Softball is a "game of failure". How can that be? Sure, on the field, you'll strike out a few times or drop a fly ball here and there. We've all done it, but softball is so much more than that. For me, softball has been my social life, my job, and my heart for years. There are many words I'd use to describe the sport, but "failure" is not one.
Between watching my brother on the baseball field, cheering on my sister on the softball field, and finally playing games of my own, the ballpark was practically my second home. My twin sister and I had to have set some record with the amount of slushies we consumed at five years old. We made friends with strangers on the playground, played with the dirt on the field, and chased foul balls around the entire park. It was always more than just a sport; it was a family that continued to grow as we did.
Fourteen years later, and I will never forget how much that ballpark taught me. I learned the ins and outs of softball, but—more importantly—I learned how to communicate, persevere, and love. Love the game. Love the hard work. Love my teammates. And love the person that this sport shaped me into.
The people I met through softball are a big part of why I am who I am today. My coaches taught me that success is earned through discipline and accountability. My teammates taught me how to put my trust in others, be a support system through tough times, and never stop being myself. My closest friendships started on the softball field, so it's always been more than just a game to me.
My best friend, my biggest supporter, and my most prominent critic: all synonyms for the man who raised me. My dad taught me that failure doesn't have to be the opposite of success—it's just one of the stops along the journey. Between the late nights of front toss, long drives to tournaments, and constant support through the good and the bad, my dad has given me the confidence to be the player that I am today. He's my inspiration.
When I started coaching in 2023, I learned the value of being a good role model. Now, I give pitching, hitting, and fielding lessons to a variety of youth athletes. I get to see them grow first-hand, and I keep learning right alongside them. It is the greatest blessing to give back to the community that raised me, and it is so important to ensure that these young girls understand the physical, mental, and emotional aspects of the sport.
As I look towards the future, I plan to continue giving lessons and getting involved in the community. I will be attending Maryville University - St. Louis to play softball, a position that will allow me to be an even better role model to the younger generation of athletes. Softball has given me more than just a batting average. It has shaped my character, strengthened my sense of community, and taught me how to be a leader. As I continue my journey, I will carry those lessons with me—proving that softball was never a game of failure, but a game of growth.