Before I began my journey of helping others who struggle with addiction and mental health issues, I was closed off to empathizing with them. I truly believed that much of what people said was untrue and that they were simply exhibiting drug-seeking behaviors. As an addict who didn’t identify as one, I couldn’t understand why others acted the way they did. I often asked myself, “Why can’t they control their usage?” It wasn’t until later that I realized I was just like them. I had an epiphany: I needed help, just like those I once thought were faking it. I realized something had to change, and I chose recovery, which allowed me to see life through a different lens.
Once my eyes were opened to the changes I needed to make, I began to understand those close to me who were struggling. I saw that they weren’t simply choosing to act this way—they were under the control of an invisible force, one that affected not just their thinking but their entire lives. They were powerless against it. This realization inspired me to make a difference in my world and the lives of others. I knew that in order to make a real impact, I needed education, so I returned to school.
In 2013, I enrolled in community college and began working toward my first associate’s degree in behavioral science. After completing it, I returned to the workforce to pay off school debt. During this time, I got married to someone I believed had it all together. However, about a year later, she was diagnosed with a split personality disorder, and mental health issues became a daily struggle in our marriage. I saw firsthand how difficult it is for someone battling the feeling of losing their mind. Unfortunately, that marriage didn’t last, but the experience of seeing someone I loved face these uncontrollable struggles stayed with me.
For over fourteen years, I’ve been involved in 12-step communities, working with men who face challenges beyond just addiction. These experiences have shaped my decision to pursue a path where I can help others. In 2023, I returned to school to earn another associate’s degree in addiction treatment and secured a position at a men’s residential and detox facility, where I have the privilege of helping men find hope and acceptance. Additionally, I work with men outside of the facility, sponsoring them through the steps and helping them live differently.
With all this experience, I’ve now set my sights on my future. I recently began the journey to become a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and started my bachelor’s program in January 2025. I am fully committed to this goal and have dedicated myself to balancing two jobs and school. With my extensive history in addiction and the prison system, I believe my life experiences can help other men like me. I’ve been blessed to see how my interactions have helped some, and I’m determined to continue this work. I aspire to become a therapist in a youth facility, helping troubled teens make better decisions and leading them toward a brighter future. I know this is possible, and I am determined to do my part.
Thank you for your time and for this opportunity. With support from people like you, we can create a better world for those battling the stigma of addiction and mental health issues.