Success is so often self-defined. How do “I” succeed, how do “I” become better, how do “I” reach “my” victory? Every high school student’s goal is to be the best at what they do and outdo others in any way they can; this is the way we have been taught to make our way through life, it’s all about us. I’ll admit that I fell into this mindset of seeking success for most of my life, but high school has brought me to a much less common outlook on what success means and how you achieve it.
I began swimming competitively for the first time in seventh grade, as I wanted to try something brand new. I remember honestly wanting to quit pretty early on; there was almost no support or instruction from my coaches, especially for us beginners. But I remember some of the high schoolers constantly taking the time to come help us during practices, doing the small bits of extra work nobody asked them to do. If it weren’t for those students stepping up when I was lost, I likely would have threw in the towel. There weren’t a lot of things that truly resonated with me at that age, but this was one of the few.
Sophomore year, I began assistant coaching for the middle school swim team for volunteer hours. From the very beginning, I was hit square in the face with coaching day long swim meets, hours of organizing practice plans, and week after week teaching basic strokes from the ground up. The investment was almost immediately overwhelming to the point I worried it wasn’t worth it. But something pulled at my heart to stay, and as I continued pushing through over those years, my eyes were opened to why. I wasn’t there for me; I was there for them. Coaching didn’t make me a faster swimmer, a more popular person, or a money making teen; it gave me something better, it made me truly understand how impactful one person can be to opening the door for another’s success. Just as those highschoolers once did for me, it was my turn to be that leader for someone else. My victory was never meant to be my own, it was meant to come from my sacrifices for the victory of others.
As I move into a new stage of life studying nursing at Trevecca Nazarene University, this mindset opens so many doors of opportunity for me to contribute to something greater than myself rather than still seeking self-success. Trevecca’s nursing program is brand new starting this school year; it’s a fresh beginning of what will be the foundation of the program forever. Having experience with building up both programs and the people within them, I want to take advantage of the opportunity to be involved in creating a legacy of success for this program that outlives my own involvement. There is a precedent to be set that will direct the course of students who walk down that path for years to come, and I have the opportunity to set the bar high.
The only thing that stands in my way is time. We all know college is expensive, and where I stand right now, I will have to spend my non-school time working to pay my way through college. However, I continue to make conscious efforts towards offsetting this cost as I apply to at least 3 scholarships a week. With the help of these scholarships, I hope to be able to take my mindset, put it to work, and build a legacy of success for not only myself, but for those who will follow.