A time when I have been "Boldly, Unapologetically Me" is in my high school varsity cheer team, alot of the girls on my team have been doing things that I personally dont agree with and that don't align with the beliefs I have as a Christian. While the easy thing to do would be to join in, I knew that wasn't who I am. I didnt tell them not to do it or judge them because that isn't my place, but I was not going to join in. One of the girls in particular was one of my best friends, for a while we were super close and shared alot of the same values. Then, she suddenly got a wild streak and began to drink, smoke, do things with boys, and was rude to others, and overall, did not put herself in the best situations. We began to grow apart because I didnt join in and didnt enable her decisions. One day, she had asked me, and I told her that I didnt agree with her actions for myself, but that i didnt judge her. Overall, I am glad that I stayed true to who I am as I am proud of what I have accomplished over the past months, like earning alot of college credit as a high schooler, saving money, getting into my dream school, and volunteering, and I dont think I would have been able to accomplish all of it if I didnt stay true to myself.
I have been able to make my community a more inclusive space by being a part of a unified club at my high school. The purpose of the unified club is to make my school more inclusive, and it allows you to help the special needs students at our school build their social skills with students their age and help them feel included in our school. I have been able to help with different events the Unified Club has, including World Kindness Day, Suicide Prevention Month, and "spread the word to end the word". I have helped make posters, pass out things, and show up to their events, and have recently started to paint banners for their events. I have also been able to help make my community more inclusive from my cheer team as a captian, as a cheerleader I have helped in alot of community events and I have tried to make sure that everyone on our team feel like they have a place, like when we would take picture make sure I was taking pictures with everyone and when we would do different team bonding make sure everyone is including in the ways i can.