The person who has inspired me to pursue higher education is certainly my Fiance, Dante. Prior to meeting him I did not believe I could complete the achievement of earning a College degree. Growing up in a household of Mexican immigrants, my priority was always work over my education. I unfortunately was not stressed the importance and privilege of a higher education. Back in 2019 I dropped out of my community college. In 2021 I met my now Fiance, he is truly one of the hard workers and smartest people I have ever met. I watched him receive his BS while working full time, paying rent, and being a part of a D2 baseball program. He has accomplished so many great things, and deserves every bit of it. Along the way he has also reminded me that I am smart and capable individual. Prior to meeting him I certainly was not going down a successful path, and the thought of going back to college was daunting. He has inspired me everyday and shown me the importance of discipline and hard work. Last fall, I took the leap and enrolled in classes at my local Junior College. I was terrified, yet here I am a semester away from receiving my Associates degree, and transferring to a University. I could not be more proud of myself, although I feel guilt a regret for the time I feel I wasted, I am so glad I didn’t go back until it was something I truly wanted to achieve. The summer after I had graduated High School, I was enrolled in a public speaking class at my local Junior College. Truthfully, I had only enrolled in the class as it was a general education requirement. However, it was this class that made me decide to become a communications major. Growing up I was incredibly shy, although I wish I was more engaged in my academics I am incredibly thankful for the time I spent working at my families restaurant in High School. This took me out of my comfort zone and showed me the significance of being personable and speaking confidently. I believe my time at the restaurant had a great impact on my ability to perform well in my public speaking class. Four years later as I returned to school, I took a debate class. This pushed my critical thinking skills, and forced me to be confident. The impact public speaking classes can have on an individual should not be overlooked. You can also surprise yourself as an individual by pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.

Throughout highschool I struggled immensely with mental health, and felt alone in this experience. Nothing seemed certain, I didn’t know how to navigate through life, everyday seemed like battle to just simply get through it. However, through the silent suffering I learned the importance of listening to others and understanding yourself. It has taught me empathy, instilling within me a deep compassion for others facing similar battles.I've come to recognize that everyone is fighting their own battles, even if they're not immediately visible on the surface. This belief has led me to approach every interaction with kindness and understanding, knowing that a simple act of compassion can make a world of difference to someone who is struggling. One of the most significant beliefs that emerged from my journey with mental health is the understanding that vulnerability is not a weakness but a strength. I came to realize the power behind opening up and sharing our struggles. It was through moments of vulnerability that I found true connection with others, as they shared their own stories of pain and resilience. This belief in the power of vulnerability has influenced not only how I interact with others but also how I navigate my own struggles, embracing them as part of my journey rather than something to be hidden or ashamed of. In terms of relationships, my journey has been a rollercoaster. There were moments when I felt utterly alone, isolated by the weight of my struggles. Yet, there were also moments of connection, where I discovered the true power of vulnerability and authenticity. These experiences have shaped my relationships, guiding me towards those who value empathy, patience, and understanding and ensuring I can provide others with the same. In regards to my career aspirations, I have always been drawn towards careers that involve human interaction. I believe my struggles with mental health have given me the ability to be personable, I enjoy the positive impact I can have on individuals through simple interactions. Back in 2020 I went to beauty school to become an esthetician. This decision had as much to do with my passion for skin care as it did my passion my people. In high school I struggled with acne, this was deeply rooted with mental health struggles. I am incredibly grateful I got the opportunity to provide some many people with a feeling of understanding and compassion in regards to their skin, especially those in high school. This career also allowed me to listen and talk with those who needed it. For many, their esthetic services provided much more than a beauty service. I was someone who listened, and understood with no judgment and this is something I am incredibly grateful for.