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pearl loving

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Bio

My name is Pearl. I am currently 17 years old with a passion for helping others. I plan to earn a BA in Psychology and become a clinical therapist. I am motivated by the people around me to push harder everyday. In the future, I aspire to further my education by pursuing a PhD and open my own private practice.

Education

John W North High School

High School
2024 - 2025

Miscellaneous

  • Desired degree level:

    Master's degree program

  • Majors of interest:

    • Clinical, Counseling and Applied Psychology
    • Psychology, General
  • Not planning to go to medical school
  • Career

    • Dream career field:

      Individual & Family Services

    • Dream career goals:

      Clinical Therapist

      Sports

      Cheerleading

      Varsity
      2011 – 20198 years

      Awards

      • MVP

      Basketball

      Junior Varsity
      2022 – 20231 year

      Awards

      • Deffensive MVP

      Arts

      • West Valley High School

        Visual Arts
        2024 – 2024
      • John W. North High School

        Ceramics
        2024 – Present

      Public services

      • Volunteering

        AFJROTC — Group leader/ Reporter
        2021 – 2023
      • Volunteering

        AFJROTC — Group leader
        2021 – 2023

      Future Interests

      Advocacy

      Volunteering

      Entrepreneurship

      C's Get Degrees Scholarship
      Throughout my academic journey, I have faced countless obstacles—constant moving, instability, and toxicity in both homes and relationships. Growing up, life was anything but easy. My mother was a drug addict who repeatedly put my siblings and me in danger to support her habit. My father, though an addict in recovery, was still an alcoholic who relapsed constantly. We faced eviction after eviction, moving from place to place with no sense of stability. Eventually, my father, unable to cope with the responsibilities of being a dad, left us. With him went the little stability we had left. My mother didn’t step up. Instead, my older brother, who was just nine years old at the time, took on the responsibility of caring for me and my siblings. We survived on pudding and candy because it was all we had to eat. At one point, we lived in a van before my mother moved us into a so-called “friend’s” house. That house became the setting for one of the most terrifying moments of my childhood—one that finally made my mother realize the danger she was putting us in. One night, a gun was fired at us, and in that moment, something changed. She called my oldest sister, who was 24 at the time, and asked for help. But even after being removed from that immediate danger, my struggles were far from over. I had to cope with the emotional absence of my oldest sister, who was consumed with her own responsibilities, all while I was enduring physical and mental abuse from one of my brothers and a nephew. These experiences forced me to grow up faster than I should have, shaping me into someone stronger and more resilient despite the circumstances. For most of my childhood, I lived with my aunt, my Papa, and my sister, as my parents were largely absent from my upbringing. My sister eventually gained guardianship of me. As the youngest of eight siblings, I grew up in a crowded household, where financial struggles were constant. Despite this, my guardians did their best to provide for me, and I always thought I would have my Papa for longer than I did. But in 2016, he passed away suddenly. His loss devastated me. He was more of a father to me than my biological one ever was. He taught me what love and care should look like—how people who truly love you are supposed to treat you. Losing him meant losing not just a guardian, but one of the few people who brought me pure joy and happiness. Then, at just 14 years old, I faced another devastating loss. My Auntie—my rock, my protector, the one who loved me unconditionally—passed away. She raised me as her own and gave me the kind of love and stability I will always cherish. But behind her kindness and strength was a silent battle. For years, she struggled with her mental health, searching for relief through medications and treatments that never seemed to help her in the way she deserved. Watching her fight this uphill battle, and ultimately losing her to it, left a hole in my heart that will never truly heal. She is the reason college is so important to me. She always believed in me, in my potential, in my dreams. She wanted me to perform at my highest level and pursue everything I set my mind to. I know she’s watching over me, guiding me, and I want to make her proud. Furthering my education isn’t just about success; it’s about breaking the cycle of instability, trauma, and loss that has defined so much of my past. It’s about proving to myself that I am capable of creating the future I want, not the one I was forced into. College is my opportunity to gain the tools I need to succeed—to help others in the way I once wished someone could have helped me. I want to be the kind of support system that my aunt was for me. My past does not define me, and this next chapter of my life is my chance to take control, to build something new. This fresh start is mine to create.
      Aserina Hill Memorial Scholarship
