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Nicole Mancuso
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Nicole Mancuso
1x
FinalistBio
My names Nicole im a 32 year old special education paraprofessional, entering my masters program to become a school guidance counselor.
Education
Touro College School of Health Science
Master's degree programMajors:
- Clinical, Counseling and Applied Psychology
SUNY Empire State College
Associate's degree programMajors:
- Liberal Arts and Sciences, General Studies and Humanities
SUNY Empire State College
Bachelor's degree programMajors:
- Psychology, General
Miscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Master's degree program
Graduate schools of interest:
- Touro College
Transfer schools of interest:
Majors of interest:
Career
Dream career field:
- Counseling
Dream career goals:
Paraprofessional
Department of education2018 – Present8 years
Sports
Softball
Varsity2004 – 202016 years
Awards
- mvp
Public services
Volunteering
Grace foundation — Helper2022 – 2024
Joshua’s Light: Suicide Awareness & Resilience Scholarship by Solace Mind®
My decision to pursue a master’s degree in mental health is not just academic; it is personal. I grew up in an environment shaped by mental health challenges, particularly my mother’s bipolar disorder and manic episodes. As a child, I did not have the language to understand what I was experiencing, but I felt the instability, the emotional intensity, and the unpredictability. Those experiences forced me to become aware at a young age, to read situations, and to navigate overwhelming emotions. While it was not easy, it shaped how I see people and respond to struggle.
As I got older, my perspective shifted from confusion to understanding. I began to recognize how often mental health is misunderstood, minimized, or ignored, and how that lack of awareness can impact not just individuals, but entire families. That realization is what led me to pursue psychology and ultimately a master’s degree in mental health. I want to be someone who can recognize the signs early, provide support, and create a sense of stability for those who may not have it elsewhere, especially children.
In my everyday work as a paraprofessional, I see the effects of mental health challenges in real time. Students come into the classroom carrying anxiety, trauma, and emotional stress that often goes unspoken. Some shut down, others act out, and many struggle to express what they are feeling. I approach these moments with patience and awareness, understanding that behavior is often a form of communication. This perspective is also how I approach suicide awareness and prevention. It is not always about dramatic warning signs. It is about noticing subtle changes, creating safe spaces, and making sure people feel seen before they reach a crisis point.
Self-advocacy has been an important part of my journey. Growing up, I learned the importance of boundaries, emotional awareness, and seeking support when needed. I prioritize my mental health so that I can show up for others in a grounded and stable way. I have learned that you cannot effectively support others without also taking care of yourself.
Looking ahead, I plan to serve underrepresented communities by working as a school counselor and focusing on early intervention and accessibility. Many students, especially those from underserved backgrounds, do not have consistent access to mental health support. I want to help change that by creating environments where mental health is prioritized, resources are available, and students feel safe asking for help.
My lived experience did not push me away from this field; it pulled me toward it. It gave me purpose. I am not just pursuing a degree; I am building a career rooted in understanding, advocacy, and the commitment to support those who need it most.
Ethel Hayes Destigmatization of Mental Health Scholarship
My experience with mental health has shaped nearly every part of who I am, from the way I see the world to the path I have chosen for my future.
Growing up, I was deeply impacted by my mother’s mental health, particularly her manic episodes and bipolar disorder. As a child, I did not always have the words to understand what was happening, but I felt it. There were moments of unpredictability, emotional intensity, and confusion that shaped how I learned to navigate my environment. I became very aware of mood shifts, energy changes, and the emotional atmosphere around me at a young age. While those experiences were difficult, they also taught me something important. They taught me to pay attention, to be patient, and to try to understand rather than judge.
As I got older, my understanding deepened. I began to see mental health not as something to fear or avoid, but as something complex that deserves compassion, education, and support. I realized how often people struggle silently, and how easily behaviors can be misunderstood without context. That realization changed the way I approach relationships. I value communication, emotional awareness, and boundaries much more deeply. I have learned how to be supportive without losing myself, and how to approach others with empathy while still maintaining a sense of stability.
