Rugby family, to me, is the constant thread of support, mentorship, and belonging that follows you no matter where you play. It is built not just through the game itself, but through the people who challenge you, uplift you, and grow alongside you.
Playing for the University of Chicago has given me some of my closest friends. People who push me every day to be stronger, both physically and mentally. Being part of this team, and stepping into the role of captain next year, has shown me how much leadership and trust define a true rugby family. It’s about showing up for each other, whether that’s during a tough practice, a difficult match, or moments off the field.
At the same time, my experience with the Columbus Squirrels shaped my understanding of what it means to be supported. As the youngest player, I was surrounded by athletes I looked up to; women who encouraged me, guided me, and showed me what it meant to belong in this sport. They made rugby feel like a home I could grow into.
Through Ohio Elite, I found another side of rugby family: a community of players who are just as driven and passionate as I am. Being surrounded by individuals who share the same dedication pushed me to raise my own standards and deepened my love for the game.
This sense of family became even more real to me when I had to undergo knee surgery. Being sidelined was one of the most difficult challenges I’ve faced, both physically and mentally. But throughout my recovery, every one of my teams showed up for me. My teammates checked in on me, encouraged me through rehab, and reminded me that I was still an important part of the team even when I couldn’t be on the field. They celebrated every milestone in my comeback, no matter how small. Their support gave me the strength to keep pushing forward and reinforced that rugby is about far more than just playing; it’s about the people who stand beside you through every setback and every success.
Across all these teams, one thing has remained constant: the rugby community is everywhere, and it is incredibly strong. No matter where I go, I know I will find people who share the same passion, resilience, and commitment. That is what rugby family means to me. It is not limited to one team, but exists across every field, every city, and every level of the sport.
As I continue playing rugby in college, I hope to continue growing as both a player and a leader. I want to compete at a higher level, contribute meaningfully to my team, and help foster the same sense of community that has shaped me. I hope to be the kind of teammate that younger players can look up to, just as I once did.
Most importantly, I want to continue building and strengthening the rugby family, creating spaces where women feel empowered, supported, and inspired to pursue the sport. Rugby has given me confidence, resilience, and lifelong connections, and I am committed to carrying those values forward at the collegiate level and beyond.