Prompt 1: When I was a young boy, I was naturally athletic and good at sports. I was a gifted baseball player. I was great all around. I could bat with the best, could pitch with the best, and was the best fielder up through Little League. As I aged and everyone else around me aged, my height and strength didn’t keep up with everyone. Before I knew it, I was on the bench, only known for being a good fielder.
I went through middle school falling from where I once was. Thinking I would never be great at anything in life again. This was demoralizing to me. The thought that you could be tossed to the side or on the bench scared me to the core. That’s when I tried cross country running I was good for my class, but nothing special. Still small and not as physically mature as everyone else, I held my own and by the end of my 8th grade year, I was my middle school team’s 3rd best runner. I went into my freshman year thinking I was untouchable.
Halfway through my freshman cross country season, I suffered a stress fracture in my right fibula. Doctors thought my season was over and I believed my aspirations to be at the top of a sport again were over. I started rehab and watched my fellow reach new personal bests while I sat on the sidelines.
That’s when I thought back to my baseball days, and I felt those same feelings of frustration, loss, and disappointment. I once again prepared to enter mediocrity, my one true fear. The fear that you will never be someone’s first, second or third choice but an after thought.
Something changed under my high school cross country coach, Dr. Marr. Dr. Marr, a sports psychologist and professor at my local university, beloved by his positive and personable coaching style, took me under his wing. Towards the end of the season, I started to train again and trained like I never had before. In the past, I was able to be a contender based on raw skill, but now I was unveiling my true potential. I was able to run in the final JV race of the season, beating my goal of sub 20 minutes.
I look back on this memory with great pleasure, knowing this was a turning point in my life. This nugget of success that grew from a pot of failure, but nourished each day by training and hard work showed me that not just in sports but also in life, school, relationships or what ever endeavor you face, you need to study, train, or be a student of the game. Which in turn sets you up to have consistent positive outcomes. Those positive outcomes have led me to be a leader, a role model, and a star on not just my cross country/track team, but also off the track, in the class room, and into every day life.