      I am a 17-year-old high school senior deeply committed to helping others, especially those unable to help themselves. Growing up in a lower-middle-class family, I witnessed firsthand the financial struggles of my community, which shaped my passion for giving back. I could not provide monetary assistance, but I discovered the power of volunteering to make a difference. One of the most influential figures in my life was my aunt, who passed away in early 2022. Her love, kindness, and generosity continue to inspire me to this day. I also sympathize deeply with the family, friends, and students of the remarkable Mrs. Aserina Hill. Loss is undeniably painful, but this scholarship’s beauty stems from her legacy. My journey in service began with volunteering at high school football, basketball, and wrestling games. From there, I participated in toy drives and festivals at local elementary schools and contributed to food and clothing drives. Once I earned my first community service hours, I knew I would continue dedicating myself to this work. Volunteering has brought immense joy to my heart and to those I’ve helped. If I could start a charity, it would focus on low-income and homeless families. This organization would provide essential resources such as clothing, shoes, fresh and nonperishable food, educational books and supplies, and hygiene products. Beyond meeting basic needs, I would strive to help individuals aged 16 and older obtain jobs and the certifications necessary to sustain them. Our mission would be to ensure families in need have access to necessities that support health and education, ultimately enabling them to thrive. Over the past three years, volunteering has become a very important portion of my life. During this time, I was also part of the Air Force Junior Reserve Officer Training Corps (AFJROTC) program, where I achieved the rank of 1st Lieutenant before transferring schools due to challenges at home. Through AFJROTC, I developed discipline and learned how to lead and mentor others. Additionally, I served as president of my school’s Black Student Union (BSU) for two years. In this role, I worked to educate members about African American history through Black History Month parades, expos, workshops, and cultural productions. These experiences have fueled my passion for helping others and shaped my future aspirations. Being awarded this scholarship would help me achieve my goal of earning a master’s degree in psychology at California State University, San Bernardino. I plan to become an adolescent therapist to support teenagers and young adults struggling with mental health challenges. I strongly believe that with strong mental health, individuals can overcome barriers and achieve their goals. Thank you for considering my application. I am deeply grateful for this opportunity and for Mrs. Hill’s enduring legacy, which will continue to inspire young adults to create positive change in the world.
      Frederick and Bernice Beretta Memorial Scholarship
      I am dedicated to helping people just as Mr. & Mrs. Beretta were. Growing up I was around so many disadvantaged people, especially kids. Being a kid myself and having to live through the financial and mental struggles no kid should be in changed the way I thought and acted. Once I got to the age of being able to help others I took that advantage. I've been involved in multiple Community services, helping at school events like football games, basketball games, and band events. I didn't stop at my school but continued to lend a helping had to the children in my city bringing toys, food and clothes to children who didn't always have enough. Volunteering is something that I hold very close to my heart. I am dedicated to helping people, just as Mr. and Mrs. Beretta were. Their unwavering commitment to serving others has shaped and changed many people's lives. Growing up, I was surrounded by many disadvantaged people, particularly children. Experiencing financial and mental struggles that no child should endure had a huge impact on me. It changed the way I thought and acted, instilling in me a deep empathy for others and a strong desire to make a difference. When I reached the age where I could actively contribute to my community, I embraced every opportunity to help others. I have participated in numerous community service activities over the years, each one reinforcing my belief in the importance of giving back. At school, I volunteered at various events, including football games, basketball games, and band performances. These experiences allowed me to connect with others and support my peers in ways that created a sense of unity and belonging. However, my commitment to service extended far beyond the walls of my school. I recognized that many children in my city faced challenges far greater than those I had experienced. With this understanding, I devoted my time and energy to helping them in meaningful ways. I organized and participated in initiatives to provide toys, food, and clothing to children who lacked basic necessities. Seeing their faces light up with joy and relief was an indescribable feeling, one that reminded me of the power of compassion and collective action. Volunteering has become more than just an activity for me—it is a deeply ingrained part of who I am. It has taught me lessons about resilience, gratitude, and the strength of community which are invaluable. Through these experiences, I have learned that even small acts of kindness can have a significant impact on someone’s life. I am committed to continuing this work and striving to create a better future for those in need. Just as Mr. and Mrs. Beretta inspired others, I hope to inspire others to embrace the spirit of service and make a difference in their own communities. Helping others is not only a responsibility but also a privilege—one that I will carry with me throughout my life.
      Linda Kay Monroe Whelan Memorial Education Scholarship
