I want to see the world become kinder. It seems that kindness and empathy, especially in competitive spaces like education and social media, have been sorely neglected. I'm tired of hearing the f-slur in the hallways, "gay" being used as an insult, of having my identity questioned simply because I exist. I'm tired of being misgendered, of having to explain my pronouns, of correcting people ad nauseam, and ultimately having to accept that there will always be someone who does not accept me for who I am. The onslaught of negativity from the world can be very overwhelming, and ultimately, does not help anyone.
I know that it is possible to not act this way, and that people can be good. Most people have kindness within them. That's why I think it's necessary to acknowledge the harm that a small group is able to do. Hate groups are becoming more and more common, and it's not a coincidence that the internet, media, and general attitudes are more negative too. I don't think that people quite realize how damaging this negativity can be. Apathy is the most common reaction to bad news nowadays, and the more that people respond with apathy, the more serious issues are normalized. Tipping the world towards kindness ensures that people have empathy for others, that people's pain is properly acknowledged, and that the global healing process of healing can begin.
Allowing people to exist how they want, in the spaces they want, is deeply important. Everyone is different, and we should embrace that. People are always evolving, constantly changing forms to be the best version of themselves they can be in that moment. I've had some experience with these types of spaces, made available to me when I was doing online school in 2021. A local arts organization started a space for queer kids in the community to express themselves, making art and having discussions that would ultimately culminate in the form of a zine. The process of discovering myself without judgement, in a space where people understood me, was largely what kept my faith in humanity at a time when the world was in turmoil. Speaking to queer elders, hearing stories from people that were near me but I had never met, and having complete creative control over our project was a very freeing experience. I want everyone to feel as loved and appreciated as I did in that space. My experiences there, the emotions I went through, and the art that I made are deeply personal and led to a significant amount of self growth.
The world would be a lot more productive if people were simply accepting and focused on bettering themselves instead of negativity. Everyone works better in an environment where they feel safe, seen, and valued. Those traits are always used when people describe a utopia, and while it may not be realistic to aspire to create a utopia, it is possible to take some aspects of one and implement them in a measurable way. When people choose kindness, everyone benefits.