I have always had an appreciation for the movies Will Smith acts in, whether that be a romcom such as Hitch or a tear-jerker like The Pursuit of Happiness. When I watched his films, a cord was struck as I truly empathized with the characters. The Pursuit of Happiness taught me to keep pushing forward and fighting to pursue my dreams with the intensity of a father caring for his child. In the film, Will Smith tirelessly works against the odds to get through each day to provide for his son. This beautiful film and the lessons of resiliency, stuck with me as the determination of Will Smith and the obstacles he faced held a sense of familiarity.
As the oldest of four children, I lived through my parents' struggles as my dad was deployed to South Korea while my mother remained in the States. We didn’t have much and my mom would volunteer at the local elementary school as a cafeteria worker to make extra funds. She would sneak home milk cartons and stale hamburger patties to help us get through the week. I hated seeing her struggle and as a 10-year-old girl, I would help around the home. Whether this meant making instant macaroni or mashed potatoes, the two dishes I knew how to make, or attempting to mow the lawn outside.
Even after the twenty years my father served in the military, our nomadic lifestyle did not come to a stop. With his retirement in South Carolina, I was ecstatic to think that we were finally settling down and I had the chance to pursue a nursing school free of charge for in-state students. Weeks following his retirement, my father had been working as an Uber driver as we were still struggling with funds and soon it was time to pack our bags once again.
My father brought us to Connecticut for his new job and I spent two months living in a hotel while wrapping up my senior year. With college underway, my parents insisted that I follow a different passion as we didn’t have enough money to pursue a healthcare route. Thus, I earned a degree in Early Childhood Education at my local community college. Yet, I still had a strong passion for healthcare and I worked up the courage to pursue Molecular Cell Biology at the University of Connecticut.
As I push forward with my academic endeavors, I use each opportunity presented to me to assist my peers and others like myself. Thus, I became a First Year Mentor, a Residential Assistant, the Director of our Biology Tutoring Program, and am planning to become a Research Ambassador, all in hopes that I can inspire and support the students around me. During my time volunteering at the Hospital of Central Connecticut, I have worked to create an advisory board of volunteers to act as mentors for incoming high school students.
Anytime I sit back and reflect on my past to where I stand today in my pre-medical journey, I am left with a strong sense of pride, thankfulness, and determination. These experiences are what have shaped me into who I am today and without them, I can’t picture where I would be. With my degree in higher education, I hope to advocate for low-income families with their healthcare needs and inspire the individuals I meet to pursue their happiness. I will continue to carry these lessons with me and take each opportunity to gain new perspectives and walk in another’s shoes.