      I send my deepest condolences to everyone affected by the passing of this golden-hearted woman, Mrs. Linda Whelan. Like Mrs. Whelan, I share a profound love for helping others through volunteer work. During my 3 ½ years of high school, I accumulated over 500 hours of community service through my JROTC program. My volunteer efforts ranged from guarding gates at sporting events and setting up for band concerts to assisting with elementary school festivals and organizing toy drives. Among all these experiences, my favorite event was the elementary school toy drive, which I attended three years in a row. I hope to return in December 2025 to continue making a difference. Volunteering with children and peers has shaped me into a more empathetic and vulnerable individual, teaching me vital life skills like patience and effective communication. Volunteering has filled a special place in my heart. Seeing the joy on children’s faces as they open their gifts inspires me to continue giving back throughout my life. It reminds me of how much of a difference one person can make by simply lending a hand. I didn’t grow up with much. I spent most of my life living with my aunt and sister, as my parents were inactive in my upbringing. I am the youngest of eight siblings, and my sister gained guardianship of me when I was only four years old. With five children in the household and another on the way, financial struggles were a constant reality. Despite these challenges, my guardians did their best to provide for me. Life has been challenging for me, and I have battled depression and PTSD for years. Yet, I’ve never allowed these struggles to hold me back. If anything, the adversities I’ve faced have given me a greater understanding of the challenges others endure. My education has always been a priority, as school is where I thrive both physically and mentally. After obtaining my Bachelor of Arts in Psychology, I aspire to become a clinical therapist. Helping others is something I excel at, and I aim to improve mental health support, creating spaces where people can thrive and lead healthier, more balanced lives. I wish to honor Mrs. Monroe Whelan’s life, dedication, and purpose. She has left a lasting and beautiful mark on her community, and her absence will undoubtedly be felt deeply. There will never be another individual as committed to helping others as she was. May she rest in peace.
      Ethel Hayes Destigmatization of Mental Health Scholarship
      Mental health has always been a deeply personal and trans-formative force in my life. At the age of 14, I witnessed its devastating effects on the person who meant the world to me—my aunt. She wasn’t just family; she was my rock, my protector, and the one who loved me unconditionally. She raised me as her own and gave me the kind of love and stability I’ll always cherish. But behind her kindness and strength was a silent battle. For years, she struggled with her mental health, trying to find relief through medications and treatments that never seemed to help her the way she deserved. Watching her fight this uphill battle, and eventually losing her to that fight, left a hole in my heart that will never truly heal. Her passing forced me to confront the fragility of mental well-being and the heartbreaking gaps in our support systems. I often think about how different her life could have been if she had access to someone who truly understood her pain—someone who could have helped her find hope. Her loss didn’t just leave me grieving; it left me determined. Determined to create a future where people like my aunt don’t have to suffer in silence or feel like their struggles are invisible. At the same time, I was navigating my own battle with mental health. Being diagnosed with depression and PTSD at 15 felt like carrying an invisible weight that no one else could see. I didn’t have the words to explain what I was feeling or why simple tasks felt insurmountable. The darkness of suicidal thoughts crept in, convincing me that I was alone in my pain. The stigma surrounding mental health only deepened my isolation, making it harder to reach out for help. Yet, in those moments of despair, I found small flickers of hope—moments where someone’s kindness, a small gesture, or simply being seen reminded me that healing was possible. Those glimmers of hope became my lifeline, and they ignited a passion in me to be that lifeline for others. The loss of my aunt strengthened my resolve to pursue a path where I could make a difference in the lives of others. I want to honor her memory by dedicating my life to ensuring that no one else feels as alone or unsupported as she did. I want to create a space where people feel safe to share their struggles and find the strength to heal. These experiences have deeply shaped how I view the world and how I connect with those around me. I’ve learned to meet others with empathy, to listen without judgment, and to remember that everyone is carrying battles we cannot see. My own journey has taught me that healing is not linear, and setbacks are part of the process. This understanding has allowed me to form meaningful connections with others, built on patience and compassion. My goal of becoming a clinical therapist is rooted in turning my pain into a purpose. I want to work with teenagers and young adults, helping them navigate the tumultuous challenges of growing up. I understand how vulnerable these stages of life can be and how critical it is to feel seen and supported. Through evidence-based practices and compassionate care, I hope to provide a light in the darkness for others, just as I once desperately needed. My experiences have shown me the power of resilience, the importance of community, and the incredible strength found in healing. I am committed to dedicating my life to creating a world where no one feels they have to face their battles alone.
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