The moment I realized my life had to change was the night my daughter looked at me and asked, “Mom, are we going to be okay?” We were dealing with instability, financial stress, emotional pressure, and an environment that did not feel peaceful or secure. That simple question cut straight through me. I knew I wanted to build a better life for her. One that was rooted in stability, healing, and long-term independence. That moment is what pushed me to return to school and pursue massage therapy and trauma informed bodywork.
I am currently studying massage therapy with the intention of specializing in myofascial release and emotional trauma release for women. This field is deeply important to me because I’ve experienced how untreated stress, trauma, and instability can build up in the body. My studies allow me to understand the physical, emotional, and energetic layers of wellness, and I plan to use this training to help women release stored tension, regulate their nervous systems, and connect back to themselves. Massage therapy aligns with the work I already do in the wellness community and represents the next step in building something meaningful and sustainable.
Being in school as a single parent has come with significant obstacles. Over the years, I’ve overcome homelessness, bankruptcy, a car repossession, and the emotional difficulty of separating myself from family members who were not healthy for me. I’ve experienced being taken advantage of, being scammed by people I thought I could trust, and having to start over more than once. Alongside that, I’ve had to juggle the pressures of entrepreneurship, parenting, and trying to maintain my sense of self-worth and direction.
The biggest challenge has been learning to build stability while living in an environment that does not always support my independence. As I work toward moving out and creating a peaceful home for my daughter, I face financial pressure and emotional instability that makes the balance between school, work, and motherhood even more difficult. Despite all of this, I continue showing up for my daughter and for my goals because I want her to grow up seeing resilience instead of survival mode. I want her to understand that breaking cycles, whether emotional, financial, or generational is possible.
Once I complete my degree, my goal is to build a career that provides long-term financial independence, stability, and generational wealth. I plan to expand the services at Sacred House Wellness Studio and eventually build a national brand focused on feminine healing, nervous system regulation, and trauma-informed care. I also want to create a dedicated wellness program for women and teen girls, helping them understand their bodies, heal from emotional injuries, and develop confidence rooted in self-awareness and safety.
My mission is bigger than one career. I want to help women break cycles of trauma and reclaim their peace, especially those who grew up in environments where emotional wellness wasn’t taught or encouraged. I want my daughter to see me build something that lasts. Something that shows her she can create a life from strength rather than fear.
Returning to school has been a powerful step toward that future. This program is giving me the knowledge, training, and structure I need to become fully licensed and professionally prepared. It is the foundation for the life I’m building for my daughter, for my community, and for myself. Every assignment, every exam, every moment of studying is a step toward the stable, empowered future I want for both of us.