Balancing school and family as a single mother has never been easy, but it has been one of the most meaningful challenges of my life. My journey through education has been full of restarts. I’ve gone back to school, stopped, and gone back again, each time with the same hope that I could build a better life for my children. There were moments when life felt too heavy between full-time work, parenting, and the emotional toll of doing it all alone but I never let go of my dream. My days are often a blur of work deadlines, homework assignments, and bedtime stories. There are nights when I study at the kitchen table while my kids sit beside me doing their own homework, all of us lost in quiet determination. I’ve learned that balance doesn’t mean having it all together it means doing your best with what you have. Some days I’m the student, other days I’m the mom cheering from the sidelines, and most days I’m both. One of the most unforgettable moments of my life was the day I graduated with my Certificate of Achievement in Paralegal Studies. As I walked across the stage, I saw my children in the crowd, standing and clapping with the biggest smiles on their faces. After the ceremony, they ran up to me, hugged me tight, and said, “Mom, we’re so proud of you.” In that moment, every sleepless night, every tear, and every sacrifice was worth it. That memory fuels me every day to keep going to finish what I started and to show them that no dream is too big when you refuse to give up. My father, who was born in Valparaíso, Zacatecas, Mexico, taught me the meaning of hard work and perseverance. Even as he battled kidney failure, he faced life with strength and gratitude. Losing him reminded me that life is precious and that education is something no one can ever take away. I carry his lessons with me every day, determined to honor his legacy by becoming the first in my family to earn a college degree and eventually attend law school. I’ve worked in the legal field for over fourteen years, and my goal is to become a lawyer so I can continue helping others find justice and hope. Education, to me, is not just about advancing my career it’s about creating stability for my family and proving to my children that no matter where you start, you can always rise higher. Receiving this scholarship would mean more than financial help it would mean opportunity. It would ease the burden of tuition and allow me to focus on my studies without sacrificing time with my children. It would bring me one step closer to achieving my degree and building the future my father dreamed of and my children deserve. My path hasn’t been perfect, but it’s full of love, strength, and purpose and with this scholarship, I can continue turning those lessons into a legacy.

Being a first-generation college student means carrying the dreams of those who came before me and creating a new path for those who will come after me. It means walking into rooms where no one in my family has been before, learning as I go, and refusing to give up no matter how many times I have to start over. My father was born in a small ranch town in Valparaíso, Zacatecas, Mexico. He came to the United States as a child and worked hard his entire life, even through years of battling kidney failure. Watching him fight every day with strength and humor taught me what perseverance really means. When he passed away, I felt a piece of me break but I also felt a fire light inside me. I promised myself I would keep going for him, for my children, and for the life he dreamed our family could have. My journey through school has been anything but easy. As a single mother, I’ve had to pause my education many times to take care of my family, pay bills, and simply keep us afloat. There were nights when I studied at the kitchen table after putting my kids to bed, tears falling on my notebook because I was so tired I didn’t know how I’d keep going. But every time I looked at my children, I remembered why I started. I want them to see that no matter how many times life pushes you down, you always get back up. Being a first-generation student means learning everything on your own — how to apply for financial aid, how to register for classes, and how to believe that you belong, even when doubt creeps in. There have been moments I felt like I was too old, too late, or too overwhelmed to finish. But deep down, I know I’m exactly where I’m supposed to be. I was meant to return to school later in life so that my kids could watch me do it. My dream is to continue working in the legal field and eventually attend law school. I’ve worked in this field for over fourteen years, and I’ve seen how many people need help navigating the justice system. I want to be that person who listens, who advocates, and who gives others the same hope I’ve fought to hold onto. This scholarship would mean more than financial relief, it would mean validation. It would mean that someone believes in me, in my story, and in my dream. It would allow me to focus on my studies without worrying about how to make ends meet. Being a first-generation student isn’t easy, but it’s worth every struggle. My journey hasn’t been perfect, but it’s filled with heart, persistence, and love and I’m determined to show my children that dreams don’t have deadlines, only purpose.

My journey through higher education has never been simple or straightforward. As a single mother, it’s been a road full of starts and stops, hope and heartbreak, determination and exhaustion. I’ve gone back to school more times than I can count. Each time, I began full of motivation, but life would get in the way; a sick child, financial struggles, health issues, or the emotional weight that came after my divorce. I would pause, regroup, and eventually find the strength to start again. For a long time, I felt ashamed that I couldn’t finish school “on time.” I watched others graduate while I was still balancing full-time work, motherhood, and everything in between. But with time, I realized that my story wasn’t one of failure, it was one of persistence. Every time I returned, I came back stronger, more focused, and more determined to show my children that dreams don’t have expiration dates. Being a single mom means wearing every hat at once: provider, nurturer, teacher, and protector. There were nights I’d put my kids to bed and then stay up studying until my eyes burned. There were mornings I’d get up before sunrise to get everyone ready and still show up to work with a smile. There were moments I felt like giving up completely. But when I looked at my children, I saw my reason to keep going. They were watching me and I wanted them to learn that no matter how many times life knocks you down, you can always rise again. My divorce and health challenges tested my strength in ways I never expected. There were days when even getting through work and parenting felt impossible, but those struggles taught me resilience and gratitude. I learned that it’s okay to start over and that progress is still progress, no matter how slow it feels. Returning to school has reshaped my values and renewed my sense of purpose. I’ve worked in the legal field for over fourteen years, and pursuing higher education has deepened my passion for justice. My goal is to attend law school and become a lawyer so I can help families and individuals who need a voice in the system. I want to use my experiences as a single mother, a survivor of hardship, and a woman who refused to give up, to make a difference. Receiving this scholarship would mean more than just financial help. It would lift a huge weight off my shoulders and allow me to focus more on studying and being present for my children. It would be a reminder that my efforts are seen and that others believe in my potential, even on the days I doubt myself. My journey hasn’t been perfect, but it’s real and full of challenges, restarts, and small victories. Every setback has built my strength, every restart has deepened my purpose, and every step forward brings me closer to the future I’m determined to create for myself and my children.

