
Hobbies and interests
Cheerleading
Dance
Modeling
Philanthropy
National Honor Society (NHS)
Student Council or Student Government
Community Service And Volunteering
Yearbook
Mia Massie
1x
Finalist
Mia Massie
1x
FinalistBio
My name is Mia Massie, a recent graduate of Wildwood Catholic Academy with a passion for leadership, service, and performing. I proudly serve as Cheer Captain, a Student Council member, and Miss North Wildwood. I manage the Girls Soccer Team and regularly perform the National Anthem at school and community events, strengthening my public speaking and performance skills.
Dance has been a lifelong passion, fueling my creativity and discipline both on and off the stage.
I’m deeply committed to giving back, volunteering with the Lazarus House food pantry, the Lunch with Lynch Foundation, and the Scotty Gregg Annual Toy Drive. Supporting The Women of Wildwood Organization has inspired my interest in nonprofit management and event planning.
As a member of the National Honor Society, I uphold academic excellence while actively participating in the Yearbook Club and Prom Committee. These experiences have shaped me into a dedicated and compassionate leader with a strong sense of purpose.
I currently attend Flagler College, majoring in Hospitality, Travel and Tourism and minoring in Marketing—fields that align with my desire to understand people and create meaningful experiences for others. I love my new life in St. Augustine as a student at Flagler College, member of Phi Alpha Omega, and employee at Blackfly the Restaurant.
Education
Flagler College-St Augustine
Bachelor's degree programMajors:
- Hospitality Administration/Management
Minors:
- Business, Management, Marketing, and Related Support Services, Other
Wildwood Catholic High School
High SchoolMiscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Master's degree program
Graduate schools of interest:
Transfer schools of interest:
Majors of interest:
- Psychology, General
- Hospitality Administration/Management
Career
Dream career field:
Mental Health Care
Dream career goals:
Front of House Manager, Hostess, Take Out, Server
Alfe's Restaurant2023 – Present3 years
Sports
Cheerleading
Varsity2016 – Present10 years
Awards
- Captain
Soccer
Varsity2021 – Present5 years
Awards
- Manager
Research
Hospitality Administration/Management
Blackfly the Restaurant — Hospitality student with experience in restaurant operations, guest relations, and event coordination. Assisted with events connected to the St. Augustine Food & Wine Festival while observing hospitality leadership and mentorship within the industry.2025 – Present
Arts
National Anthem Vocalist
Performance Art2015 – PresentCape May Dance Company
Dance2009 – Present
Public services
Public Service (Politics)
Miss North Wildwood — Miss North Wildwood2024 – 2025Volunteering
Women of Wildwood — Volunteer2018 – PresentVolunteering
Lazarus House — Volunteer2020 – PresentVolunteering
Lunch with Lynch — Volunteer2015 – Present
Future Interests
Advocacy
Volunteering
Philanthropy
Our Destiny Our Future Scholarship
Making an impact on the world does not always begin with large achievements or public recognition. I believe meaningful impact begins through compassion, consistency, and the ability to make people feel valued and supported. Through my volunteer experiences, personal challenges, leadership opportunities, and future career goals, I hope to positively impact others by creating meaningful connections, supporting my community, and helping people feel seen and cared for.
Community involvement has always remained one of the most important parts of my life. I have volunteered with organizations including The Lazarus House Food Pantry, Women of Wildwood, and many other local community initiatives. These experiences taught me that even small acts of kindness can make a lasting difference in someone’s life. Whether helping organize community events, supporting local families, or simply giving my time to people in need, I learned that compassion is often demonstrated through empathy, reliability, and service rather than recognition.
As the oldest sibling with a younger sister and brother, I learned responsibility and emotional awareness at a young age. Difficult family experiences, including feelings of abandonment after my father chose to sever contact with me, forced me to mature quickly and taught me the importance of resilience and compassion. Those experiences shaped the way I interact with others because they made me realize that many people carry struggles invisible to the outside world. Because of this, I try to approach people with empathy and understanding rather than judgment.
My mother has been one of the greatest influences in my life. In addition to working tirelessly to support our family, she also serves as an 8th-grade CCD teacher, helping students prepare for the sacrament of Confirmation. Watching her dedicate so much of her time to guiding and encouraging young people taught me the importance of patience, compassion, and selflessness. Her example showed me that true strength often comes from continuing to uplift others even during difficult circumstances.
Another major influence has been my Uncle Nick, who owns restaurants in St. Augustine and is deeply involved in the community. In addition to his involvement with the St. Augustine Food & Wine Festival and Flagler College, he is passionate about mentoring both high school and college students interested in hospitality careers. Watching him invest his time into guiding younger people and supporting community initiatives showed me how leadership can positively impact others far beyond business success alone.
After completing my freshman year at Flagler College in St. Augustine, Florida, I am pursuing a degree in Hospitality, Travel, and Tourism with a minor in Marketing. Through my experiences working in restaurants and assisting with hospitality events, I have seen firsthand how meaningful interactions and strong leadership can positively affect both individuals and communities.
As a member of Phi Alpha Omega sorority, I also witnessed many students struggle with anxiety, homesickness, and the emotional challenges of leaving home for the first time. Those experiences reminded me how important it is to create supportive environments where people feel comfortable being themselves and asking for help when needed.
In the future, I hope to combine leadership, hospitality, and community service to make a positive impact on others. Whether through mentoring younger students, organizing community-centered events, volunteering, or creating welcoming spaces within the hospitality industry, I want to build a career centered around helping people feel valued and connected.
I believe making an impact on the world begins with compassion and the willingness to show up for others consistently. Through my education, future career, and continued commitment to service, I hope to positively influence both my community and the lives of the people I encounter.
Taylor Swift Fan Scholarship
One of Taylor Swift’s most moving performances, in my opinion, is “Eldest Daughter” from her 2025 album The Life of a Showgirl. While Taylor is known for elaborate performances and massive stadium tours, this song stood out to me because of how emotionally honest and personal it felt. Rather than presenting herself as perfectly composed or untouchable, Taylor explored the pressure of constantly feeling responsible for others while quietly struggling internally. That vulnerability is what made the performance so powerful to me.
