Growing up in a single-parent household, my mom was the foundation of my life. She worked long hours to provide for me, making sure I had food on the table, clothes on my back, and the support I needed to succeed. Even when she was exhausted, she always made time to check in on me, ask about my day, and remind me that I was capable of achieving anything I set my mind to. My dad wasn’t around, but I still had my moms family that were mostly made up of strong women and father figures, picking me up from my after-school program, helping me with homework, and making sure I always felt supported.
Having so many people look out for me taught me the value of building a strong community. I remember my aunt taking me to the library every weekend, encouraging my curiosity and love for learning and books. My grandmother always reminded me to stay humble and kind, teaching me that success isn’t just about what you achieve, but how you help others along the way. Even my cousins played a role, always pushing me to do my best in school and never settle for less than I deserved. Because of them, I grew up knowing that even when life gets difficult, I have a support system to lean on.
Seeing my mom’s sacrifices and my family’s generosity has shaped my goals for the future. No matter what career I choose, I know I want to make a difference in people’s lives. Whether through engineering or another path I discover along the way, I want to create solutions that help others in their daily life, especially those who come from difficult circumstances, like I did. I want to use my skills to make life easier for people, just like my family did for me. At times, it wasn’t easy watching other kids have both of their parents there for them by just being present. There were moments when I wished things had been different, but instead of dwelling on what I didn’t have, I focused on the love and support I did have. My mom was both a mother and a father to me, and my family filled in the gaps where they could.
Looking ahead, I picture a future where I’m able to give back in the same way I was supported. That might mean mentoring students who don’t have role models, developing technology that improves people’s lives, or even helping create opportunities for underprivileged communities. Whatever I end up doing, I want to carry forward the lessons I learned from my family that revolves around hard work and lifting the spirits of others.