These experiences have also directly influenced my career path. Choosing to pursue a psychology degree and then enter the mental health field is not accidental. It comes from lived experience. I know what it feels like to grow up around mental health challenges, and I understand how much of an impact it can have, especially on children. That is why I am committed to becoming a school counselor. I want to be someone who recognizes the signs early, who creates a safe and stable environment, and who supports children who may be navigating similar experiences.
Working as a paraprofessional has only reinforced this goal. I see students every day who are dealing with emotional and behavioral challenges, and I often recognize pieces of my own experiences in them. It allows me to connect with them in a genuine, understanding way. I know how important it is for a child to feel seen, especially when things at home or internally feel overwhelming.
My experience has shaped my understanding of the world by showing me that people are not always what they appear to be on the surface. There is often a deeper story behind behavior, and that perspective has made me more compassionate, more patient, and more intentional in how I interact with others.
While my experiences with mental health were not always easy, they have given me purpose. They have shaped my goals, strengthened my relationships, and guided me toward a career where I can make a meaningful difference. I do not see my past as something that held me back. I see it as something that prepared me to help others move forward.
Tawkify Meaningful Connections Scholarship
One of the most meaningful relationships in my life is the one I have with my niece, Gia, who is diagnosed with autism. That relationship has shaped not only who I am as a person, but also how I connect with others, both personally and professionally.
Being part of Gia’s life has taught me that connection does not always look the way people expect it to. Communication is not always verbal, emotions are not always expressed in typical ways, and progress does not always follow a straight path. I have learned to slow down, to be patient, and to truly pay attention. Sometimes, a connection is built through small moments, sitting beside her, understanding her cues, or simply being a consistent presence. Those moments have shown me that relationships are not about forcing interaction, but about meeting someone where they are.
This relationship has also taught me how to listen differently. Not just to words, but to behavior, tone, and patterns. I have learned that what may look like frustration or withdrawal is often a form of communication. That understanding has completely changed the way I approach people. I am more aware, more patient, and more intentional in how I respond to others, especially when they are struggling to express themselves.
Gia has also shaped how I build connections in my work. As a paraprofessional, I work with students who have a range of emotional and behavioral needs, many of whom face similar challenges with communication and regulation. Because of my relationship with her, I approach these students with empathy rather than assumptions. I take the time to understand what might be underneath their behavior instead of reacting to what is on the surface. I focus on building trust first, knowing that without it, nothing else will be effective.
Another way this relationship has influenced me is in my value of consistency. Gia thrives on routine and predictability, and I have seen how important it is for her to know that someone will show up for her in the same way every day. That has carried over into how I build relationships with others. I try to be someone people can rely on, someone who is steady, supportive, and present. I have learned that trust is not built through big gestures, but through small, consistent actions over time.
Most importantly, this relationship has taught me that connection is not about perfection. It is about effort, understanding, and showing up even when it is not easy. It has made me more compassionate, more patient, and more grounded in my interactions with others.
Gia has shaped the way I see relationships at their core. Because of her, I do not take connection for granted. I build it with intention, and I carry that approach into every relationship in my life, both personally and professionally. It has influenced the way I show up, communicate, and support others in meaningful, lasting ways.
Thank you for taking the time to read my response and for the opportunity to share something so meaningful to me. I truly appreciate your consideration.
Christian Fitness Association General Scholarship
I believe I should be considered for this scholarship not just because of what I have accomplished, but because of what I am actively working toward and the purpose behind it.
I am currently a full-time psychology student and work as a special education paraprofessional in a school setting. Balancing both roles has not been easy, but it has made me more disciplined, organized, and resilient. My academic work reflects that commitment. I take my education seriously because I know it is directly connected to the impact I want to make in my career. I am not just learning material for exams. I am building the foundation for the work I plan to do with children who need the most support.