As the oldest sibling with a younger sister and brother, I deeply connected to the pressure Taylor describes throughout the song. Eldest daughters are often expected to stay strong, protect others, set the example, and carry emotional burdens without openly expressing their own struggles. Taylor’s lyric comparing eldest daughters to “the first lamb to the slaughter” who then “dress up as wolves” perfectly captures the emotional armor many people build simply to protect themselves. I think many oldest daughters learn very early how to appear resilient and unbothered, even during difficult moments.
The performance also resonated with me because of my own experiences with difficult family dynamics and feelings of abandonment after my father chose to sever contact with me at a young age. Growing up, I often felt pressure to mature quickly and be someone my younger siblings could look up to, which sometimes made it harder to openly express anxiety, sadness, or insecurity. Like the message in Taylor’s song, I learned how easy it is to hide emotions behind the appearance of strength. Watching Taylor openly acknowledge those emotions reminded me how many people silently carry emotional pressure while trying to meet expectations from family, society, and even themselves.
I also think this performance reflects something very relevant in today’s world, especially with the influence of social media. There is enormous pressure for young women to appear confident, successful, emotionally unaffected, and constantly “put together.” Social media often rewards people for appearing detached or invulnerable, while vulnerability is sometimes viewed as weakness. What made “Eldest Daughter” so meaningful to me was the way Taylor challenged that mindset. Instead of hiding difficult emotions behind confidence or perfection, she openly acknowledged them.
Ultimately, I found this performance moving because it transformed vulnerability into strength. It reminded me that emotional honesty is not weakness, but one of the most powerful ways people connect with one another. In a world where so many people feel pressure to hide what they are going through, performances like this help others feel understood and less alone.
RonranGlee Literary Scholarship
“External things are not the problem. It’s your assessment of them. Which you can erase right now.” — Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
In this passage, Marcus Aurelius suggests that while people cannot always control the difficult situations they face, they can control the way they respond to them. I believe the underlying meaning of this quote is that adversity only gains lasting power when people allow it to define their identity, self-worth, or future. Aurelius argues that true strength comes from learning how to acknowledge pain without allowing it to consume the person you become.
This quote resonates deeply with me because I understand what it feels like to carry emotional pain that begins shaping the way you see yourself. Growing up, I struggled with feelings of abandonment and insecurity after my father chose to sever contact with me at a young age. For a long time, I internalized those experiences and quietly questioned my own worth. I often convinced myself that if someone could walk away from me so easily, then maybe I simply was not enough. Looking back, I realize that the hardest part was not only the situation itself, but the meaning I attached to it.
What makes Marcus Aurelius’ words so powerful is that he separates external events from personal perception. He acknowledges that painful things happen in life, but he refuses to believe those experiences should permanently control a person’s identity. The phrase “which you can erase right now” does not mean people can magically remove pain or trauma. Instead, I believe Aurelius is arguing that people have the ability to change the way they allow pain to define them.
This idea became especially meaningful to me through therapy. Therapy gave me a safe place to process emotions I had suppressed for years and helped me realize that my experiences did not determine my value as a person. I began to understand that while I could not control my father’s choices, I could control the way I responded to them. Slowly, I stopped viewing myself through the lens of rejection and began focusing instead on growth, resilience, and the relationships that continued to support me.
I also believe this message is incredibly relevant in today’s world, especially with the influence of social media. People constantly compare their lives, appearance, relationships, and success to carefully curated versions of other people online. Social media often creates unrealistic standards that can make individuals feel inadequate or unsuccessful, even when they are doing their best. It becomes easy to measure personal worth based on likes, attention, appearance, or the illusion that everyone else has a perfect life. Marcus Aurelius’ philosophy directly challenges that mindset because he reminds readers that peace and self-worth cannot come from external validation. Instead, they come from the way people choose to view themselves internally.
This is also why literacy and critical thinking remain so important today. Ancient philosophy continues to stay relevant because strong literacy skills allow people to analyze ideas deeply instead of simply consuming information at the surface level. In a world filled with constant opinions, comparisons, and unrealistic portrayals online, literacy helps people think independently and question what they are seeing rather than immediately internalizing it. Reading works like Meditations encourages self-awareness, reflection, and emotional maturity in a society that often encourages impulsive reactions and comparison.
Because of my own experiences, I now approach relationships and the world around me differently. I have become more aware that many people silently carry emotional struggles that others cannot see. That awareness has made me more compassionate, patient, and intentional in the way I treat others. It has also shaped my goals for the future. After completing my freshman year at Flagler College in St. Augustine, Florida, I discovered a passion for hospitality, leadership, and creating environments where people feel welcomed and valued. In many ways, I think that desire comes from understanding how important it is for people to feel seen, supported, and connected.
Ultimately, I believe the underlying meaning of this passage is that resilience is not about pretending pain does not exist. It is about refusing to let pain permanently define your identity. Difficult experiences may shape a person’s story, but they do not have to determine who that person becomes. Marcus Aurelius reminds readers that growth begins when people reclaim control over the way they see themselves and choose to move forward with strength, perspective, and self-awareness.
Ethel Hayes Destigmatization of Mental Health Scholarship
“‘If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him, “I miss the father you never were.”’” This poignant quote by John Mark Green encapsulates the enduring void left by my father’s absence and the emotional impact it had on my mental health growing up. Mental health has shaped the way I understand myself, my relationships, and the world around me. Some of the most difficult experiences in my life forced me to confront emotions that many people struggle to openly discuss, especially feelings of abandonment, anxiety, insecurity, and self-worth. Over time, those experiences taught me resilience, empathy, and the importance of honest conversations surrounding mental health.
Growing up, I experienced the emotional effects of parental estrangement after my father chose to sever contact with me at a young age. Although we lived in the same community, his absence created feelings of confusion, rejection, and loneliness that were difficult to process as a child. For many years, I struggled internally with questions about my own value and worth, while trying to appear strong on the outside.
