Last year, I wrote this essay about my father Eric Edder, who has always been and always will be one of the most influential and important people in my life. This year, however, I would like to talk about his best friend, a man who everyone knew to be a goofy, fun-loving, and wonderful person. Through our shared love of Jane Austin and Earl Gray tea, he always played a huge part in my life. Brian Kapustik, better known as “Kapoo'' passed away in December 2022, leaving behind a legacy that will not soon be forgotten. He worked at an all-boys school teaching English and heading the drama program, celebrating his admiration for theater and encouraging young minds to try the arts. For years, I looked up to him as he unapologetically showed people how to have fun in their own way, whether that be through role-playing games like Dungeons and Dragons, exploring new books, or enjoying a new movie. I saw this especially as he made my father laugh after an especially stressful day at work. Kapoo always made the best out of every situation and he encouraged others to do the same. He had always held a special place in my heart because of how happy he made my dad, but I also felt I had a certain connection with him. When I was little I only drank Earl Gray tea, which just happened to be the tea that Kapoo drank as well. Little did I know how meaningful such a small detail as calling him my tea buddy would mean to me. At my graduation party this summer, Kapoo's wife, Chantel, arrived with a present for me. When I opened the gift, my parents and I were left in tears. