My best friend is Nick Shepard. We met while working on a Congressional campaign all the way back in 2006. He was the Field Director, and I served as Deputy Communications Director and bodyman to the candidate with the comical name of Charlie Brown.
Campaign life can be intense, and the long days & constant pressure tend to bring out both the best and the worst in people. But from the very beginning, Nick and I clicked. We had the same work ethic, the same weird (and sometimes dark) sense of humor, and the same belief in responsibility to the mission at hand. We were often the first people to open the office in the morning and the last ones to lock up at night. In that kind of environment, bonds are formed quickly, and ours only grew stronger as the campaign went on.
After the race ended, we both got hired on to the same presidential campaign in New Hampshire. Even though we were assigned to opposite ends of the state, we stayed in constant contact. We talked through staffing issues, joked about the chaos of field life, and kept each other sane during one of the wildest campaign seasons of our lives. When our candidate won the New Hampshire primary, Nick and I drove cross-country together from Manchester, NH back to Sacramento, CA. That road trip was filled with bad food, great music, hours of conversation, and the kind of unfiltered honesty that only happens between best friends. It solidified everything I already knew about our friendship.
Since that time, our lives have taken very different paths. Nick stepped away from political life and went to law school. I stayed in the world of public affairs and continued working in advocacy and legislative operations. But through every chapter, we’ve stayed close. I encouraged him to go on his first date with the woman who would later become his wife. I was honored to stand beside him as his best man. He returned the favor by helping me through one of the lowest points in my life when I was struggling with doubt, fear, and uncertainty about my future. We have seen each other at our best and at our worst, and that has only made our friendship stronger.
Nick is the kind of friend who never forgets to show up. He listens without judgment, tells the truth even when it is hard to hear, and has always believed in me even when I did not believe in myself. We still talk nearly every day. Whether it is a quick check-in or a long conversation about life, politics, or the absurdity of the world, we always find time for each other.
What makes Nick special is not just that he's a good friend. He's a good person in the way that matters most. He is thoughtful, loyal, and deeply committed to doing the right thing. He's the friend who will stand by you when things fall apart and celebrate you when things go right. He has been one of the most constant and supportive people in my life, and I know I would not be the person I am today without him.
Everyone deserves a friend like Nick, and I am lucky to have him in my life. This friendship has given me a sense of stability, confidence, and belonging that has carried me through more than one rough season. He is not just my best friend. He is my chosen family, and I am proud to call him my brother.