One of the most important turning points in my life was beginning therapy. Therapy gave me a safe environment where I could finally express emotions I had suppressed for years. It helped me understand that mental health struggles are not weaknesses or failures, but human experiences that deserve compassion, support, and understanding. Through therapy, I learned healthier ways to cope with difficult emotions, communicate openly, and rebuild confidence in myself.
My experiences also changed the way I approach relationships. I became more aware that many people carry silent struggles that others may never fully see. Because of this, I try to approach people with empathy instead of judgment and recognize how meaningful kindness, patience, and emotional support can be. Mental health challenges taught me the importance of being emotionally present for others and creating spaces where people feel heard and valued.
These experiences have also influenced my aspirations for the future. After completing my freshman year at Flagler College in St. Augustine, I discovered a strong passion for hospitality, leadership, and community involvement. I am pursuing a degree in Hospitality, Travel, and Tourism with a minor in Marketing because I want to create positive environments where people feel welcomed, connected, and cared for. While hospitality may not seem directly connected to mental health, I have realized that human connection, compassion, and emotional awareness are central to both.
One of the greatest influences in my life has been my mother, whose strength and perseverance shaped the person I am today. Watching her navigate difficult circumstances while continuing to support, encourage, and care for our family taught me resilience, compassion, and the importance of showing up for others even during challenging times. Her ability to lead with kindness and strength inspired me to approach both life and relationships with empathy and understanding.
As a member of Phi Alpha Omega sorority, I have also gained a deeper understanding of the mental health challenges many college students face as they adjust to life away from home. Watching freshmen navigate anxiety, homesickness, pressure, and the emotional challenges that come with major life transitions was eye-opening for me. It made me realize how important strong support systems and open conversations surrounding mental health truly are. One thing I deeply appreciate about Flagler College is how the school actively keeps mental health at the forefront by encouraging students to seek support, prioritize emotional well-being, and openly discuss challenges that many young adults silently struggle with.
My mental health journey has also motivated me to become more involved in my community. Through volunteer work with organizations such as The Lazarus House Food Pantry, Women of Wildwood, and other local events, I have learned that helping others often creates healing and connection not only for those receiving support but also for those giving it.
Most importantly, my experiences taught me that conversations surrounding mental health should never be hidden or treated with shame. For many people, silence can deepen feelings of isolation. Open conversations, support systems, and access to mental health resources can truly change lives. I believe that sharing our experiences honestly helps break down stigma and reminds others that they are not alone in what they are facing.
Although mental health challenges have been a difficult part of my journey, they have also shaped me into someone more compassionate, resilient, and understanding. They have influenced my beliefs, strengthened my relationships, and inspired me to build a future centered around empathy, leadership, and helping others feel seen and supported.
Patricia Lindsey Jackson Foundation - Eva Mae Jackson Scholarship of Education
Faith has always been one of the strongest guiding forces in my life. It has shaped the way I treat others, the goals I pursue, and the kind of person I strive to become. Through my family, education, and involvement in both my church and community, I have learned that faith is not simply something you believe — it is something you live through service, compassion, integrity, and leadership.
Throughout high school at Wildwood Catholic Academy, my faith was woven into my daily life. Attending school Masses, participating in community service opportunities, and being surrounded by faith-centered mentors helped strengthen my values and my sense of responsibility to others. During my senior year, I was honored to serve as Miss North Wildwood, a role that allowed me to represent my community while striving to be a positive role model for younger students. I also had the privilege of singing the National Anthem at local events, including our graduation Baccalaureate Mass, which allowed me to express both my faith and love for my community through music.
Now, after completing my freshman year at Flagler College in St. Augustine, Florida, my faith continues to influence both my academic and personal goals. I am pursuing a degree in Hospitality, Travel, and Tourism with a minor in Marketing because I am passionate about creating meaningful experiences for others and building connections through hospitality and service. My faith has taught me the importance of empathy, kindness, and treating every person with dignity — values that naturally align with the hospitality industry and the type of leader I hope to become.
Two of the greatest influences in my life have been my mother and my uncle, both of whom lead by example through their dedication to service and community involvement. My mother has always shown me the importance of compassion, faith, and helping others without expecting recognition in return. As an 8th-grade CCD teacher preparing students for the sacrament of Confirmation, she has devoted countless hours to guiding young people in their faith journeys. Assisting her and watching the care she puts into supporting others has deeply influenced my own commitment to service, leadership, and living out my faith in everyday life.
My uncle, the owner of two restaurants in St. Augustine, also serves on the Flagler College Board of Trustees, serves as the director of the St. Augustine Food & Wine Festival, and works closely with both the college and local high schools. Over the past year, I have had the opportunity to help him with events and restaurant operations while witnessing the passion and dedication he brings to supporting his community. Seeing the way he uses hospitality, leadership, and service to positively impact others has inspired me and strengthened my own desire to build a career centered around helping people and giving back to my community.
My involvement within the Church has remained an important part of who I am. This past year, I had the opportunity to help decorate Assumption Church for Christmas, contributing to the beauty and reverence of our parish during the holiday season. Beyond church activities, I continue to volunteer with organizations such as The Lazarus House, Women of Wildwood, Lunch with Lynch events, and other local community initiatives. These experiences have shown me the importance of helping others with kindness, humility, and compassion. Faith has taught me that leadership is not about recognition, but about being dependable, honest, and willing to serve others even in small ways.
As I continue my education and enter my sophomore year of college, I remain committed to living out the values my faith has instilled in me. I recently became a member of Phi Alpha Omega sorority, where I have found another opportunity to build community, serve others, and grow as a leader. Being in St. Augustine, just steps away from The Cathedral Basilica — America’s first parish — has also deepened my appreciation for the history and strength of the Catholic faith.
The legacy of Patricia Lindsey Jackson and Eva Mae Jackson is inspiring because it reflects the importance of faith, education, leadership, and service to others. Their commitment to uplifting their communities is something I deeply admire and hope to continue through my own actions, education, and future career.
