, in homes with little to no groceries, no power, and the water shut off. I survived by using my high school showers, washing machines, and food pantries with instructor's permission. I moved many times from 13 -16, even transferring school districts, My life was extremely unstable. I was under so much stress I was diagnosed with tics, panic attacks, a severe anxiety disorder, depression, and C-PTSD when I was 15 -18. The gaslighting and verbal abuse/manipulation only continued to escalate as I tried to speak out to others about my situation. Parental threats about the "consequences" of "opening my mouth" made me aware that my life was in danger, and instilled in me the fear that by accidentally triggering their next uncontrollable fit of emotion, it could mean the end of me, It was clear to me that no one related to me would ever prioritize my safety or stability.I knew I had to take action and make a very hard choice. I realized that If I didn’t escape my situation, my life would not improve whatsoever. So, in the end, I steeled myself to decide. “I will just do it by all myself”. So from 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself from my family slowly and subtly and took steps towards my complete independence. I started little. Sneaking out of the house to make my own bank account and getting odd minimum-wage jobs I could manage while doing online college. I worked whenever no one would notice. I gathered legal documents, filled out FASFA forms, and convinced my parents to let me work an out-of-state Summer Camp job. I registered for NHTI College and sent emails to staff members secretly during my breaks, even sacrificing my lunches. Even when I was accepted, my struggles weren't over. Due to my situation, I have no familial support for money. I have always struggled financially, and yet I extended myself to faithfully communicate to staff, who in return, have helped me manage my payments. And I have, in return, always faithfully made payments whenever I could sacrifice, even if it came out of my measly social security income. I almost couldn't cover my expenses for my spring semester, and only with the support of others and my burning determination, was I able to problem-solve and cover everything. Due to my life situation, I have not only developed skills such as accessing and navigating community and state resources, court systems, and advocating for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, but I also found great motivation to pursue employment as a social worker. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I assert that there is a distinct cultural and sociological relationship for those who are part of disadvantaged and/or discriminated against group(s), that they face the most oppressive and/or poor quality life experiences and are at an extremely high risk of encountering some form of abuse and/or violence in their lifetimes. Discrimination against and/or infantilization of the victim is often highly relevant to the abuse they experience. An intersectional approach, I believe, is best suited to fully recognizing how each and every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) needs to be taken into consideration when assisting a member of a diverse-group through medical and mental health care. I advocate that the most appropriate method to help others is through context-specific responses which consider that multiple categories of oppression co-exist within an individual's life to construct unique experiences of violence and abuse, and responses should be catered to an individual in a way that is respectful and accessible to a person, keeping their diverse needs in mind in a way that considers and validates their autonomy and goals towards personal growth. My goal is to let those who have a poor quality of life due to having abusive experiences or having an unsupportive family know that getting out, finding safety and stability, and having their mental health needs met can be achievable. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all and allows diversity to be acknowledged with kindness, respect, and understanding. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical, mental health, and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow individuals of all diverse groups to have their needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through being able to pay for Landmark College this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

The definition of “losing a family member” in this context usually means death, but I encourage you to hold a flexible mindset with me here. “The family myth” refers to the presumption that “Every family member protects one another, cares for one another’s safety, is compatible with one another, respects one another, and holds a love for another that is consistent and unconditional. The truth is that this does not reflect reality for everyone. I had to make a very painful realization at a very young age, that neither of my parents would ever be able to acknowledge their toxicity, nor were they able to make choices that demonstrated their ability to function as reliable, safe, or stable figures in my life. Leaving an abusive family and being on your own at a very young age holds its own terror. People assume that it’s a deliberate choice, the responsibility being only on those who leave, a flimsy decision caused by common disagreements, and differences in values within the family, and that the members left behind can be reconciled with. In my case, that couldn't be farther from the truth. I assert that estrangement grief is a loss that's as heavy as death. You grieve the loving and healthy relationship with your parents that, as much as you tried to make it happen, it really could never be, because neither of your parents were ever capable of it in the first place. For me, “leaving” meant the difference between being trapped with dangerous people, terrified that every day I woke up in that house might be my last, and having the ability to say that the joy, love, and safety I spent years longing for is relatively within my grasp. Sometimes “leaving” and going no contact, is actually fleeing, creating an opportunity to survive that you eventually will lose if you stay. But it's also pure terror. You have to build your own life up from dirt and ashes. Stability and getting through the next day - none of that is assured until you’ve figured something out. But it’s better than a cold and dark house with splintered cabinets that reeks of trash and alcohol, locking yourself in a room, and fearing the next day you might need to use the remaining half a bottle of concealer to go to school and prevent a teacher from having a heart attack. Fleeing that situation is an effort to protect yourself and ensure that you can finally psychologically heal. You afford yourself opportunities to carve out a better future that you wouldn't have had prior (like getting a restraining order). And by fleeing, you carry the hope that one day you can wake up content with your life here on this Earth. If you work hard enough, you find a place to stay. You find a bed to sleep in, food to eat, and a shower to clean yourself off in. And sometimes, that same place is where you get your education. In my case, a 2-year college was the answer. And I worked so hard to get through it. I convinced my parents to let me work some jobs before I fled, and I sent emails and held calls with staff during my lunch breaks and late at night to register. I filled