My life has not followed a straight or easy path, but every challenge I have faced has guided me toward my purpose. Going through a divorce, dealing with health issues, and raising my children as a single mother have tested my strength in ways I never expected. Yet through all of it, I discovered who I am, what I value, and where I want my life to go. These experiences have not only shaped my character but have also deepened my passion for the legal field and strengthened my commitment to one day becoming a lawyer. I have worked in the legal field for over 14 years, and it has become more than just a career, it is something I truly love. Over the years, I’ve seen how the law can protect people, restore fairness, and bring hope in moments of uncertainty. I’ve also seen how confusing and intimidating the legal system can be for those who don’t understand it. That is why I am determined to continue my education, attend law school, and become a lawyer. I want to use my experience and compassion to help others navigate difficult situations and ensure their voices are heard. When I went through my divorce, I had to rebuild every part of my life. I faced emotional pain, financial struggles, and the fear of starting over, all while being there for my children. During that time, I realized how important it is to have people who can guide and support you when you feel lost. My own experience reminded me why the work I do in the legal field matters so much because behind every case, there is a person who needs help. My health challenges have also taught me valuable lessons about perseverance and empathy. There were days when I felt weak or tired but had no choice but to keep going. Those moments taught me the importance of patience, both with myself and with others. They gave me a greater understanding of how people struggle silently, and how much kindness and understanding can mean in someone’s hardest moments. I am proud of the journey I’m on, even if it took me longer to get here. I used to feel like I was behind for returning to school later in life, but now I believe I was meant to do it this way so my children could see it happen. I want them to understand that it’s never too late to chase your dreams, and that education is something no one can take away. When they see me graduate and eventually become a lawyer, I hope they will remember that their mother never gave up, even when life was difficult. Every obstacle I’ve faced from divorce, illness, single motherhood and everything in between; it has made me more determined to succeed. My life experiences have taught me resilience, compassion, and dedication. They have inspired me to continue learning, growing, and using my skills to help others. Becoming a lawyer isn’t just my dream; it’s my way of turning my struggles into something meaningful that can make a difference in the lives of others.

I learned in life, that everyone needs that one person who just gets them someone who sticks around through the good, the bad, and the embarrassing. For me, that’s my best friend. From the moment we met, we clicked instantly. They didn’t care what I looked like, what mood I was in, or if I ate an entire pizza by myself (which, for the record, happened more than once). We were inseparable. Wherever I went, my best friend followed everywhere, literally. Privacy? Never heard of it. Bathroom trips became a team event. I’d close the door, and two seconds later there’d be scratching and whining until I let them in. I’d always say, “You really can’t give me two minutes?” But deep down, I didn’t mind. It’s hard to feel lonely when someone insists on sitting guard by your feet while you brush your teeth. Our mornings were our favorite time. We’d go on walks before the world got busy, just the two of us. They’d stop every five feet to check out something fascinating, a leaf, a rock, sometimes their own reflection, while I’d laugh and tell them to keep moving. They were curious about everything, and somehow, that made me start noticing the little things in life too. My best friend had the best sense of humor without even trying. They could make me laugh just by giving me that look, the one that said, “Are you seriously eating without me?” or “Yes, I absolutely deserve half your sandwich.” Movie nights were another adventure. I’d settle in with snacks, and within five minutes, they’d “accidentally” sit on the remote, or stare at me until I caved and shared my popcorn. They had their flaws, of course. Terrible listener. Horrible at keeping secrets. And when it came to personal space , forget it. But no one was better at making me feel loved. They were always there when I was sad, pressing close as if to say, I’ve got you. They didn’t need words just being near them made everything feel okay again. Then, this past June, I had to say goodbye. The house feels emptier now, the silence heavier. Sometimes I still catch myself expecting to hear the sound of tiny paws running to greet me at the door or that familiar thump as they flopped next to me on the couch. My best friend’s name was Pringles , my dog, my shadow, my favorite bathroom supervisor. He wasn’t just a pet; he was family. Pringles taught me about patience, unconditional love, and the importance of enjoying every moment (especially the ones that involve snacks). He reminded me that the best kind of friend doesn’t care about your flaws; they just love you anyway, with their whole goofy, loyal heart. Even though he’s gone, I still feel him everywhere. In my laughter, my memories, and every time I drop food on the floor. He may not have spoken a word, but he said more about love and friendship than anyone ever could. I miss you my best friend.