Receiving this scholarship would not only support my educational goals, but also encourage me to continue pursuing a life centered around faith, integrity, leadership, and service to others.
Sylvester Taylor Hospitality Scholarship
Growing up in The Wildwoods, New Jersey, I was surrounded by hospitality from an early age. Living in a shore community built on family-owned restaurants, hotels, tourism, and special events showed me how meaningful great service can be. I love that hospitality has the ability to turn ordinary moments into experiences people remember for years. Whether it is a family vacation, wedding, or community event, the people behind those experiences have the power to make others feel welcomed, valued, and connected.
My passion for hospitality was inspired largely by my mother, who has spent most of her adult life working in the industry as a wedding singer, bartender, event staff, manager, sales manager, and Director of Events. As a single mother raising my siblings and me, she demonstrated resilience, professionalism, and compassion every day. From a young age, I accompanied her to weddings, events, and community functions where I learned the importance of communication, adaptability, attention to detail, and creating genuine connections with people.
Today, I am pursuing a degree in Hospitality, Travel, and Tourism with a minor in Business or Marketing at Flagler College. My goal is to combine creativity, leadership, and business strategy to create exceptional guest experiences while making a positive impact within the communities I serve.
I have also gained hands-on experience working at Blackfly The Restaurant, owned by my uncle, where I work as a server, hostess, bartender, and event staff member. Working in multiple roles has taught me the importance of teamwork, adaptability, professionalism, and guest satisfaction within the hospitality industry. These experiences have strengthened my ability to communicate with people from all backgrounds while remaining calm and organized in fast-paced environments.
Community involvement has also played an important role in shaping who I am. I have volunteered with organizations including The Women of Wildwood and The Lazarus House Food Pantry, where I learned that hospitality extends far beyond restaurants and resorts — it can also be a way to support and care for people in your community. As Miss North Wildwood, I proudly represented my community while encouraging younger students to become involved in their schools and local organizations. I am also a member of the Phi Alpha Omega sorority, where I have continued building leadership skills and strong connections within my college community.
What draws me to hospitality most is the way it brings people together. Whether welcoming travelers, coordinating meaningful events, or supporting local tourism initiatives, I hope to create experiences where people feel genuinely cared for and connected. I also hope to mentor future hospitality professionals and help create the same welcoming environment that first inspired me.
Receiving the Sylvester Taylor Hospitality Scholarship would help ease the financial burden of pursuing my education while allowing me to continue building a future in an industry I truly love. More importantly, this scholarship would encourage me to continue leading with authenticity, kindness, and service — values that defined Sylvester Taylor’s remarkable legacy.
Bright Lights Scholarship
"If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him, ‘I miss the father you never were.’” This poignant quote by John Mark Green encapsulates the enduring void left by my father's absence. After my parents divorced, he chose to start a new family and severed contact by the time I was seven. Despite living in the same town, where he serves as a police officer, he has never acknowledged my presence, adding complexity to my journey of self-discovery and resilience.
My greatest achievement is excelling in life despite the challenges posed by my father's absence. Growing up without his support meant witnessing my mother's remarkable strength as the sole provider for my siblings and me. This lack of paternal support, particularly in a community where he is a prominent figure, posed emotional and financial challenges. Yet, these obstacles fueled my determination to forge my own path.
Attending Wildwood Catholic Academy was made possible by financial aid due to our low-income status. It was not easy being the "financial aid kid" in a school where most students' parents own businesses. While peers drove new cars, I drove a used car, like my mother, a testament to my mother's sacrifices to provide me with opportunities. Her commitment has been a source of gratitude and motivation. I help support myself financially by working full-time during summers and breaks at Alfe’s Restaurant, and that experience has taught me invaluable skills in time management, responsibility, and perseverance.
Therapy became a sanctuary, a place where I could explore and express the feelings of abandonment and insecurity that had haunted me. This experience was transformative, not only helping me navigate the emotional complexities of my father's estrangement but also igniting my passion for psychology. Through therapy, I learned the power of understanding and communication in healing and personal growth. My therapist's guidance opened my eyes to the profound impact that mental health professionals can have, fueling my desire to pursue psychology.
Despite these challenges, I have embraced opportunities to grow and lead. As Miss North Wildwood 2024, I have proudly represented my community, inspiring local youth and promoting unity. This role, alongside my volunteer work with organizations like The Women of Wildwood, The Lazarus House Food Pantry, and the Lunch for Lynch Foundation, has instilled a deep sense of empathy and leadership.
Looking ahead, I am eager to continue my journey at Flagler College in St. Augustine, majoring in Psychology, and being the first in my family to graduate from college. I hope to support children facing challenges similar to my own, providing the same support that was pivotal in my life. Complementing this, I will minor in Hospitality, inspired by my uncle's work in the community. By combining my academic pursuits with community service, I aim to make a lasting impact, demonstrating that perseverance can indeed overcome obstacles.
Receiving the Bright Lights Scholarship would be transformative, providing financial relief and honoring the values of dedication, resilience, and perseverance. It would empower me to continue my education, inspired by personal experiences and a passion for supporting others through understanding, service, and leadership. Through resilience and determination, I have turned my father's absence from a source of pain into a catalyst for personal growth and community engagement. I am committed to using my experiences and education to create positive change, both at home and in my future community in St. Augustine.
KC MedBridge Scholarship
In The Wildwoods, where I grew up, we strongly believe in the “power of community”. My commitment to community service and education is unwavering, and I aim to continue this dedication at Flagler College. However, financial challenges pose a significant barrier to my educational journey. As the sole provider, due to the estrangement of my father at the age of seven, my mother works tirelessly, yet the cost of college remains daunting. This scholarship is vital to bridging that gap, allowing me to focus on my studies without financial strain. Being the first in my family to graduate from college, it represents more than financial relief; it symbolizes hope and the opportunity to give back to a community that has shaped me.
Volunteering has transformed my life, providing purpose and deepening my understanding of community dynamics. These experiences inspire my pursuit of a career in psychology, where I aim to create safe spaces for young people to express themselves and build resilience.
