Have you ever experienced PTSD? For many, post-traumatic stress disorder is associated with soldiers returning from war, but for others, like me, it stems from surviving the daily violence of inner-city life. Growing up on the dangerous Southside of Chicago, I was constantly exposed to crime—shootings, robberies, and petty offenses that most people in my community viewed as normal. But I knew, deep down, that this was not the way life was supposed to be. I refused to accept it as my reality.
I grew up in a single-parent household with four older brothers, all of us navigating the harsh realities of poverty and crime. With no real role models to guide us, the streets became the primary influence for many of my peers and even my brothers. I witnessed drug use, gang affiliation, and violence regularly, and I knew that if I wasn’t careful, I could easily fall into that same trap. However, my mother was determined to shield us from that fate. She kept us busy with sports and after-school programs, ensuring that we had structure and purpose beyond the streets. Despite her efforts, I still found myself surrounded by people who made choices I knew I could never afford to make.
I have witnessed violence firsthand—people being shot, nearly stabbed to death, and lives being lost over trivial disputes. These experiences, though terrifying, reinforced my resolve to choose a different path. I remember the words that stuck with me the most: “Don’t be another statistic. Too many people die for the stupidest things.” I took that message to heart, determined to break the cycle that had claimed so many lives.
However, the psychological toll of growing up in such an environment didn’t fully hit me until the summer before my freshman year of college, when I almost lost my life. Just two months before stepping onto campus, I was nearly gunned down in an incident that had nothing to do with me. At the time, I brushed it off as just another close call—something I had become desensitized to. But once I was removed from that environment and immersed in a new setting, I realized how deeply the trauma had affected me. I began experiencing symptoms of PTSD recurring nightmares of my death, anxiety, and a lingering sense of paranoia. It wasn’t until my ex-girlfriend, who acted as my unofficial therapist, pointed it out that I fully acknowledged my struggle. The effects were visible in my academic performance and overall well-being.
The individual sought professional therapy after confiding in their program coordinator, which significantly improved their ability to process their experiences healthily and develop coping mechanisms for trauma management.
Despite the challenges, I have grown immensely. In high school, I became more critical about my future and began considering various career paths. My mentors encouraged me to believe in myself and pursue higher education, which has transformed my life. Today, I am excelling in college, holding an executive board position, actively participating in the Black Male Initiative, and engaging in numerous community service efforts. More importantly, I have become a strong advocate for mental health awareness, openly discussing the impact of trauma on young men like myself.
My journey has not been easy, but it has given me purpose. I'm highlighting the power of breaking narratives and inspiring others to rise above their past. Proving that despite the circumstances we are born into, we have the power to break and rewrite our narratives. By breaking the cycle, raising awareness, and helping others recognize their potential, transforming from surviving to thriving.