Growing up, my life was shaped by love, illness, and resilience. My father, who battled chronic illness for much of my childhood, was the emotional core of our family. Despite his health struggles, he always showed up for us with warmth and strength. But his illness placed enormous financial strain on our household. We lived with very little, and I began working at an early age—not for extra spending money, but to help keep our family afloat. In 2014, my father passed away. Losing him felt like losing the ground beneath my feet. I was overwhelmed by grief I didn’t know how to process. As much as I tried to hold everything together, my mental health began to unravel. Depression and anxiety became constant companions. I didn’t have the language or resources to understand what I was going through, and for years, I carried that pain in silence. I tried to move forward the best I could. I got married, started a family, and worked hard to build a life. But unresolved grief and emotional exhaustion lingered beneath the surface. Eventually, my marriage ended—a painful and difficult chapter, especially as a mother. Becoming a single parent forced me to face my reality head-on. I had two children looking to me for stability, strength, and love. I knew I couldn’t keep living in survival mode. I needed to heal, grow, and build a future—for them and for myself. That realization brought me back to education. Returning to school has been more than an academic journey—it’s been a personal transformation. It represents hope, purpose, and a new beginning. I’m currently finishing what I started years ago, my Associates in Paralegal Studies, from there I want to continue for my Bachelors in Psychology. For the first time in years, I feel like I’m moving toward something meaningful. Every class I take and every goal I set is a step toward rebuilding a life that is stable, fulfilling, and rooted in intention. I’m passionate about grief and mental health and I believe my experiences have shaped me to serve others with empathy and strength. I know what it’s like to feel invisible, overwhelmed, and stuck. I want to use my story to connect with others—especially women, mothers, and young people—who are trying to overcome adversity and create better futures for their families. Being a single mother while balancing school, work, and healing is not easy—but it’s worth it. My children are my greatest motivation. I want them to grow up knowing that it’s never too late to start over, and that strength isn’t about never falling—it’s about getting up every time you do. This scholarship would provide critical support not just for my education, but for the new life I’m working hard to build. I have fought to get here, through loss, financial struggle, mental health challenges, and personal heartbreak. And I’m not done yet. I’m not just starting over, I’m starting stronger, with a deeper sense of purpose, and a fierce commitment to building a better life for my children and myself. Education is my second chance, and I intend to make the most of it. While it has been rough the last few years, I would not change anything that has happened because without the challenges, I would not be who I am today.

My name is Melissa and I’m a single mother of two working hard to rebuild my life through education and made the decision to go back to school to build a better life for my family. After going through a difficult divorce and ongoing mental health challenges, I realized that the best way to move forward was to invest in myself—through education and personal growth. I have been in law for over 14 years, built a strong career and finally finishing my Associates in Paralegal studies. However, my heart leans towards a future goal of earning my degree in Psychology and begin a career in Grief counseling one day. I chose this path because I want a career where I can help others who may be facing struggles like I have in grief, after the loss of my Father. My long-term goal is to be in a position where I can provide stability for my kids, be a role model for them, and give back to my community by making a positive impact in people’s lives. Going back to school while raising two kids on my own has been one of the hardest things I’ve ever done. I balance parenting, coursework, and full-time job, all while managing my mental health and healing from the emotional toll of divorce. There are days when it feels overwhelming—but my goals keep me grounded. I want my children to see that it’s possible to rebuild, to grow, and to achieve something meaningful, no matter what challenges life throws at you. This scholarship would be a lifeline. It would ease the financial stress that comes with trying to manage tuition, books, childcare, and living expenses on a single income. More importantly, it would give me the space and stability to focus more on my studies and my healing, without constantly worrying about whether I can afford to continue my education. It would help me stay on track to graduate and reach my career goals sooner, so I can begin building the life my children and I deserve. I’m committed to finishing my degree and creating a future where I’m not just surviving, but thriving. With your support, I’ll be one step closer to that goal. This scholarship wouldn’t just help me financially—it would empower me to keep going, to keep growing, and to one day pay it forward by helping others do the same. Thank you for considering my application.