Holding a public service title serving as Miss North Wildwood, I strive to be a role model, embodying kindness, empathy, and inclusion. My conservative and Catholic values reinforce my commitment to creating a positive environment. It also allows me to embody these values and connect with others publicly.
This scholarship would not only alleviate financial burdens but also empower me to continue making meaningful contributions to society, honoring the values that my mother and my community have instilled in me. Thank you for your consideration.
Snap EmpowHER Scholarship
“If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him, ‘I miss the father you never were.’” This poignant quote by John Mark Green captures the void left by my father's absence, a challenge that has profoundly shaped my journey. Growing up without him was more than an empty chair at the dinner table; it was a constant reminder of the relationship I never had. Yet, this absence fueled my desire to understand myself and others better. My mother, a beacon of strength and love, became my unwavering support, instilling in me values of empathy, resilience, and determination.
This background has inspired my dream to become a licensed psychologist specializing in child and adolescent therapy. Psychology excites me because I have experienced firsthand the transformative power of understanding and support. Through therapy, I learned to navigate my emotions and heal, which motivated me to offer similar guidance to children, especially those from broken homes or dealing with self-esteem issues.
The impact I hope to make in my career is significant. I want to create a safe space for young individuals to express themselves freely, fostering mental wellness and resilience. In my community service and mentoring roles, I've already witnessed the transformative power of empathy and support. By helping others build their self-worth and emotional intelligence, I aim to contribute to stronger, more resilient communities.
Supporting female empowerment is central to my mission. Inspired by my mother and other strong women that she surrounds herself with, I've learned the importance of leadership and service. These women, respected business owners and philanthropists, have shown me how to command respect while giving back to the community. They have become mentors and chosen family, as I respectfully address them as my aunts. Their strength complements my mother’s kind and empathetic traits, often mistaken as weakness, teaching me that true empowerment involves balancing compassion with strength.
As Miss North Wildwood, I've used my platform to inspire and connect with young women, reinforcing that strength and compassion are not mutually exclusive. I strive to uplift and support women in my community, creating a network of strong individuals who encourage one another. My role models demonstrate that female empowerment is about building each other up and creating opportunities for growth and leadership.
A significant part of my motivation also comes from my role as an older sister to Molly Mae and Eddie. Their presence inspires me to be a role model, embodying the values of kindness, empathy, and inclusion. I want them and the youth in our small island community to see the importance of these principles in everyday life. My conservative and Catholic values reinforce my commitment to creating a positive environment. Being crowned Miss North Wildwood has allowed me to publicly embody these values, using my platform to inspire and connect with others.
Dance serves as another source of motivation, surrounded by strong women. It is not only a creative outlet but also a form of therapy, offering a space to express myself and find solace. Through movement, I find clarity and strength, channeling my emotions into art.
As I prepare for my future in psychology, I am motivated by the desire to support others, just as I have been supported by the remarkable women in my life. I plan to join a sorority to build a supportive network of women who uplift one another, embracing honesty, empathy, and kindness. This community will be vital as I navigate my academic journey and future career in psychology, ultimately helping me empower others and make a meaningful impact in the world.
WCEJ Thornton Foundation Low-Income Scholarship
"If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him, ‘I miss the father you never were.’” This poignant quote by John Mark Green encapsulates the enduring void left by my father's absence. After my parents divorced, he chose to start a new family and severed contact by the time I was seven. Despite living in the same town, where he serves as a police officer, he has never acknowledged my presence, adding complexity to my journey of self-discovery and resilience.
My greatest achievement is excelling in life despite the challenges posed by my father's absence. Growing up without his support meant witnessing my mother's remarkable strength as the sole provider for my siblings and me. This lack of paternal support, particularly in a community where he is a prominent figure, posed emotional and financial challenges. Yet, these obstacles fueled my determination to forge my own path.
Attending Wildwood Catholic Academy was made possible by financial aid due to our low-income status. It was not easy being the "financial aid kid" in a school where most students' parents own businesses. While peers drove new cars, I drove a used car, like my mother, a testament to my mother's sacrifices to provide me with opportunities. Her commitment has been a source of gratitude and motivation. I help support myself financially by working full-time during summers and breaks at Alfe’s Restaurant, and that experience has taught me invaluable skills in time management, responsibility, and perseverance.
Therapy became a sanctuary, a place where I could explore and express the feelings of abandonment and insecurity that had haunted me. This experience was transformative, not only helping me navigate the emotional complexities of my father's estrangement but also igniting my passion for psychology. Through therapy, I learned the power of understanding and communication in healing and personal growth. My therapist's guidance opened my eyes to the profound impact that mental health professionals can have, fueling my desire to pursue psychology.
Despite these challenges, I have embraced opportunities to grow and lead. As Miss North Wildwood, I have proudly represented my community, inspiring local youth and promoting unity. This role, alongside my volunteer work with organizations like The Women of Wildwood, The Lazarus House Food Pantry, and the Lunch for Lynch Foundation, has instilled a deep sense of empathy and leadership.
Looking ahead, I am eager to continue my journey at Flagler College in St. Augustine, majoring in Psychology. I hope to support children facing challenges similar to my own, providing the same support that was pivotal in my life. Complementing this, I will minor in Hospitality, inspired by my uncle's work in the community. By combining my academic pursuits with community service, I aim to make a lasting impact, demonstrating that perseverance can indeed overcome obstacles.
Receiving the WCEJ Thornton Foundation Low-Income Scholarship would be transformative, providing financial relief and honoring the values of dedication, resilience, and perseverance. It would empower me to continue my education, inspired by personal experiences and a passion for supporting others through understanding, service, and leadership.
Through resilience and determination, I have turned my father's absence from a source of pain into a catalyst for personal growth and community engagement. I am committed to using my experiences and education to create positive change, both at home and in my future community in St. Augustine.
