During my first year of wrestling for my high school team, I was partner'd with one of my now best friends. My partner had been wrestling for two years prior to being my partner and was and still is a great wrestler. At first I was a little wary as I had no experience, but I really warmed up to her and learned a lot from her. During that year, I was often put in the same weight class as her due to not a lot of 94 pound wrestlers—my weight class—so I often wrestled her. At first I was really nervous, since she wasn't just my teammate but my wrestling partner, someone who played a crucial role in me learning how to wrestle; but then, after my first loss against her, it really didn't matter to me. I actually look back at that moment with fondness because I fought, and never gave up. Although she had a major advantage over me not only in experience and weight, but in strength as well, but I pride myself in not getting pinned by her or anyone else for that matter. I have only gotten pinned two times, during my first ever match, and against the 2nd place finisher in the First Girls State Westling Championships during one of the last torments of my first season. When I wrestle I don't focus on winning, I focus on not getting pinned, and I take pride in the fact that during my two years of wrestling I have only gotten pinned twice, one because of inexperience, and the other because of lack of strength. My partner and I talk about it all the time,; how she could never pin me in a match, and I always smile because even when other people say that I can't beat her, or they say "good luck with that one" like they know I will lose, me and my partner know she can beat me but she will never pin me.
Now I am off to college to further pursue my wrestling career, and get a bachelor's degree in psychology. Wrestling has helped me find the will to continue presuming my goals in both my career and personal life. I have developed a drive to "just go for it" like my coach always taught me, "don't think just go for it". I was and still kind of am an overthinker, but with all that wrestling and my coaches have taught me I overthink less and I have become more confident too. Wrestling has helped me in a way i could not imagine, like giving me a healthy mindset, an outlet, and believe it or not, it helped me gain weight. Like I said before, during my first year of wrestling, I was in the 94 weight class. My actual weight was 96—although I wrestled 100 for most of the year—and my lack of weight was a concern to my family and my doctors. I did not intend to keep myself at a low weight, that is just how I was. I never ate a lot, and I have a fast metabolism, so I didn't really gain that much weight. So when I started wrestling, I developed more of an appetite—most likely because of all the exercise I was doing—and gained more weight. Now I weigh 103 and I have gotten stronger as well. Westling has done wonders for me physically and I am thrilled with the changes I see.