Mental health is something I didn’t fully understand until I had to face it myself. For a long time, I thought struggling mentally just meant feeling sad or tired. I didn’t know how deep it could go or how much it could affect every part of a person’s life, how they think, act, connect with others, and even how they see their future. My own journey with mental health started after I lost my father in 2014, but it has continued to shape the way I view the world, the people around me, and the goals I’ve made for my life. After my dad passed away, I was heartbroken. But as time went on, it became clear that I wasn’t just grieving, I was struggling with anxiety, depression, and emotional disconnection. I didn’t know how to talk about it. I didn’t have the words. Some days I felt numb. Other days, I felt everything all at once. What made it harder was that I didn’t know where to get help, or even that I could get help. Like many people, I thought I had to deal with everything on my own and just be "strong." As I began to learn more about mental health, I started to understand what was really happening inside me. I realized that grief had opened the door to deeper mental health issues that I had no tools to manage. And I wasn’t alone, statistics show that nearly **1 in 5 adults in the U.S. live with a mental illness**, and that **around 20% of people grieving a major loss develop clinical depression or anxiety within a year**. These numbers helped me feel less alone, and they also showed me how many people are suffering in silence. My experience with mental health has taught me that emotions don’t just go away. If you don’t deal with them, they build up. And when people don’t have access to support or information, they can end up making choices that hurt themselves or others, not because they’re bad people, but because they’re overwhelmed, lost, or untreated. That realization changed the way I see others. It made me more compassionate. I no longer see people’s behavior on the surface; I try to understand what’s going on underneath. This shift has affected my relationships in powerful ways. I’ve learned how to listen more deeply and without judgment. I understand how important it is to create space for people to be honest about what they’re feeling, even if it’s messy or uncomfortable. I’ve become someone friends and family turn to when they’re hurting, and I take that responsibility seriously. I believe everyone deserves someone who listens, who validates their emotions, and who reminds them that they’re not alone. Most importantly, my experience with mental health has shaped my career goals. I want to become a grief and mental health counselor so I can help people who are going through emotional pain, confusion, or trauma, just like I did. I want to work with individuals who feel lost and help them find healthy ways to cope. That might mean teaching them coping skills, helping them access resources, or just being someone who listens and understands. I want people to know that they don’t have to suffer in silence, and that healing is possible, even if it takes time. My personal mental health journey has also taught me resilience. There have been many times where I’ve felt discouraged or overwhelmed, whether by school, work, or life in general. But I’ve learned how to pause, take care of my mental health, and keep going. I now know that asking for help is not weakness, it’s strength. I’ve developed better coping strategies, built stronger support systems, and found ways to keep my father’s memory close while still moving forward with my life. His love still guides me, but it’s my own growth and mental wellness that allows me to keep building a future. I also want to help break the stigma around mental health, especially in communities where talking about emotions is still seen as a sign of weakness. Too many people feel ashamed of their mental health struggles. I want to use my voice and my future career to remind others that they are not alone, and that there is no shame in needing support. I believe we all deserve the tools and resources to care for our mental well-being, just like we do our physical health. In the end, my experiences have given me a strong sense of purpose. I want to help others heal, just as I’ve been learning to heal myself. I want to be a light for people in their darkest moments and show them that with support, patience, and love, they can find their way again. Mental health is not just something I’ve studied—it’s something I’ve lived through. And that lived experience is what drives me to make a difference in the lives of others.

One of the major issues facing the criminal justice system today is the cycle of re-incarceration and the lack of resources available to help people break free from it. Through my work at the Superior Court of California, I have seen firsthand how people are released from custody only to return again not because they want to break the law, but because they don’t know where to go or what to do once they’re out. Many are let back into society without a clear plan, job, stable housing, or access to mental health or substance abuse support. With no guidance or structure, they often reoffend just to survive, and the cycle continues. This revolving door of incarceration is heartbreaking and frustrating to witness. I’ve seen individuals return to courtrooms multiple times for similar offenses, small probation violations, theft, or substance-related crimes. Often, these are people who simply needed a second chance and real support. The criminal justice system punishes, but it does very little to prepare people for successful reentry into the community. This is where I want to make a difference. In my future career, I hope to focus on helping individuals transition out of incarceration successfully by connecting them with resources, legal guidance, and emotional support. A key part of my foundation has come through my volunteer work preparing legal documents for low-income individuals and minorities. Many of the people I have worked with were navigating difficult legal issues such as eviction, custody, or immigration while also dealing with poverty, language barriers, or trauma. By helping them fill out forms, explaining the legal process in plain language, and simply being present and respectful, I saw how much of a difference it made. That work fueled my commitment to serving people who are often overlooked by the legal system. In addition to volunteering, I’ve also taken steps to build my professional qualifications. I earned a Certificate of Achievement in Paralegal Studies, which gave me a strong foundation in legal research, procedures, and ethics. I am currently continuing my education to complete my Associate’s Degree in Paralegal Studies. My education, combined with my real-world experience in the court system, has shaped my understanding of the justice system’s flaws and the need for systemic change. It has also prepared me with the tools to contribute to that change, through legal support, advocacy, and compassion. These experiences have shown me how important it is not just to punish crime, but to understand the root causes behind it. Many people who return to jail or prison struggle with untreated mental health conditions, addiction, homelessness, or lack of education. I want to work in a role where I can help people navigate life after incarceration whether that’s through reentry programs, legal aid, or counseling and prevent them from returning to a life that led them into the justice system in the first place. The justice system cannot be effective if it only focuses on punishment. It needs to provide people with real tools to rebuild their lives. That includes access to jobs, education, housing, and mental health care. Through my court experience, volunteer work, and education, I have developed a strong understanding of how the system fails people and how it can be improved. I believe that change starts with people who are willing to do the hard work, to listen without judgment, and to advocate for those who have been forgotten. In my future career, I hope to serve as that advocate. Whether it’s helping someone with legal documents, walking them through the court process, or supporting them as they reenter society, I want to be someone who helps break cycles, not repeat them. My goal is to help build a justice system that offers fairness, opportunity, and hope to everyone, especially those who’ve been stuck in the cycle for far too long.