Curtis Holloway Memorial Scholarship
From the moment I took my first breath, my mother has been my unwavering support and inspiration. As a child growing up in a single-parent household, I have always been amazed at her ability to transform our home into a sanctuary of love and learning. She instilled in me a love for academics, music, arts, and culture—values that have become the foundation of my educational journey. Her endless sacrifices and dedication have been the foundation upon which I have built my dreams.
Our family dynamic shifted dramatically when my parents divorced. My father chose to start a new family, leaving a void that could have easily shattered me. His absence was not just a missing face at the dinner table; it was a profound gap in my identity and self-worth. Growing up, I often felt the weight of his absence during milestones, like school events and family gatherings, where his support would have been cherished. Yet, in this void, my mother became all the more pivotal, stepping into roles that extended beyond those of a traditional parent.
She became both mother and father, shouldering the responsibility of nurturing my intellectual curiosity and emotional resilience. Her strength was a beacon, lighting my path even when I felt overshadowed by insecurities and unanswered questions about my father's absence. She taught me to channel my emotions into productive outlets, such as singing the National Anthem at community events—a role that has become a source of pride and expression for me. This was a gift from her, a legacy of her own unfulfilled dreams as a vocalist, now realized through my voice.
Her influence is evident in my commitment to community service, a value she instilled in me from a young age. Through volunteering, I have learned the importance of empathy and leadership. My mother led by example and encouraged me to give back to our community. Whether it was working with local charities or mentoring younger students, I found purpose in helping others, reflecting the compassion she has always shown.
While my father's absence fostered feelings of insecurity and abandonment, my mother's presence has been a constant source of strength and guidance. Her unwavering support has taught me to trust others, to build meaningful relationships, and to understand that my worth is not defined by what is missing but by the abundance of love and encouragement that she and our village show.
In honoring her sacrifices, I strive to be the best version of myself. I carry forward the lessons of resilience and empathy she has taught me. Her influence will guide me as I work to empower others, continuing her legacy of strength and dedication. As I look toward my future, I am determined to pursue a degree in Psychology that allows me to impact lives positively, just as my mother has impacted mine.
My commitment to community service and education is unwavering, and I aim to continue this dedication at Flagler College. However, financial challenges pose a significant barrier to my educational journey. As the sole provider, my mother works tirelessly, yet the cost of college remains daunting. This scholarship is vital to bridging that gap, allowing me to focus on my studies without financial strain. Being the first in my family to graduate from college, it represents more than financial relief; it symbolizes hope and the opportunity to give back to a community that has shaped me.
The Curtis Holloway Memorial Scholarship would not only alleviate financial burdens but also empower me to continue making meaningful contributions to society, honoring the values that my mother has instilled in me.
Gregory Chase Carter Memorial Scholarship
The Annual Pasta Dinner, organized by The Women of Wildwood, is a cherished event in our small beach town, held at Alfe's, a local fine dining restaurant. This event holds special significance for me, as it offers a unique opportunity to honor our first responders, including my father, a police officer in North Wildwood, from whom I have been estranged since the age of seven. Despite our personal distance, participating in this event allows me to show respect to him and his colleagues, reinforcing the vital bonds between our community and those who serve it.
A key feature of the dinner is the "Pay it Forward" initiative, which enables community members to donate meals to first responders, healthcare providers, and teachers. The event also invites underprivileged families to dine at Alfe's, providing them with a fine dining experience they might not often have. Witnessing the joy it brings to these families deepens my understanding of community impact and the importance of inclusivity.
Through volunteering at events like the Annual Pasta Dinner and my involvement with organizations such as the Lunch for Lynch Foundation and Lazarus House food pantry, I have developed valuable leadership, empathy, and organizational skills. My role as Miss North Wildwood has further enriched my community engagement, allowing me to inspire local youth and embody the spirit of service. Singing the National Anthem at community events and school functions has been an honor, connecting me with my roots and instilling a deep sense of patriotism and pride.
My commitment to community service is unwavering, and I am eager to continue this dedication at Flagler College in St. Augustine. I plan to major in Psychology and minor in Hospitality, fields that perfectly blend my desire to understand human behavior and my interest in serving others. My uncle, a key figure in St. Augustine, has been instrumental in helping high school students learn about culinary arts and supporting the community through organizing the local food and wine festival. His leadership inspires me to follow in his footsteps. I hope to work alongside him, integrating into my new community by contributing to these meaningful initiatives. By combining my academic pursuits with community service, I aim to support projects that promote education, well-being, and cultural appreciation in St. Augustine. I would love to bring the “Pay it Forward” concept to my college town.
However, financial challenges pose a significant barrier to my educational journey. As the sole provider, my mother works tirelessly, yet the cost of college remains daunting. This scholarship is vital to bridging that gap, allowing me to focus on my studies without financial strain. Being the first in my family to graduate from college, it represents more than financial relief; it symbolizes hope and the opportunity to give back to a community that has shaped me.
The Gregory Chase Carter Memorial Scholarship would not only alleviate financial burdens but also empower me to continue making meaningful contributions to society, honoring the values of respect, resilience, and service.
St.Hilaire Leaders of Tomorrow Scholarship
The St Hilaire Leaders of Tomorrow Scholarship represents an opportunity to further my education and continue my commitment to community service and academic excellence. Throughout my high school career at Wildwood Catholic Academy, I have dedicated myself to my studies and community while excelling as a student athlete, aligning closely with the values of this scholarship. I have been on a competitive dance team and cheered all four years at Wildwood Catholic Academy. I played soccer my freshman year, and even though I wasn’t great at it, I continued with the team as the manager for the remaining three years. Dance is extremely important to me, as it is a creative outlet and has been a form of therapy to help me deal with life’s challenges. Juggling practices, performances, and games with schoolwork, community service, family life, and work is challenging, but so rewarding.
