Leadership is an interesting word. It is one of those terms that has a very different meaning to each person. Sometimes, leadership is denoted by a title, like Varsity Captain of the cheerleading squad or Baby Cougar Chair of the Beta Club. Both of those labels were assigned to me during my time in high school, but the words next to a name do not completely define leadership in my eyes. I am extremely grateful for the opportunity to lead both of those organizations and for the patience, time management, and communication skills that I learned through those experiences. I know now how to work with all types of people, delegate and prioritize tasks, and take on responsibility when things aren't going as smoothly as I would like. However, those leadership titles were only relevant to my life during monthly meetings or seasonal games. I believe that leadership is a way of life, not just an occasional obligation.
The most important way that I practice leadership, in my opinion, is through daily, small-scale service to others. I live by the philosophy shared with my first-grade class many years ago: "It's better to have it and not need it than need it and not have it." I always try my best to be prepared and anticipate not only my own needs but those of the people I will be around. It honestly makes my day when I have the opportunity to make someone smile by helping them out in a pinch. If anyone on the bus to an away football game needed an extra pair of socks, a hair tie, a snack, homework help, or even a listening ear to let out some steam, I was their go-to even before I was awarded a varsity letter or the captain title. I believe that this preparedness and consideration, more than any particular tumbling skill or level of talent I may possess, inspired my teammates to elect me for a formal leadership position.
My high school's Beta Club chapter utilized a group of officers as the official organization leadership. During my junior year, I became the Baby Cougar Chair. Typically, this role consisted of making sure that supply drives and student reading buddy programs for the school daycare were running as they should. However, most of the activities typically overseen by the Chair ceased to exist during the COVID-19 pandemic, which coincided almost perfectly with my takeover of the role. Since I couldn't organize the normally large groups of student helpers and afternoon volunteers due to health and safety protocols, I took it upon myself to volunteer every morning before school and every time I had a free afternoon. Spending time with these children, whether it was reading to them and coming up with fun projects or simply helping to supervise their free play, was one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. Although I did not fill the traditional expectations of my particular leadership role, I feel that the patience, empathy, and responsibility I gained from caring for and being depended upon by a small group of 3-5 year-olds has been more valuable and inspirational to me than simple organization or supervision could have ever been.
As I head off to college, I hope to become a go-to person for my classmates and friends, someone they see as reliable and trustworthy. That is the definition of a leader in my eyes. After college, I aspire to become a registered dietician and help lead people to the food choices and systems that will allow them to be their happiest and healthiest selves.