I am pursuing a degree in the mental health field because I want to help people who are struggling, especially with grief and the mental health challenges that often come with it. Grief is something that almost everyone experiences at some point in their life, whether it’s losing a loved one, a job, or even a sense of normal life after a big change. These losses can lead to deep sadness, anxiety, or even depression, and it’s important that people don’t feel like they have to go through it alone. My passion for this work comes from my own experience. In 2014, I lost my father, and it completely changed my life. I was overwhelmed with pain, confusion, and sadness. At the time, I didn’t really understand how grief could affect my mental health so deeply. I struggled with depression, anxiety, and a sense of being lost. What made it even harder was not knowing where to go for help or even how to ask for it. I felt like I had to deal with it on my own, and that made everything feel heavier. That time in my life showed me how much people need support, especially when they’re going through deep loss. Grief and mental health are closely connected. According to the American Psychological Association, nearly **1 in 5 people who experience the loss of a loved one develop major depression or another mental health condition within the first year**. That number is high, and it shows how powerful grief can be. It doesn’t just hurt emotionally, it can affect sleep, appetite, motivation, relationships, and the ability to function day to day. When people don’t get support, they can fall deeper into mental health struggles without even realizing it. I want to become a grief and mental health counselor so I can be there for people when they feel like I once did, lost, overwhelmed, and unsure of how to move forward. My goal is to create a safe, welcoming space where people feel heard and understood. I want to teach healthy ways to cope, like talking about your feelings, using breathing or grounding exercises, journaling, setting boundaries, and finding small moments of peace again. Everyone grieves in their own way, and healing doesn’t happen overnight. But with patience, compassion, and the right tools, I believe people can find their way through it. I want to walk beside them and remind them they’re not alone. I also want to break the stigma around grief and mental health. Too often, people are told to “stay strong” or “move on,” but that can make them feel even worse. I want people to know it’s okay to ask for help because it’s not a sign of weakness, but of courage. In the future, I hope to work in community programs, schools, or counseling centers where I can help others who are struggling with loss and emotional pain. My goal is to make sure no one has to go through what I went through without support. By sharing my story and offering understanding, I hope to help others heal and find hope again.

Being a first-generation immigrant and the first in my family to go to college has shaped the way I see the world and my place in it. My late father was born in a small ranch town called Valparaíso in Zacatecas, Mexico. He didn’t have the chance to go far in school, but he always believed that education could open doors. He worked hard every day so that I could have the opportunities he never did. Growing up, I saw how much my parents gave up so I could succeed. Their stories, sacrifices, and love taught me to value hard work, to never take things for granted, and to always keep going, even when things feel tough. I carry my culture with pride, and I also know that I’m creating a new path for myself and for those who come after me. Going to college is not just about getting a degree. It means honoring my family’s dreams. It means using the lessons I’ve learned from my background (like being humble, strong, and caring) to make a difference. I want to show others from similar backgrounds that we belong in these spaces too. My father’s memory gives me strength. His journey from a small town in Mexico to raising a child who now attends college reminds me that I am part of something bigger. I walk through life knowing that my success is not just mine, it’s also his.

Books have helped shape who I am and the path I’m walking today. One of the books that sticks with me to this day is "Tuesdays with Morrie" by Mitch Albom. His book taught me the importance of love, forgiveness, and making the most of the time we have. They reminded me that it’s never too late to reconnect with our true selves or with the people who matter most. These stories helped me see that even in loss or struggle, there’s room for healing and growth. Reading Untamed by Glennon Doyle changed my life. It made me realize that I still had goals, dreams, and a strong identity—even after becoming a mom. For a long time, I forgot who I was. I was stuck in a marriage that was unhealthy and damaging to my mental health. That book gave me the courage to walk away from a situation that was holding me back and to believe in the power of starting over. I began rebuilding my life, not just for me, but for my children. I want them to grow up seeing a mother who values her well-being and lives with purpose. Right now, I’m going to school part-time while raising my kids and working. It’s a lot, but I’m doing it with a purpose. The Alchemist by Paulo Coelho also deeply moved me. It taught me that we all have a “Personal Legend,” or a purpose in life. I realized that my journey, with all of its challenges, is leading me to something greater. Even the pain has played a part in helping me grow stronger, more compassionate, and more determined. Living with anxiety and depression hasn’t been easy. For a long time, I carried those struggles silently. But through therapy and support, I’ve learned to understand my emotions and take care of my mental health. That experience changed how I see others, too. I’ve become more open, patient, and kind. I’ve also realized how important it is to speak up and create safe spaces where people feel seen and supported. Because of my journey, I want to receive my bachelors degree in psychology in the hopes that I can get a part time position or side job in helping people who are going through tough times—especially single parents, those struggling with grief and loss, and those who feel invisible or unheard. I believe mental health care should be available to everyone, not just those who can afford it. I want to work in communities that are often overlooked, offering counseling and support that meets people where they are. Through books, I’ve found wisdom. Through hardship, I’ve found strength. And through it all, I’ve found a deep desire to make the world a kinder, more understanding place. I’m not just chasing a dream or a career—I’m answering a calling.