Volunteering at the Lazarus House food pantry and participating in volunteer work with the Women of Wildwood, Lunch for Lynch Foundation, and Scotty Gregg Toy Drive have allowed me to consistently seek opportunities to make a positive impact. These experiences have enriched my understanding of community needs and equipped me with skills in leadership, empathy, and organization. Additionally, serving as Miss North Wildwood this past year has enabled me to engage with and inspire local youth, embodying the spirit of community service. Another way I contribute to my community is through music. I have the honor of singing the National Anthem at community events and all home basketball games. This role allows me to embody a sense of patriotism and community pride, while also honing my public performance skills and sharing my passion for singing.
On the academic front, I have maintained a GPA of 4.04 while challenging myself with honors and AP courses. As a member of the National Honor Society, I have demonstrated a commitment to academic excellence and integrity. Being a member of the Student Council, Yearbook Club, and being elected Prom Queen were roles that helped my confidence in my leadership skills. I am eager to apply my learning to real-world contexts, as I'm planning to major in Psychology with the goal of further understanding and supporting individuals in my community and beyond.
Beyond academics and volunteering, working full-time during summers and breaks at Alfe’s Restaurant has taught me invaluable skills in time management, responsibility, and perseverance. Despite the absence of my father since I was very young, my mother and my supportive community have been instrumental in my journey, providing unwavering support and encouragement.
Financially, my family faces challenges that make paying for college difficult. My mother, as the sole provider, works tirelessly to support us, yet the cost of higher education remains a significant barrier. Although Flagler College is my top choice, the financial aid offered does not fully meet my needs. This scholarship would help alleviate the financial burden, enabling me to focus on my studies without the strain of financial uncertainty.
The St Hilaire Leaders of Tomorrow Scholarship would also enable me to serve as a role model for my siblings and peers, illustrating that despite life's challenges, one can rise and create meaningful change. By supporting my education, you will facilitate my aspirations to empower others and give back to the community that has shaped me.
Being the first in my family to graduate from college, receiving this scholarship is crucial. It will help bridge the financial gap, allowing me to pursue my education and continue making meaningful contributions to society. I am deeply grateful for the consideration of my application.
Sylvester Taylor Hospitality Scholarship
“If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him, ‘I miss the father you never were.’” This poignant quote by John Mark Green encapsulates the enduring void left by my father's absence. After my parents divorced, he chose to start a new family and severed contact by the time I was seven. Despite living in the same town, where he serves as a police officer, he has never acknowledged my presence, adding complexity to my journey of self-discovery.
Growing up without my father's support meant witnessing my mother's remarkable strength as the sole provider for my siblings and me. This lack of support posed emotional and financial challenges, yet fueled my determination to forge my own path.
I live on a resort beach island, The Wildwoods, a community of family-owned businesses, hotels, and restaurants. This tight-knit community values hospitality and giving back. My mother has dedicated her adult life to hospitality, working as a wedding singer, bartender, waitress, manager, and wedding sales coordinator. From a young age, I helped in her work, learning the importance of dedication and connection, and the importance of a strong work ethic.
A community event that showcases our spirit is the annual pasta dinner by The Women of Wildwood. It includes a "pay it forward" option to donate pasta dinners to local first responders and teachers, supporting those who serve us and fostering community solidarity. In this nurturing environment, I volunteered with The Women of Wildwood and The Lazarus House Food Pantry, reinforcing my commitment to serve others. As Miss North Wildwood, I proudly represented my community, promoting unity and inspiring local youth.
I plan to major in Psychology and minor in Hospitality at Flagler College in St. Augustine. Hospitality, to me, is more than service—it's about creating spaces where people feel valued and cared for. Inspired by my mother and community, I hope to contribute to initiatives that promote education, well-being, and cultural appreciation.
My uncle, a restaurant owner in St. Augustine, works closely with high schools and colleges, helping students explore culinary arts. He organizes Flagler's Food and Wine Festival and teaches a wine and spirits appreciation class. His dedication to education and community service inspires me to integrate into the St. Augustine community by fostering similar initiatives.
I envision using my passion for hospitality to create inclusive environments that foster connection and understanding. Whether organizing community events that celebrate diversity and culture or supporting first responders with a meal, I aim to make a lasting impact.
Receiving the “Invictus” Scholarship would provide financial relief and empower me to continue my education and be the first in my family to graduate from college. This support would enable me to serve as a role model, showing that despite life's challenges, one can rise and create meaningful change.
Through resilience and determination, I am committed to using my experiences and education to create positive change, both at home in The Wildwoods and my future community in St. Augustine.
Margalie Jean-Baptiste Scholarship
“If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him ‘I miss the father you never were,’” a quote by John Mark Green, encapsulates the void that has shaped my life. Growing up, I was constantly asked if I missed my father, and while my answer has always been no, the truth is I miss the relationship we never had. His absence was not merely a missing presence at the dinner table; it was a profound void in my understanding of identity.
From an early age, my world was split between two households. My father’s priorities rarely included me, and by the time I was seven, he had completely cut me off, starting a new family without me. Watching my mother endure this was heart-wrenching. The guilt she carries, choosing a man like that to be the father of her child who failed miserably, deeply upset me. This bond with my mother became my saving grace. Despite the challenges, she was my constant, teaching me resilience and instilling in me a lifelong love for learning.
My mother had once been a vocalist in a band, her dreams ended by my father who forced her to leave her career. Yet, she channeled her passion into educating me. From a young age, she prioritized my education, integrating music, arts, and culture into everyday activities. Her strength, complemented by her ability to surround herself with a village of strong women, has been crucial. These women exemplify strength and philanthropy, teaching me the importance of leadership and community service, especially when faced with personal challenges.
Internally, this absence created feelings of insecurity and abandonment, which made trusting others difficult. I often put up emotional barriers, fearing that those I let in might leave, just as my father did. The absence of a father figure affected my self-esteem and sense of identity. Without his guidance and affirmation, I struggled to understand my worth and place in the world. The lingering question of what kind of person I would have been if he was present is a thought that often crosses my mind.
School events, dance recitals and family gatherings were constant reminders of the void. This sense of isolation sometimes led me to shut myself off from the world, further aggravating my feelings of loneliness and exclusion. This was never something I wanted to discuss because of the humiliation.