My role as a paraprofessional is one of the most meaningful parts of my experience. Every day, I work with students who have special needs, behavioral challenges, and emotional struggles. This is not just a job to me. It is hands-on experience that has shaped my understanding of mental health in real time. I have learned how to support students through difficult moments, communicate effectively, and remain patient and consistent even in challenging situations. I have seen what happens when a child feels misunderstood, and I have also seen how powerful it is when they feel supported. Even small moments, like helping a student regulate their emotions or encouraging them to participate, can create meaningful change. These experiences have strengthened my decision to pursue a graduate degree in mental health and become a school counselor.
Outside of school and work, I also take on significant responsibilities within my family. I help care for my 11-year-old niece, Gia, who is diagnosed with autism, and support her through her daily challenges. Being part of her life has given me a deeper understanding of the intellectual and developmental disability community on a personal level. I have seen her strengths, her growth, and the moments that others might overlook but mean everything. At the same time, I balance multiple jobs, including bartending on weekends, to make ends meet while continuing my education. Managing these responsibilities has not been easy, but it has taught me time management, responsibility, and perseverance. It has also reinforced my motivation to keep pushing forward, even when things feel overwhelming.
Through all of this, I have developed a strong sense of purpose. I am not just working toward a degree. I am working toward becoming someone who can make a real difference in the lives of children, especially those who may not have the support they need. I want to be a school counselor who creates a safe, consistent, and supportive environment for students, particularly those with special needs or those facing emotional challenges. I want to advocate for early intervention, collaborate with families and educators, and ensure that students are not just accommodated, but truly understood.
One of the biggest challenges I face is balancing financial responsibilities while continuing my education. As a working student, I am responsible for covering my own expenses while advancing academically. There are times when the pressure of managing school, work, and personal responsibilities feels overwhelming, but I continue to push through because I know what I am working toward. This scholarship would not only ease that burden but also allow me to focus more fully on my education and professional development without constantly worrying about financial strain.
What sets me apart is not just my experiences, but how I have used them to shape a clear and meaningful path forward. I have taken every challenge and turned it into motivation. I have drawn on every experience, both personal and professional, to guide my goals and strengthen my commitment to this field. I am not entering this profession without understanding it. I am already living it every day.
This scholarship would be an investment in someone who is not only dedicated to their own success but to making a lasting difference in the lives of others. I am committed to using my education to support children, advocate for mental health, and create environments where students feel seen, heard, and valued. That is the future I am building, and this opportunity would help me continue moving toward it.
Thank you for offering this scholarship opportunity and for taking the time to consider my application. I truly appreciate the chance to share my story and goals, and I hope you will consider me a strong candidate who is committed not only to academic success but to making a meaningful impact in the lives of others.
Learner Online Learning Innovator Scholarship for Veterans
The way I learn has changed a lot over time, especially as my coursework has become more focused on psychology and mental health. I do not rely on just one source. I use a combination of platforms and tools that help me not only understand the material, but actually apply it in real-life situations.
One of the main resources I use is academic databases like JSTOR and Google Scholar. These allow me to access peer-reviewed research that goes beyond my textbooks and gives me a deeper, more evidence-based understanding of topics like trauma, behavior, and development. Reading research articles has helped me move past memorization and actually understand how concepts are studied, tested, and applied. It has also strengthened my critical thinking and my ability to support my ideas with credible evidence in my writing.
I also use online platforms like YouTube and educational podcasts when I need concepts explained in a different way. Sometimes hearing or seeing information presented visually helps it click more clearly for me, especially with complex topics in psychology. This combination of academic and more accessible resources helps reinforce my understanding from multiple angles.
Another tool I rely on is Quizlet. Creating my own study sets and reviewing flashcards helps me actively engage with the material rather than passively read it. It is especially helpful for reinforcing key terms, theories, and concepts that I need to recall quickly. The repetition and self-testing have improved both my memory and my confidence for exams and discussions.
In addition, I use tools such as digital note-taking apps and study guides to organize information and track patterns in what I am learning. Breaking information down into my own words, creating examples, and revisiting key concepts over time have helped me retain information more effectively.
