Life has taught me that it is not only my happiness that is important, but so is the happiness of those around me. My greatest desire is to become a neonatal nurse post-college. I know that this field of nursing requires a lot of compassion, empathy, and selflessness. Although I would love to believe that I naturally have these traits and I’m a perfect fit for the role, I know that these traits take practice.
I began to develop skills of selflessness in high school when I began to join teams and gained my very first volunteer experiences. I volunteered at a medical office, where I learned organization and confidentiality skills and I became an executive board member of the Paper Bridges Chapter at my school, which revolved around empowering foster children. Together we organized book drives, a pen pal letter exchange, and many other events.
However, I gained the greatest passion for helping others be their best at 16. My mom became pregnant in 2020. I learned the most during this 9-month period which was filled with constant hospital appointments and a premature delivery scare. At 25-weeks gestational age, my mom began to feel contractions. We went to the hospital where she was hooked up to various machines so the nurses could monitor her contractions and the baby. I was in the room when her OBGYN came in and told us that she would inject my mom with corticosteroids to develop the baby’s lungs in preparation for a premature birth. She asked my mom to stay overnight and reassured us that if the contractions continued through the night, the labor and delivery team was ready and the NICU nurses were prepared to bring my sister to utmost health. I was impacted by the sense of reassurance, empathy, and gentleness that the nurses brought into the room. But I realized, this was just the beginning of a very difficult process for my mom and my family, and I had to play a role in being there for her and my future sister.
My sister ended up waiting a few more weeks to be born. After the scare, I went to my mom’s frequent appointments with her OBGYN, weekly iron infusions, and weekly ultrasounds at our local hospital. I didn’t want her experiencing these taxing appointments by herself and I also wanted to be there for her in case of any unexpected news. I was her translator when the doctors talked too fast, and I was her comfort. After my sister was born, I tried being there for her everyday and night, even if it was 4 am and she was refusing to sleep. The years of my junior and senior year were almost fully dedicated to my family and my studies, and even though it was as though I had no time for myself, I was fulfilled and satisfied with the help I was providing.
For almost 8 months I’ve been working at Everbrook Academy, providing care to young children and their families. I have learned so much from the innocence of the children I care for and the pure love, care, and concern I notice between them and their caregivers. I know that when I become a neonatal nurse I will witness the same types of relationships, in even more profound ways. I hope that my experiences will help me provide the best care to vulnerable babies and their families and I hope to exhibit the empathy and compassion that I’ve been striving to obtain to strengthen my relationships with the people around me.