One of my greatest achievements to date is earning my Certificates of Achievement in Paralegal Studies and having the honor of being chosen as the keynote speaker for the graduating class of 2023. This accomplishment holds a very deep meaning for me not just because I had the honor of speaking in front of my peers, but because of everything it took to get there. Starting from high school, where an assistant principal told me that I could not be a speaker because other students were "more deserving". Little did that Assistant Principal know the hardships I had been facing. Now, having been honored in 2023 as speaker, I wasn’t just a student. I was a full-time employee, a full-time mom, and someone navigating mental health struggles. Life didn’t slow down to make space for my goals—I had to push through, stay up late doing homework on Fridays, and keep going even when things felt overwhelming. Balancing school, work, parenting, and my own mental well-being was far from easy. There were days when I questioned whether I could really do it, days I felt like giving up. But with each class I passed, each paper I submitted, and every time I showed up even when I didn’t feel like it—I proved to myself that I could, all while my children watched. Being selected as the keynote speaker felt like a full-circle moment. I wasn’t just crossing a stage to receive a certificate—I was standing as proof that determination, perseverance, ambition and hard work can lead you through even the toughest seasons. The entire life experience taught me more about myself than any textbook ever could. I learned that I’m resilient—that I can carry heavy responsibilities and still make room for my dreams. I learned how to ask for help, how to take breaks when I needed to for my own mental health, and how to keep moving forward even when progress felt slow. Most importantly, I learned that I’m capable and the only one in charge of creating change not only in my own life, but in the lives of my children and others that depend on me. That belief has stayed with me and continues to guide the path I’m walking today along with the memory and advice of my late father, Mitch. Looking to the future now, I see things bright. I hope to continue build on this foundation I built with my children by earning my bachelor’s degree in psychology. My ultimate goal is to work where I can help others—especially mothers, like me—recognize their own strength and achieve their goals. I want to create space for women like me who may feel stuck, overwhelmed, scared or unsure of where to start. I’ve lived through those feelings, and I know how isolating they can be. I also know how powerful it is those little eyes and voices believe in you—and say, “you can do this, Mom,” Pursuing a career in psychology is not just about gaining more education—it’s about turning my experiences into a tool for empowerment and a way to give back. I want to be the voice that reminds someone they’re not alone. I want to help all people, especially moms who feel like they’ve lost themselves in the chaos of everyday life rediscover who they are and what they’re capable of. I believe that mental health is just as important as any other part of our lives, and I want to be part of the solution—offering compassion, understanding, support and a little humor to those who need it most. Earning my paralegal certificates was just the beginning. It showed me what’s possible when I believe in myself and stay committed, no matter how hard things get. Now, I’m ready to take the next step—not just for my future, but so I can help others build theirs too.

As someone who values personal growth and achievement, I find accountability to be a cornerstone of my journey towards success. I firmly believe that setting clear goals and holding myself responsible for achieving them is essential not only for professional advancement but also for personal fulfillment. To hold myself accountable, I often outline short-term and long-term goals that align with my aspirations. These goals serve as guiding stars, keeping me focused and driven amidst life's inevitable challenges and distractions. Beyond setting goals, I cultivate a strong sense of accountability by regularly reviewing my progress. I journal my progress of milestones achieved and setbacks encountered, allowing me to reflect on areas where improvement is needed. This reflective practice not only keeps me on track but also helps me keep a mindset of continuous learning. Moreover, I prioritize self-care as a crucial part of maintaining accountability and overall well-being. Recognizing that mental health is important to success, I make effort to nurture my mind and spirit. This involves carving out time for activities that replenish my energy and focus. One of my primary sources of rejuvenation is reconnecting with my "why" — the profound reasons behind my endeavors. Reminding myself of the impact my achievements have on my life and the lives of those I care about instills a renewed sense of purpose and motivation. Furthermore, as a newly single parent, my children serve as my greatest inspiration and motivation. Their unwavering support and belief in my aspirations drive me to push beyond my limits and strive for excellence. I find solace in their presence, and their unconditional. They are my reminders of my need to hold myself accountable, succeed and be an example to them, especially my daughter. Together, my children and I make vision boards and set goals together. Another important part of my self-care regimen is integrating music into my daily routine. I listen to uplifting tunes of the late, Prince, that resonate with my soul. Music has a transformative effect on my mood, serving as a powerful tool for relaxation and rejuvenation. Additionally, I find joy in dancing to the rhythm of life. Prince once said: "But as long as the music is playing, you’ve got to get up and dance.” Movement not only helps my physical well-being but also uplifts my spirits and ignites my creativity. Whether I'm dancing alone in my living room or being silly with my children, the movement of dancing to good music energizes me and fosters a sense of well being. In essence, holding myself accountable and prioritizing self-care are integral to my personal and professional success. By setting clear goals, reflecting on my progress, nurturing my mental health, reconnecting with my "why," cherishing moments with my children, and embracing the therapeutic power of music and dance, I do my best to maintain a balanced and fulfilling life. By consistently investing in these practices, I am empowered to overcome challenges, pursue my passions with unwavering determination, and celebrate the milestones that mark my journey towards becoming the best version of myself.