out the FAFSA all by myself, and financial aid helped it happen. Even then, my life stability always hung in the balance, and finances were always a struggle. There were times when I had to sacrifice most of my measly SSI, as my disabilities completely interfered with traditional job offers. And yet the college staff knew me, I was always communicating and trying to find solutions to pay off my expenses, and so they worked with me. This past spring semester, my last semester, I almost lost everything. I had an outstanding balance that was outside my means. Only with the generous hearts of those who donated to my gofundme was I able to pay it off. At this point, I had graduated as of May 17th, being given an associate’s in general studies with the highest honors possible, with a 3.9 GPA, and being a member of PTK on my record. Financing my education will always be a source of unyielding stress and uncertainty. I want nothing more than to be a social worker and advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community, as those populations often do not come from the best family environments. At this point, the only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through attending and being able to pay for Landmark College (A four-year) this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any financial assistance would be appreciated and life-changing. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. I was shamed for not only my medical needs but for being my out and authentic self and expressing myself freely. I was told constantly that I was not acceptable. Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to cook meals, clean, do laundry, access food banks, and emotionally regulate under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. These steps included working jobs, sending emails to and taking calls with any organizations that could help me in secret, filling out my FAFSA, and applying to and registering myself for college all on my own behind closed doors. As a result of my life situation, I have had no financial support and have a very small and limited income through SSI. This has caused me to struggle extremely with paying for college, and caused me great anxiety about my stability. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. Of note is my development of many valuable skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. I have also been told I am very proficient in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. My goal is to let those who have an abusive and/or supportive family situation know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disbaled community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through being able to pay for Landmark College this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to keep up with the necessities of living such as cooking meals, deep cleaning the house and my room, doing laundry, accessing food banks, and emotionally regulating under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. I started little. Sneaking out of the house to make my own bank account and getting odd minimum-wage jobs I could manage while doing online college. I worked whenever no one would notice and sacrificed my free time and sleep to maintain this secret. I gathered legal documents, filled out FASFA forms, and convinced my parents to let me work an out-of-state Summer Camp job. I registered for NHTI College and sent emails to staff members secretly during my lunches and 15-minute breaks. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. I graduated this May from NHTI with the highest honors possible, a near-perfect GPA, an academic achievement award, and I'm a member of the Phi Theta Kappa honor society. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want people who are stuck in an abusive situation to know that getting out is possible. Most importantly, I would love to make enough of a difference in this world that people can actively acknowledge the diversities of others from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning, and I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can. But at the moment, my life situation and my poverty are huge barriers to achieving this. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals is through attending and being able to pay for Landmark College (A four year) this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any assistance would be appreciated and life-changing. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. Mental health has been important to me as I have many mental health conditions myself, and I have experienced personally system-related injustices and have witnessed the unsuitable and sometimes even horrid and inhumane conditions and treatment given to those who are placed in corrupt-leaning mental health institutions. I myself have much-lived experience as a victim of psychological abuse and domestic violence that has given me insight into the larger picture of gaps within policies and services, as well as insufficient and inadequate 1) practices, 2) communication between practices/departments, and 3) communication between patient and clinician and/or between a team of clinicians/providers managing a patient. There is a distinct cultural and sociological relationship that must be addressed for those who are part of disadvantaged and discriminated against and/or widely stigmatized groups facing oppressive and/or poor quality life experiences and being at high risk of encountering some form of abuse and/or violence in their lifetimes. Discrimination against and/or infantilization of the victim is often a factor that is highly relevant to the abuse experienced. An intersectional approach, I believe, is best suited to fully recognizing how each and every aspect of a person's diversity (race, gender identity, sexuality, level of ability and/or disability, economic status, etc.) needs to be taken into consideration when an individual of a diverse group expresses some oppression-related distress that effects their mental health. I advocate that the most appropriate method to help others is through context-specific responses which keep in mind that multiple categories of oppression co-exist within an individual's life to construct unique experiences of violence and abuse, and responses should be catered to an individual in a way that is respectful and accessible to a person, keeping their diverse needs in mind in a way that considers and validates their autonomy and goals towards personal growth. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments and often have mental health needs that would respond most positively to the approach listed above. My goal is to let those who have a poor quality of life due to having abusive experiences or having an unsupportive family know that getting out, finding safety and stability, and having their mental health needs met can be achievable. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disbaled community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all. I want to teach people how to accommodate themselves to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical, mental health, and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. If I could help communities have easier access to resources that allow would individuals of all diverse groups to have their unique needs met, that would be my ultimate goal. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to this becoming a reality in any way I can.