What makes these resources especially valuable is how they help me apply what I am learning in my everyday work. As a paraprofessional, I am constantly working with students who have behavioral and emotional needs. When I learn about strategies such as trauma-informed care or behavioral interventions, I can see those concepts in action and adjust how I respond to students in real time.
Overall, these tools have helped me become a more intentional and active learner. I am not just studying to pass a class. I am building knowledge that I can apply directly to support the students I work with and continue growing in the field of mental health.
Bulkthreads.com's "Let's Aim Higher" Scholarship
If I had to describe what I want to build, it would not be a product. It would be a space. A space where people, especially children, feel safe, understood, and supported in ways they may not experience anywhere else.
Right now, I see that gap every single day. I work with students who are struggling, whether it is anxiety, trauma, behavioral challenges, or special needs, and too often their emotions are misunderstood or overlooked. They are told to “focus,” “calm down,” or “try harder,” without anyone really stopping to ask what is going on underneath. That is what I want to change. I want to build a future where emotional support is not an afterthought in education, but a foundation.
The future I am building starts with becoming a school counselor, but it goes beyond just having the title. I want to create an environment where students feel comfortable enough to be honest, even when it is hard. A place where a child can walk in overwhelmed and leave feeling heard. Where coping skills are not just taught, but practiced and reinforced. Where mental health is normalized, not stigmatized. That kind of space does not happen by accident. It is built through consistency, trust, and showing up every day with intention.
This is also personal for me. Between my work and my life outside of it, I have seen how much people carry silently. I have learned how important it is to have even one person who understands you, or at least tries to. I want to be that person for others, especially for kids who may not have that support anywhere else. Building this future will positively impact me by giving purpose to everything I am working toward. Every class, every experience, every challenge will be part of something bigger than just a career. It will be part of a commitment to helping others navigate their own challenges in a healthier, more supported way.
For my community, the impact is even greater. When children feel supported, they perform better academically, build stronger relationships, and develop confidence in themselves. That ripple effect extends into families, classrooms, and beyond. Supporting one child can shift the dynamic of an entire environment. I am not just building a career. I am building a space, a presence, and a future where people feel seen. And that is something that lasts.
Champions for Intellectual Disability Scholarship
What inspired me to pursue a career supporting the intellectual disability community is not just one moment. It is the combination of my everyday work and my personal life, both of which have shown me how much support, understanding, and advocacy truly matter.
In my role as a paraprofessional, I work closely with students who have a range of intellectual and developmental disabilities. Every day, I see how capable these children are when they are given the right support. I also see how easily their needs can be misunderstood. Behaviors are often labeled without looking at the underlying cause, whether it is frustration, communication difficulties, or sensory overload. Being in that environment has made me more aware of how important it is to meet students where they are, rather than expecting them to fit into a system that does not always accommodate them. That realization led me to want to do more than just assist. I want to advocate, guide, and support these students in a more meaningful and informed way.
This path is also deeply personal for me. I help care for my 11-year-old niece, Gia, who is diagnosed with autism. My relationship with her has had a profound impact on my life. Through her, I have seen both the challenges and the beauty of neurodiversity. I have watched her struggle to communicate at times, become overwhelmed in certain environments, and work through things that other children may take for granted. At the same time, I have also seen her strengths, her personality, and the unique way she experiences the world. She has taught me patience, adaptability, and the importance of celebrating progress in all forms, no matter how small it may seem to others.
Caring for Gia has strengthened my commitment to this field. It has made my educational goals more focused and intentional. I am not just pursuing a career. I am pursuing the ability to make a real difference in the lives of individuals like her. I want to be someone who understands both the clinical and human sides of intellectual and developmental disabilities.
My goal is to become a school counselor who advocates for students with intellectual disabilities by creating inclusive environments, promoting early intervention, and supporting both the child and their family. I want to help bridge the gap between education and mental health so that these students are not only accommodated but truly understood and supported.
Both my professional experience and my relationship with Gia have shaped who I am and where I am going. They have shown me that with the right support, patience, and advocacy, individuals with intellectual disabilities can thrive. I want to dedicate my career to being part of that support system.
