
Molly Stark
575
Bold Points2x
Finalist
Molly Stark
575
Bold Points2x
FinalistBio
I am a dedicated single mother of three wonderful girls. Throughout my adult life, I have devoted myself to supporting the dreams and aspirations of others, often at the expense of my own. Now, I find myself going through a difficult divorce with no education, no work history, and no support. I am in a difficult position, struggling to provide for my family while also striving for a better future, with the added pressure to show my girls that they, like me, can do hard things, accomplish goals in difficult times, and persevere.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police of a school-based police department, a role that I love deeply. My job allows me to serve my community, offering support and comfort to those in need. However, despite my passion for the work, my salary is not enough to sustain my children and provide them with the life they deserve.
Furthering my education is the key to improving my financial situation and securing a stable future for my family. Unfortunately, I do not have any support, financially or otherwise, which makes this journey even more challenging.
Any scholarship would be life-changing, allowing me to gain the education and skills necessary to advance in my career, earn a better income, and continue making a difference in my community.
Thank you for your consideration and for giving people like me a chance to build a brighter future.
Education
Bluegrass Community and Technical College
Associate's degree programMajors:
- Liberal Arts and Sciences, General Studies and Humanities
Miscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Bachelor's degree program
Graduate schools of interest:
Transfer schools of interest:
Majors of interest:
Career
Dream career field:
Legal Services
Dream career goals:
Administrative Assistant to the Chief of Police
Fayette County Public Schools Police Department2022 – Present3 years
Elizabeth Schalk Memorial Scholarship
Growing up, I did not know what stability felt like. My mother, though loving in her own way, was undiagnosed bipolar for the entirety of my childhood. One day, she was full of energy and grand plans, the next she was withdrawn and unreachable. Her erratic choices and unpredictable behavior shaped my world in ways I didn't understand at the time. As a child, I became hyper aware of slight changes in voices, posture, and movements, always scanning for signs of what mood she was in and bracing myself for what might come next. School was never a priority in our home, and neither was consistency. I was left to figure out life on my own, without guidance, support, or even a clear picture of what a healthy family should look like. Now, as a mother myself, I am determined to break that cycle and create a stable, loving home I never had. But the weight of my past, combined with my own struggles with mental health, had made that an uphill battle, one that I refuse to lose.
The impact of my childhood followed me into adulthood. Without the foundation of a solid education or a model of how to navigate life's challenges, I found myself in a marriage that slowly drained me of my identity. For fifteen years, I was in a relationship where I was belittled, controlled, and emotionally beaten down. Every day, I shrank a little more, becoming a version of myself I barely recognized. I was a shell of the person I was meant to be. The echoes of my past made me believe I deserved this, that I wasn't enough, that this was just the way life worked. My depression and anxiety became constant companions, reinforcing those thoughts and making it harder to see a way out.
But deep down, something in me refused to accept that this was all life has to offer. I knew I had to stand up and fight, not just for myself, but for my children. They deserve to see that no matter how deep the hole, it is possible to climb out. And so, I started to climb. I left my marriage, I sought help for my mental health, and I made the decision to go back to school, despite the fear, doubts, and overwhelming weight of everything I have been through.
Education is my key to breaking free from the chains of my past. It is my chance to build a future where I am not just surviving but thriving. However, the financial burden of pursuing my dream is immense. As a single mother with limited support, every dollar is accounted for, and the thought of adding student loans to my already overwhelming and barely manageable responsibilities is terrifying. A scholarship would not only relieve some of that financial pressure, but it would give me the peace of mind to focus on what truly matters: learning, growing, and setting a positive example for my girls.
I am not the person my past tried to shape me into. I am stronger than the voices that told me I wasn't enough. I am proving, every single day, that I can rise above my circumstances and create a different story for myself and my children. With this scholarship, I can continue that journey, and this opportunity would be a powerful step in making that future a reality.
Poynter Scholarship
Life as a single mother is a constant balancing act, a juggling of responsibilities that never seems to slow down. Between raising my three daughters, working to provide for their needs, and pursuing my education, every day is a challenge, but it is also an opportunity to build a better future for my family. My journey is not easy, but it is driven by determination, resilience, and the unwavering belief that I can create a stable and successful life for myself and my children. A scholarship would be an essential stepping stone, providing financial relief and peace of mind, allowing me to focus on my education without the added burden of student loan debt.