Hello there! My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled, individual who has had to fight very hard through most of my life because I was forced to escape from an abusive family. I faced all sorts of cruelty (medical and general neglect, emotional, mental, and physical abuse, etc). I was largely resented as my needs were seen as largely inconvenient and I consequently was seen as a huge burden on my parent's shoulders. As well as this, Every family member of mine suffered from some kind of money-draining addiction. Both of my parents, unfortunately, prioritized numbing themselves from their (general life and parental) responsibilities and delved deeply into their addictions to escape them. They always lived in the moment, wasting money on their poor life choices instead of saving for the future, which made them suffer financially, and I also suffered greatly by extension. I've been alone as a teen for days on end in homes with little to no groceries, no power, and no water shut off. I survived by using my high school showers, washing machines, and food pantries with permission from instructors. Every house's general facilities, as well as my room, were barely suitable for living. I moved many times from 13 -16, transferring school districts and bouncing around multiple homes. My life was extremely unstable. I was under so much stress I was diagnosed with tics, panic attacks, a severe anxiety disorder, depression, and C-PTSD when I was 15 -18. I knew I had to take action and make a very hard choice. I realized that If I didn’t escape my situation, my life would not improve whatsoever. So, in the end, I steeled myself to decide. “I will just do it by all myself”. So from 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself from them slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. These steps included working jobs, sending emails to and taking calls with any organizations that could help me in secret, filling out my FAFSA, applying for SSI/food stamps, and applying to and registering myself for college all on my own behind closed doors. I have now graduated from a 2-year, but it wasn't easy at all. My housing stability was, and currently is still, dependent on living in a dorm. I almost wasn't able to completely afford last semester's classes and housing, even with the financial aid I had, and with the sacrifices I made by giving the college generous chunks of my measly Social Security Income. I have always thrown my entire being into my education. I desire nothing more than to work hard and advance in my studies so that I may get a future job that not only allows me to support myself, but also provides me with opportunities to advocate for and assist others who also need better lives. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments and struggle financially. I would love nothing more than to attend the 4-year college of my dreams, Landmark College in Vermont, and not have to stress and stretch myself constantly financially thin to afford housing (as living in the dorms is my only option once again) and education-related costs. But at the moment, my life situation and my poverty are huge barriers to achieving this. Any assistance in this matter would be so appreciated and life-changing. Thank you.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. I was shamed for not only my medical needs but for being my out and authentic self and expressing myself freely. I was told constantly that I was not acceptable. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. These steps included working jobs, sending emails to and taking calls with any organizations that could help me in secret, filling out my FAFSA, and applying to and registering myself for college all on my own. Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to keep up with the necessities of living such as cooking meals, cleaning, doing laundry, accessing food banks, and emotionally regulating under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. My goal is to let those who have an abusive and/or supportive family situation know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ and disbaled community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all. I want to teach people how to accommodate for themselves and to be able to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want disabled and/or LGBTQ+ people to be able to access the medical and/or gender-affirming treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning, and my education (as well as my 4.0 GPA) to hold merit. I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. College payments have been a great source of stress. Out of the few I have, the disability that helped shape my career goals and brought about my passion for helping other disabled people is my dystonia. I used to be completely unable to walk and lacked any ability to control my muscles. My tremors and my pain were constant, and I remember the distress I felt not only because of how my condition impacted my quality of life, but because of how others judged and perceived me, and made assumptions instead of trying to get to know me. High school does not carry good memories for this reason. I know that people tend to make quick (and often incorrect) assumptions about individuals based on first impressions which creates opportunities for prejudice and animosity to occur. Knowing what it is like to be judged because of this, I would like nothing more than to educate people and make a difference so that people consider the feelings of everyone, and acknowledge their diversities from a place of kindness, respect, patience, and understanding, Helping people to make a habit of throwing their assumptions about others away and make room to get to know them, I believe, is a great first step. My great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate started from moments like this. