When my mother passed away from a stroke, my entire world changed. I was just a teenager living in Mexico, and suddenly I had to face life without the person who had always been my guide and support. One of her dreams was for me to study in the United States, knowing it would offer me more opportunities than she ever had. Even though it was painful and overwhelming, I honored that dream. I moved to the U.S. at fourteen years old with my family, determined to pursue the future she believed I could have.
Adapting to life in a new country was not easy. I had to learn a new language, understand a different culture, and adjust to a completely new education system. At times, I felt like giving up. The grief of losing my mother, combined with the pressure of starting over, made everything feel heavier. I wasn’t just dealing with homework or learning English—I was also dealing with loneliness, financial stress, and the feeling of being out of place. But I kept reminding myself that my mother believed in me, and I wanted to prove that her sacrifices meant something. So, I pushed through.
I spent extra time studying, using online tools and watching videos to understand my classes better. I asked teachers for help, practiced English constantly, and stayed after school to make sure I didn’t fall behind. I also started working while in college to help support my family and cover educational expenses. I learned how to manage my time, prioritize my goals, and advocate for myself. The more challenges I faced, the more confident and resilient I became.
In college, I found purpose in giving back. I joined several student-led volunteer organizations through UTSA and became actively involved in community service. I helped organize donation drives, participated in city-wide cleanups, packed supplies for low-income families, and gave presentations at elementary schools on dental hygiene—sharing knowledge in ways that were fun and educational for kids. As I gained experience, I took on leadership roles. I wasn’t just attending events; I was helping plan them, coordinating with other students, and inviting people to join us.
One of my proudest leadership moments came when we worked on a community project to restore a local garden used by Child Safe, a nonprofit supporting children recovering from abuse. The space was neglected, overgrown, and unsafe for the children. I helped lead a team of volunteers to clean, organize, and replant the space. It wasn’t glamorous work—we were pulling weeds in the heat, sweeping debris, and fixing old equipment—but I saw how powerful it was to take initiative and inspire others to make a difference. That project taught me that leadership doesn’t require a title—it requires action, empathy, and the willingness to do the work no one else wants to do.
Overcoming the loss of my mom and the many transitions that followed taught me how to stay strong in the face of adversity. My journey has made me more compassionate and determined to serve others, especially those who face the kinds of obstacles I once did. Whether it’s through tutoring a peer, organizing a volunteer event, or simply being someone others can rely on, I’ve learned that leadership is about lifting others up while staying grounded in your values.
I carry my experiences with me every day—not as burdens, but as reminders of how far I’ve come and how much I’m capable of. I don’t give up easily. I lead by showing up, giving back, and encouraging others to do the same.