The father figure who has had the greatest impact on my life is my dad, Matthew Ritter. Throughout my life, he has been my role model, mentor, and the person I look to for guidance. When I think about the values that have shaped who I am today, almost all of them come from the lessons he taught me growing up. In many ways, he taught me everything I know about discipline, responsibility, and how to approach life with purpose.
My dad always led by example. Rather than simply telling me what was important, he showed me through his actions. From a young age, I watched the way he approached his work and his responsibilities. He believed in doing things the right way and taking pride in the effort you put into something. Whether it was his career, supporting our family, or helping others when they needed it, he consistently demonstrated that hard work and integrity matter. Watching that shaped how I think about success. It taught me that success is not just about achievement, but about the character you build along the way.
One of the most important lessons my father taught me was discipline. He made it clear that goals are rarely achieved through talent alone. They require consistency and a willingness to keep working even when progress feels slow. There were many times growing up when I faced challenges in school or other parts of life, and he always reminded me that setbacks are normal. What matters most is how you respond to them. That mindset helped me learn to stay focused, keep improving, and trust that effort over time leads to results.
He also encouraged me to think independently. Instead of giving me all the answers, he often pushed me to figure things out on my own. At the time it sometimes felt frustrating, but looking back I realize how valuable that approach was. It taught me how to problem solve, how to think critically, and how to take ownership of my decisions. Those skills have become incredibly important as I pursue my education and start preparing for my future career.
What makes my father especially meaningful as a father figure is the constant support he has given me. No matter the situation, he has always been someone I can rely on for honest advice and encouragement. Knowing that he believes in me has given me the confidence to pursue challenging opportunities and push myself outside of my comfort zone. Whenever I face a difficult decision or obstacle, I often think about the lessons he taught me and how he would approach the situation.
The influence my dad has had on my life continues to shape the person I am becoming. His emphasis on hard work, integrity, and perseverance guides how I approach my education and my goals for the future. As I pursue a career in business, I hope to carry those same values into everything I do.
Matthew Ritter is special to me not just because he is my father, but because of the example he set every day. Through his actions, he showed me what it means to live with purpose, treat others with respect, and always strive to do your best. The lessons he passed down to me will stay with me for the rest of my life.