Ruffles wasn’t just a dog; he was my unwavering source of comfort and support during some of the toughest moments of my life. His presence transcended that of a typical pet—he was my confidant, my protector, and my best friend. When my father passed away in 2014, the world seemed to stop. The grief was overwhelming, but Ruffles was there, offering a silent understanding that brought solace like no words could. He would nuzzle up beside me, his warm presence a comforting reminder that I wasn’t alone in my sorrow. I still remember those nights when I would lie awake, tears streaming down my face, and Ruffles would curl up beside me and try and licking the never ending stream of tears coming down my face. His companionship became a beacon of hope during those dark days, a reminder that love endures even in the face of loss. Beyond emotional support, Ruffles had an uncanny ability to sense when something wasn’t right. During my migraines episodes, Ruffles would gently lick my head as if to offer his own form of healing. His presence brought a calmness that eased the throbbing ache, turning moments of pain into moments of comfort. He always showed he cared. As life moved forward, Ruffles continued to be by my side through every milestone. When I welcomed my first child into the world, Ruffles embraced the new addition to our family with the same loyalty and affection he had shown me. He would watch over the baby with a protective gaze, as if he understood the newfound responsibility that parenthood brought. Ruffles taught me about the enduring power of companionship and the unconditional love that transcends words. His loyalty and unwavering support shaped my understanding of what it means to be there for someone in both joy and sorrow. His presence was a constant reminder that no matter how challenging life became, I could always find strength in the bond we shared. His passing in April 2016 left a void that words cannot fully capture. The ache of his absence is tempered only by the countless memories we created together and the profound impact he had on my life. Ruffles taught me about resilience, empathy, and the importance of cherishing every moment with those we love. Ruffles wasn’t just my dog; he was my best friend, my guardian angel, and my silent supporter through life’s most challenging moments. His memory lives on in the lessons he taught me about love, loyalty, and the power of a bond that transcends words. I am forever grateful for the gift of his friendship and the profound impact he had on my life. Ruffles will always be my best friend.

My experience with mental health profoundly shaped my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world. Having been diagnosed with Depression and anxiety, stemming from the profound Grief of the loss of my father, and the unspoken topic of Maternal mental health (Post Partum Depression). Due to me having faced these mental health challenges to this day, I learned to naturally develop a keen awareness of the importance of well-being and self-care, which has greatly influenced my life goals and outlook on life itself. This level of empathy and awareness has driven me to pursue my dreams of helping others with their mental health journey- especially those struggling with severe grief and bereavement. While I continue to work in law, ultimately, I want to fulfil my true passion at heart by using my own personal experiences to support others. I have learned to set goals that prioritize balance, self-compassion, and resilience, because these very important elements are crucial for maintaining mental health and overall happiness. In my relationships with people, I feel that I have a deep understanding of mental health that has helped create a new and deepened understanding of empathy, patience, effective communication, and the ability to listen. Due to my own struggle with mental health for 7+ years, I feel that I have learned (and continue learning) how to navigate my mental health journey. I feel much more attuned to the emotional needs of others and how to approach conversations. I have also learned to appreciate the importance of being supportive and understanding to others and their mental health needs. This empathy that has grown on me, extends beyond personal relationships, it influences how I interact with colleagues, acquaintances, and even strangers, sticking to my belief that you never know what kind of battle people are fighting every day, so be kind. I have also begun teaching my own children the important of their own mental health and how it is okay to ask for help. Experiencing mental health issues has deepened my understanding of not just my own, but other human behavior and emotions. I have learned that there is much stigma which has revealed the complexities and nuances of mental health, and how to overcome challenging and stigmatizing views. I have learned to speak up be and advocate for others and myself to reduce stigma and increase awareness about access to mental health resources, recognizing that mental health is an important thing to take care of for our overall well-being. My understanding of the world has truly deepened and has become more nuanced and compassionate, recognizing every minute of every day, that that many people face invisible struggles. Having this perspective has inspired all my efforts to promote mental health awareness and create environments where mental health is prioritized and supported. In the end, my personal experience with mental health significantly shaped my individual goals, all my relationships, and overall worldview. The experiences I have encountered may have taken me for the rollercoaster of a lifetime but has also led me to focus on my own self-care and goals, given me the ability to have deeper empathy and understanding in relationships, and inspire advocacy for mental health awareness and support. This new view of mental health has given me a tremendous understanding of the importance of integrating mental health into all aspects of life, with the overall goal to be more compassionate and kinder to others and be more inclusive of those battling mental health, in our society.

My mental health is important to me because it has profoundly shaped my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world. Having been diagnosed with Depression and anxiety, stemming from the profound Grief of the loss of my father, and the unspoken topic of Maternal mental health (Post Partum Depression). Due to me having faced these mental health challenges to this day, I learned to naturally develop a keen awareness of the importance of well-being and self-care, which has greatly influenced my life goals and outlook on life itself. This level of empathy and awareness has driven me to pursue my dreams of helping others with their mental health journey- especially those struggling with severe grief and bereavement. While I continue to work in law, ultimately, I want to fulfil my true passion at heart by using my own personal experiences to support others. I have learned to set goals that prioritize balance, self-compassion, and resilience, because these very important elements are crucial for maintaining mental health and overall happiness. Experiencing mental health issues has deepened my understanding of not just my own, but other human behavior and emotions. I have learned that there is much stigma which has revealed the complexities and nuances of mental health, and how to overcome challenging and stigmatizing views. I have learned to speak up be and advocate for others and myself to reduce stigma and increase awareness about access to mental health resources, recognizing that mental health is an important thing to take care of for our overall well-being. My understanding of the world has truly deepened and has become more nuanced and compassionate, recognizing every minute of every day, that that many people face invisible struggles. Having this perspective has inspired all my efforts to promote mental health awareness and create environments where mental health is prioritized and supported. In the end, my personal experience with mental health significantly shaped my individual goals, all my relationships, and overall worldview. The experiences I have encountered may have taken me for the rollercoaster of a lifetime but has also led me to focus on my own self-care and goals, given me the ability to have deeper empathy and understanding in relationships, and inspire advocacy for mental health awareness and support. This new view of mental health has given me a tremendous understanding of the importance of integrating mental health into all aspects of life, with the overall goal to be more compassionate and kinder to others and be more inclusive of those battling mental health, in our society. I raise awareness by discussing mental health with others and supporting NAMI (National Alliance of Mental Illness) by raising funds for our local NAMI walk.