Learner Mental Health Empowerment for Health Students Scholarship
Mental health matters to me as a student because I have lived what it feels like to try to succeed academically while carrying emotional weight that no one else can see. Being a full-time student while also working has shown me that mental health is not separate from performance. It directly impacts focus, motivation, memory, and overall well-being. There have been moments when I realized that no amount of effort or discipline can compensate for burnout, stress, or emotional exhaustion. That understanding shifted my perspective. Mental health is not something you address after everything else is done. It is the foundation that allows everything else to function.
My role as a paraprofessional has deepened this understanding even more. Every day, I work with students who are navigating anxiety, behavioral challenges, and difficult home environments. I see how mental health shows up in the classroom, not always in obvious ways, but through frustration, withdrawal, lack of focus, or acting out. Many of my students, especially those with special needs, struggle to express what they are feeling, which makes it even more important for the adults around them to recognize the signs. These experiences have made mental health feel personal, not just academic. It is something I witness, respond to, and reflect on daily.
I advocate for mental health in my school community by showing up consistently as a safe and supportive presence. Sometimes advocacy is not loud or formal. It looks like giving a student space when they are overwhelmed, helping them put words to their emotions, or reinforcing coping strategies in real time. It also means collaborating with teachers and staff to ensure that students are not just being managed, but understood. I try to approach each student with patience and without judgment, especially when their behavior is challenging, because I know that behavior is often communication.
Outside of the classroom, I advocate for mental health by being open in my own relationships about the importance of boundaries, communication, and self-awareness. I have learned that modeling these behaviors can influence others more than simply talking about them. Whether it is encouraging someone to seek support, reminding a friend to prioritize their well-being, or having honest conversations about stress and burnout, I try to create an environment where mental health is acknowledged rather than ignored.
As a student, I carry these same values into my academic work. I am pursuing a graduate degree in mental health to translate my experiences into actionable, impactful work. I want to be trained to recognize, support, and advocate at a higher level, especially for children who may not yet have the ability or opportunity to advocate for themselves.
Mental health is important to me because I have seen what happens when it is overlooked and what can happen when it is supported. It has the power to shape not only how someone performs, but how they experience their life. That is why I choose to prioritize it, advocate for it, and build my future around it.
Deanna Ellis Memorial Scholarship
I did not learn about substance abuse from a textbook. I learned about it from the people around me and from how it quietly impacts lives, relationships, and stability.
In both my personal life and my work as a paraprofessional, I have seen how substance abuse does not just affect one individual. It affects entire families, especially children. Some of the students I work with come from environments where substance use is present, and you can see the impact in their behavior, emotional regulation, and sense of security. I have worked with students who come to school anxious, distracted, or withdrawn, often carrying responsibilities or stress that no child should have to manage. These experiences have made it clear to me that substance abuse is not just a personal issue. It is a community and developmental issue.
Personally, these experiences have shaped my beliefs in a powerful way. I do not view substance abuse through a lens of judgment. I see it as something deeply connected to mental health, trauma, and unmet needs. It has taught me the importance of compassion, boundaries, and understanding the full context of a person’s life before forming conclusions. At the same time, it has reinforced the need for accountability and support systems that actually address the root of the problem.
These experiences have also influenced my relationships. I have learned how to communicate more effectively, set firm but healthy boundaries, and recognize when someone needs support versus when they need space. It has made me more aware of how my actions and words can either contribute to stability or unintentionally add stress.
Most importantly, it has shaped my career aspirations. It has strengthened my commitment to pursuing a graduate degree in mental health and becoming a school counselor. I want to support students who are affected by substance abuse, whether directly or indirectly, and help them develop coping skills, resilience, and a sense of safety. I want to be someone who recognizes the signs early and intervenes in a supportive, not reactive, way.
I also want to be part of breaking the cycle. Many of the students I work with are at risk of repeating patterns they have been exposed to, not because they choose to, but because it is what they know. With the right guidance, education, and emotional support, that cycle can be interrupted. My goal is to be a consistent, trusted presence who helps students see that their circumstances do not define their future, and that they have the ability to choose a different path.