Despite these challenges, I have achieved significant success. I was crowned Miss North Wildwood, the town where my father serves as a police officer. Academically, I maintain a 4.04 GPA and am a member of the National Honor Society. I actively participate in Student Council, serve as Captain of the cheer team, and perform as the National Anthem Vocalist. My commitment extends to dancing on a competitive dance team, working full-time in the summer, and volunteering in my community.
Being the first in my family to graduate from college, receiving this scholarship is crucial. It will help bridge the financial gap, allowing me to pursue my education and continue making meaningful contributions to society.
As I prepare for my future in psychology, I am motivated by the desire to support others, just as I have been supported by the remarkable people in my life. I hope to find my own village of strong women who uplift and encourage one another, embracing honesty, empathy, and kindness. This network will be vital as I navigate my academic journey and future career in psychology. Overcoming adversity has not only molded my aspirations but also reinforced my commitment to personal growth and community service.
Big Picture Scholarship
Room is a film that resonates deeply with me, not only because of its powerful storytelling but also because it reflects the kind of mother that my mother is. It is a story of resilience, unconditional love, and strength—qualities that mirror my own mother’s character and the bond we share.
In the film, the relationship between Jack and his mother exemplifies a profound bond rooted in love and sacrifice, and I see a similar dynamic in my relationship with my mother. She has always prioritized my well-being, putting my needs above her own, much like Ma did for Jack.
Our family dynamic was a bit different from the movie, as my parents were married, then divorced when I was two years old. It started as a split household. I would change houses weekly, but my father always had different priorities, spending time with his girlfriend at the time, or working while I was supposed to be spending time with him. This was until the age of seven, when my father completely cut me off and began a new family without me as a part of it. Not only did this affect me, it was heart-wrenching to watch my mom go through this. The guilt she carries, choosing a man like that to be the father of her child, who failed miserably, deeply upset me. The beauty through this storm was the relationship that I share with my mother. I couldn't imagine a life without her in it. She has been my constant since the first breath I took. Although I cannot rely on my father, I know that my mother will always stand by my side.
Internally, my father's absence created a feeling of insecurity and abandonment that I carried with me throughout my life. The unanswered questions about why he abandoned me and whether I was to blame often haunts me. This emotional turmoil made it difficult for me to trust others and form meaningful relationships. I often found myself putting up emotional barriers, afraid to let people in for fear they might leave, just as my father did. The absence of a father figure affected my self-esteem and sense of identity. Without his guidance and affirmation, I struggled to understand my worth and place in the world. The lingering question of what kind of person I would have been if he were present is a thought that often crosses my mind.
Room mirrors my feelings of confinement and the desire for freedom, both physically and emotionally. Just as Jack yearns to explore beyond the confines of the room, I also long to find my place in the world and to be free from the shadows of my past. The movie reminds me of the importance of resilience and hope, even in the darkest of times. It shows that with love, perseverance, and courage, one can overcome feelings of rejection and find their way to healing.
In conclusion, Room is more than just a film for me; it’s a reflection of my journey, my relationship with my mother, and the strength I find in her support. It reminds me that despite the hardships and the voids in my life, love and resilience can help me carve out my own space in this world. I aspire to major in psychology, helping others deal with their obstacles in life by leaning on their support system. I have learned to navigate the complicated obstacles of life with strength and grace, continually striving to overcome adversity and find the best version of myself, and I would love to help others do the same.
Children of Divorce: Lend Your Voices Scholarship
“If she could put the hollow ache that haunts her into words, she would tell him ‘I miss the father you never were.’ ”, a quote from John Mark Green. For as long as I can remember, a void occupied my head and heart. His absence was not just a person missing at the dinner table, but a never ending hole of understanding my own identity. As I get asked many times in my life, do you miss your father? My answer has always been no, but in reality, I miss the relationship I never had with my father. Growing up without my father in my life has impacted me in ways that continue to shape who I am today.
It started as a split household. I would change houses weekly, but my father always had different priorities, whether it was spending time with his girlfriend at the time, or working while I was supposed to be spending time with him. This was until the age of seven, when my father completely cut me off and began a new family without me as a part of it. Not only did this affect me, it was heart-wrenching to watch my mom go through this. The guilt she carries, choosing a man like that to be the father of her child who failed miserably, deeply upset me. The beauty through this storm was the relationship that I share with my mother. I couldn't imagine a life without her in it. She has been my constant since the first breath I took. Although I cannot rely on a father, I know that my mother will always stand by my side. This is something I am eternally grateful for.
Internally, my father's absence created a feeling of insecurity and abandonment that I carried with me throughout my life. The unanswered questions about why he abandoned me and whether I was to blame often haunts me. This emotional turmoil made it difficult for me to trust others and form meaningful relationships. I often found myself putting up emotional barriers, afraid to let people in for fear they might leave, just as my father did. The absence of a father figure affected my self-esteem and sense of identity. Without his guidance and affirmation, I struggled to understand my worth and place in the world. The lingering question of what kind of person I would have been if he was present is a thought that often crosses my mind.
Socially, growing up without a dad had its own set of challenges. I often felt different from my friends who had both parents involved in their lives. I always wondered what it was like to have family dinners, with both of your parents who loved each other, and a father who loved me. That is something that I will never get to experience. This provoked jealousy and animosity toward people who had their fathers. Why did I let his actions control my feelings, making me think negatively of the world? School events, dance recitals and family gatherings were constant reminders of the void. This sense of isolation sometimes led me to shut myself off from the world, further aggravating my feelings of loneliness and exclusion. This was never something I wanted to discuss because of the humiliation. Nobody in my life understood the pain I was enduring.
While the absence of my father has undoubtedly been a constant struggle in my life, it has also shaped me into a resilient and self-reliant individual. This journey has taught me empathy, understanding, and the importance of being present for those I care about. While it’s been a source of pain and struggle, it has also been a motive for growth and self-discovery. Through this experience, I have learned to navigate the complicated obstacles of life with strength and grace, continually striving to overcome adversity and find the best version of myself.