As a mother to three wonderful daughters, my days begin early and end late. Mornings are filled with preparing breakfasts, packing lunches, and ensuring my girls are ready for school. Once they are off, I shift my focus to work, where I put in long hours to cover our household expenses. After work, my evenings revolve around helping with homework, cooking dinner, and creating a nurturing environment for my children. Amidst this packed schedule, I manage to carve out time for my own education, often staying up late into the night to complete assignments or prepare for exams. The dedication I pour into my education is not for myself, but for the future I envision for my daughters, a future where financial struggles do not define our lives.
The pursuit of higher education is a crucial step toward securing a stable career, one that will provide better opportunities for my family. However, the financial strain of tuition, books, and other school-related expenses, on top of everyday bills, creates an overwhelming burden. As a single parent, I bear the full weight of our financial responsibilities, and taking out student loans would only add to an already heavy load. A scholarship would alleviate this pressure, allowing me to continue my education without worrying about accumulating debt that would hinder our progress in the future.
With financial assistance, I would have the peace of mind needed to fully commit to my studies, ensuring that I excel academically and complete my degree. This scholarship would allow me to focus on learning, rather than on how to make ends meet each month. The relief from financial stress would translate into better performance in school, a steadier home life, and a greater ability to support my daughters emotionally and academically. I want to set an example for them, showing them that perseverance and hard work lead to success, no matter the obstacles faced.
Ultimately, my goal is to graduate, secure a fulfilling and stable career, and provide a brighter future for my family. I refuse to let financial hardship deter me from achieving this dream. A scholarship would not only be an investment in my education, but also in the lives of my daughters, who are watching and learning from my journey. By receiving this support, I can focus on achieving my academic goals, knowing that I am paving the way for a better life for all of us. my determination is strong, my resolve unwavering, and with the help of this scholarship, I will succeed.
The F.O.O. Scholarship
The cold would seep through my car windows , wrapping around me as I huddled beneath my blankets. I remember my breath being visible in the dim light. That winter in Nashville, I was not just a vocational student balancing full time classes and a part time job, I was homeless. Living out of my car while chasing a dream. I never imagined I would be in that position, but life has a way of unraveling plans.
Similarly, my recent and sudden divorce has left me reeling, not just emotionally but financially. The fear of not being able to pay my bills has clung to me ever since. It is a shadow that lingers over every decision I make. I know what it feels like to be on the edge of financial ruin, to wonder how I will keep the lights on or put for on the table. But more than anything, I know I must push forward for my children.
My three girls, Gianna, Evelyn, and Lynnea deserve more than instability and uncertainty. They deserve a home that is not just a temporary refuge, but a place of comfort and consistency. This scholarship is more than financial assistance, it is a bridge to a better future. With it, I can complete my degree and secure a better-paying position that provides not just for today but for years to come.
I have fought through sleepless nights nd endless worries, but I refuse to let my past define my future. I am determined to turn struggle into strength, hardship into hope. With this opportunity, I can breathe cycle of instability and work towards creating the life my children deserve, one where security replaces fear, and dreams on not just chased but realized.
WCEJ Thornton Foundation Low-Income Scholarship
There was a time in my life when I truly believed I had nothing left to give. I had spent years moving from place to place, never knowing the meaning of stability, never having a support system to lean on. But despite all the uncertainty and hardship, one thing, however, became my greatest achievement and strength: becoming a mother.
Raising my three daughters has been he most rewarding yet challenging experience of my life. Motherhood gave me a purpose far beyond myself. It was through them that I found my strength, even when I felt I had none left to give. That strength was tested in ways I never imagined when I endured abuse, and a difficult divorce that nearly broke me.
The end of my marriage was more than just a separation, it was the unraveling of the life I had worked so hard to build. The weight of single motherhood, financial peril, and emotional exhaustion made me feel like giving up. There were moments I didn't know how I would make it to the next day, moments when I questioned if I had the strength to keep going. But I looked at my daughters and knew that surrender was not an option. They need me, and I needed to show them what resilience looks like.
Without a strong educational background to fall back on and with no support system to guide me, I had to create my own opportunities. I worked tirelessly, refusing to let my past dictate my future. Through determination and perseverance, I quickly rose through the ranks in my career, eventually earning my current position as the administrative assistant to the chief of police. This achievement was not handed to me, I fought for it. I proved my worth through dedication, eddiciency, and unwavering work ethic.