I believe that my mental health is important because it has profoundly shaped my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world. Having been diagnosed with Depression and anxiety, stemming from the profound Grief of the loss of my father, and the unspoken topic of Maternal mental health (Post Partum Depression). Due to me having faced these mental health challenges to this day, I learned to naturally develop a keen awareness of the importance of well-being and self-care, which has greatly influenced my life goals and outlook on life itself. This level of empathy and awareness has driven me to pursue my dreams of helping others with their mental health journey- especially those struggling with severe grief and bereavement. One day, I want to fulfil my true passion at heart by using my own personal experiences to support others. I have learned to set goals that prioritize balance, self-compassion, and resilience, because these very important elements are crucial for maintaining mental health and overall happiness. Due to my own struggle with mental health for 7+ years, I feel that I have learned (and continue learning) how to navigate my mental health journey. I feel much more attuned to the emotional needs of others and how to approach conversations. I have also learned to appreciate the importance of being supportive and understanding to others and their mental health needs. I maintain my mental wellness by practicing self care through reading, mediation, yoga, hiking and unplugging from technology and social media. I aim to do physical activity of at least 30 minutes of walking and taking the time to put my phone away to interact with my children and just talk. I attend therapy which is extremely important and make sure to have someone that I trust that I can open up to and talk. I celebrate the "little wins" and give myself small attainable goals. In the end, my personal experience with mental health significantly shaped my individual goals, all my relationships, and overall worldview. I've learned the important of self care and mental wellness for myself and teaching others. The experiences I have encountered may have taken me for the rollercoaster of a lifetime but has also led me to focus on my own self-care and goals, given me the ability to have deeper empathy and understanding in relationships, and inspire advocacy for mental health awareness and support. This new view of mental health has given me a tremendous understanding of the importance of integrating mental health into all aspects of life, with the overall goal to be more compassionate and kind to others and be more inclusive of those battling mental health, in our society.

My experience with mental health profoundly shaped my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world. Having been diagnosed with Depression and anxiety, stemming from the profound Grief of the loss of my father, and the unspoken topic of Maternal mental health (Post Partum Depression). Due to me having faced these mental health challenges to this day, I learned to naturally develop a keen awareness of the importance of well-being and self-care, which has greatly influenced my life goals and outlook on life itself. This level of empathy and awareness has driven me to pursue my dreams of helping others with their mental health journey- especially those struggling with severe grief and bereavement. While I continue to work in law, ultimately, I want to fulfil my true passion at heart by using my own personal experiences to support others. I have learned to set goals that prioritize balance, self-compassion, and resilience, because these very important elements are crucial for maintaining mental health and overall happiness. In my relationships with people, I feel that I have a deep understanding of mental health that has helped create a new and deepened understanding of empathy, patience, effective communication, and the ability to listen. Due to my own struggle with mental health for 7+ years, I feel that I have learned (and continue learning) how to navigate my mental health journey. I feel much more attuned to the emotional needs of others and how to approach conversations. I have also learned to appreciate the importance of being supportive and understanding to others and their mental health needs. This empathy that has grown on me, extends beyond personal relationships, it influences how I interact with colleagues, acquaintances, and even strangers, sticking to my belief that you never know what kind of battle people are fighting every day, so be kind. I have also begun teaching my own children the important of their own mental health and how it is okay to ask for help. Experiencing mental health issues has deepened my understanding of not just my own, but other human behavior and emotions. I have learned that there is much stigma which has revealed the complexities and nuances of mental health, and how to overcome challenging and stigmatizing views. I have learned to speak up be and advocate for others and myself to reduce stigma and increase awareness about access to mental health resources, recognizing that mental health is an important thing to take care of for our overall well-being. My understanding of the world has truly deepened and has become more nuanced and compassionate, recognizing every minute of every day, that that many people face invisible struggles. Having this perspective has inspired all my efforts to promote mental health awareness and create environments where mental health is prioritized and supported. In the end, my personal experience with mental health significantly shaped my individual goals, all my relationships, and overall worldview. The experiences I have encountered may have taken me for the rollercoaster of a lifetime but has also led me to focus on my own self-care and goals, given me the ability to have deeper empathy and understanding in relationships, and inspire advocacy for mental health awareness and support. This new view of mental health has given me a tremendous understanding of the importance of integrating mental health into all aspects of life, with the overall goal to be more compassionate and kind to others and be more inclusive of those battling mental health, in our society.