Special Needs Advocacy Inc. Kathleen Lehman Memorial Scholarship
The moment that continues to shape who I am happened in a classroom where nearly half of my students had identified special needs, yet many of their emotional struggles went unseen.
I am currently a paraprofessional working in a school setting, where I support students across a range of abilities, including those with learning disabilities, behavioral challenges, and developmental differences. What stands out most to me is that many of these students are not just navigating academic difficulties. They are also carrying anxiety, frustration, low self-esteem, and, in some cases, trauma. Their needs extend far beyond academics, yet mental health support is often limited or delayed.
Working so closely with this population has given me a deeper understanding of how critical counseling is for students with special needs. Many of them struggle to express their emotions in ways that are easily understood, which can lead to behaviors being misinterpreted as defiance rather than distress. I have seen students act out, shut down, or withdraw, not because they want to, but because they lack the tools to communicate what they are feeling. In those moments, I have learned that patience, consistency, and emotional support can make a meaningful difference, even in small ways.
In addition, I have seen how early support can completely shift a student’s trajectory. When a child is given the right tools, whether that is emotional regulation strategies, consistent counseling, or simply a trusted adult to talk to, their confidence begins to grow. I have watched students who once struggled daily begin to participate, build friendships, and take pride in their progress. Those changes do not happen by chance. They happen when someone takes the time to understand the whole child, not just their academic performance.
These experiences have shaped both who I am and the direction I am choosing for my career. I plan to pursue a graduate degree in mental health to become a school counselor and better serve students with special needs. My goal is to create an environment where these students feel understood, supported, and empowered. I want to advocate for early intervention, provide coping strategies, and work collaboratively with teachers and families to ensure that each child’s emotional and developmental needs are met.
The social impact I hope to make is rooted in equity. Students with special needs deserve access to the same level of mental health support as any other child, if not more. By combining my hands-on experience with advanced training, I plan to be a consistent, informed, and compassionate presence in their lives. I want to help them build confidence, develop emotional awareness, and recognize their own potential, not just as students, but as individuals.
Dr. DeNinno’s Scholarship for Mental Health Professionals
The moment I realized I wanted to pursue a graduate degree in mental health wasn’t in a classroom. It was in a school hallway, sitting beside a student who couldn’t explain why they felt overwhelmed, only that they did.
For the past seven years, I have worked closely with children in educational settings, many of whom struggle with anxiety, behavioral challenges, trauma, or difficulties at home. I have seen firsthand how much mental health impacts a child’s ability to learn, connect, and simply feel safe in their environment. There were moments where I knew I was helping, but I also felt the limits of what I could offer without deeper training. I found myself wanting to do more than just support. I wanted to understand, guide, and advocate at a higher level.
At the same time, my own life experiences have shaped this path. Navigating complex family dynamics and learning how to set boundaries taught me the importance of emotional awareness, communication, and self-respect. Those experiences were not easy, but they gave me insight into how deeply mental health affects every part of a person’s life. They also showed me how powerful the right support can be.
In my current role, I have witnessed small moments that reinforced this calling. A student calming down after being given space and validation, a child opening up after weeks of silence, or even a simple “thank you” after a difficult day. These moments may seem small, but they carry weight. They remind me that connection and understanding can change the course of a child’s day, and sometimes even their future. However, they also remind me that without formal training, I am only addressing the surface.
Pursuing a graduate degree in mental health is not just a career step for me. It is a commitment to becoming the kind of professional I wish more people had access to. I want to be someone who can recognize early signs of struggle, provide evidence-based support, and create a safe space for children to be heard and understood. My goal is to become an elementary school counselor, where I can combine my experience in education with advanced clinical knowledge to make a lasting impact.
Mental health is not a separate part of a child’s life. It is the foundation of everything else. By continuing my education, I am choosing to be part of that foundation in a meaningful, informed, and lasting way.