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I feel the skills I know that the skills I have gained prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to teach people how to accommodate for themselves and to be able to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want people to be able to access the treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning, and my college education (as well as my 4.0 GPA) to hold merit. My graduation from a two-year college (NHTI) with high honors, I believe, is indicative of that. Even if I can’t change the world, I deeply desire to contribute to positive change in any way I can. The only way I can see myself achieving my goals and continue to have life stability is through attending and being able to pay for Landmark College (A four year) this upcoming Fall 2024 semester, (I am delighted to say I have been accepted!) so any assistance would be appreciated. Thank you!

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. I was shamed for not only my medical needs but for being my out and authentic self and expressing myself freely. I was told constantly that I was not acceptable. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. These steps included working jobs, sending emails tp and taking calls with any organizations that could help me in secret, filling out my FAFSA, and applying to and registering myself for college all on my own. Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to keep up with the necessities of living such as cooking meals, cleaning, doing laundry, accessing food banks, and emotionally regulating under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I have now achieved this and so, so much more. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I feel the skills I know that the skills I have gained prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. My goal is to let those who have an abusive and/or supportive family situation know that getting out is an option. Building a life that affirms yourself, where thriving, and healing, and having a spiritual/found family that takes you in, tells you "you are worth it", and supports you in every way you ever dreamed of, is POSSIBLE. Self-affirmation and communal love are the central joys of being a part of the LGBTQ+ community. I want to spread knowledge about disabilities and help rectify the pervasive misinformation that contributes to public stigma about disabled people. I want to make a change that fosters an accepting environment for all. I want to teach people how to accommodate for themselves and to be able to make their lives easier and more enjoyable. I want people to be able to access the treatment they need without having to deal with years-long waitlists and distorted systems. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning, and my education (as well as my 4.0 GPA) to hold merit. Even if I can’t change the world, I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can.

My name is Sullivan Bono. I am a 23-year-old queer, disabled individual who is passionate about human rights advocacy work. I am in great need of help paying for college as I escaped an abusive family on my own and have great financial struggles as a result. From 17-19, I made and executed a two-year escape plan. I would separate myself slowly and subtly, and take steps towards my complete independence. These steps included working jobs, sending emails out to any organizations that could help me in secret, filling out my FAFSA, and applying to and registering myself for college all on my own. Due to the violence and neglect I faced, I also had to function without aid or support for extended periods of time. I learned how to keep up with the necessities of living such as cooking meals, deep cleaning the house and my room, doing laundry, accessing food banks, and emotionally regulating under the stress of these responsibilities while also dedicating myself to my studies. It took all of my willpower to survive and to believe that escape was a realistic option. I had now achieved this and so, so much more. As a result of my life situation, I have developed many skills, such as learning how to access and navigate community resources, state resources, and court systems, learning how to advocate for myself and others in a clear and assertive but still respectful manner, and how to handle adult responsibilities such as effective communication, organization, and time management. One great strength I have is that I am extremely dedicated and once I have a goal set, I am determined to meet it. I am skilled at critical thinking, and I have also developed quite a proficiency in research and communicating articulately. I have found great motivation to pursue social work and to be a human rights advocate. I would love to be known as an advocate for those in the LGBTQ+ and disabled community (often these spheres have great overlap) as those are the populations who often do not come from the best family environments. I know that the skills I have gained prove that there is nothing better I am suited for. I want nothing more than my struggles to have meaning and my 4.0 GPA to hold its merit. Even if I can’t change the world (as setting that goal feels far too pretentious) I deeply desire to help others and contribute to positive change in any way I can.