My journey has been far from easy. Balancing a demanding career with the responsibilities of motherhood, all while carrying the weird of my struggles alone, has been a battle I still fight every day. But each day that I show up for my daughters, each day that I push forward despite the odds, is a victory. My success is not defined by a degree or a title but by my refusal to give up, by my ability to rise above every hardship thrown my way.
I am applying for this scholarship not just for myself but for my daughters. I want to continue proving to them that no matter where you come from, no matter how many times life knocks you down, you can rise again. This scholarship represents a step toward a future where I can provide an even better life for my family, a future where I continue breaking the cycle of instability that once defined my life.
I hope that I become living proof that perseverance can rewrite a person's story. My journey is still unfolding, and I know that greater challenges lie ahead. but if there is one thing I have learned, it is that I am capable of overcoming anything. My greatest achievement is not just surviving, it is thriving despite everything that has meant to break me.
A Man Helping Women Helping Women Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children who will become women. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
Organic Formula Shop Single Parent Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
Law Family Single Parent Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
Redefining Victory Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
To me, success means creating a stable, secure, and loving home for my children. A home where they feel safe, supported, and never have to question their needs will be met. Success is more than just financial stability; it is emotional stability, the ability to provide not only food and shelter but also reassurance, guidance, and unconditional love. It means my children will never have to experience the instability I once knew, never have to worry about where we will live next, or if I can afford their basic needs.
Success is being present for them, not just physically but emotionally, being their safe space, their source of comfort, and their biggest advocate. It is earning enough to provide for them without constantly feeling the weight of financial stress, ensuring that their childhood is filled with security and joy rather than struggle. Success is breaking the cycle of instability and showing my children that resiliency and hard work can build a better future. More than anything, success means knowing that I have done everything in my power to give my children the life they deserve, one filled with love, consistency, and opportunity.
Jill S. Tolley Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
My "why" for pursuing higher education is that it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my children without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
HeySunday Scholarship for Moms in College
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.
Jennifer Gephart Memorial Working Mothers Scholarship
I have moved somewhere around sixty times. Since I was twelve years old, I have been constantly uprooted, never having a secure, safe, or stable home. I went to seven high schools. That instability followed me into adulthood, shaping my resistance but also making it difficult to build a strong, solid foundation for myself and my children. When my marriage ended abruptly, I was left with a financial mess and to navigate the overwhelming reality of single motherhood. All of this without any support, financial, emotional, or otherwise. Despite these challenges, I have fought to create a better life for my children, balancing work, motherhood, and the struggles that come along with doing it all on my own.
Divorce is one of the hardest things I have ever faced. It isn't just the loss of a relationship, it is the loss of a sense of stability that I had desperately hoped to create for my children. Suddenly, I am the sole provider, responsible for every decision, every bill, every late night worry. I have had to be both the mother and the father, shielding my children from my own fears while ensuring they felt safe and loved. I have no family to lean on, no one to help with childcare, and no safety net to catch us if we fall. The financial strain has been immediate and overwhelming.
I currently work as the assistant to the chief of police for a school-based police department, a job that I am keeping passionate about and am blessed to be a part of. However, while my job is fulfilling, it does not provide the income I need to support my family. I have had to make countless sacrifices, stretching every dollar, selling furniture, skipping things for myself to ensure my children have what they need, and constantly worrying how to make ends meet.
Balancing work and single parenthood has been an exhausting challenge. There are days when I feel completely drained, running on little sleep and endless responsibility. My mornings start early, making sure my children are ready for their day, and my nights end late, helping with homework, listening to their worries, and providing reassurance that everything will be ok, even when I am not sure myself. There is no backup plan, no extra set of hands to help, no one to turn to when I feel like I can't do it anymore.
Through all of this, I have learned resilience. I have learned how to manage my time, how to survive on a very limited budget, how to push through exhaustion, anxiety, and depression, and keep moving forward. But more than anything, I have learned that I am stronger than I ever thought possible. I am determined to build a future that does not revolve around struggle and survival. College is my path forward. It is the opportunity I need to increase my earning potential, to create financial stability, and to finally break the cycle of instability that has followed me my entire life.
I am applying for this scholarship because it would be life-changing, not just for me, but for my children. It would allow me to focus on my education without the constant fear of financial ruin. It would give me the chance to build a career that truly supports my family. More than anything, it would help me prove to my children that no matter how hard life gets, we always have the power to rise above our circumstances. I have spent my life fighting to survive. Now I am ready to fight for a better future.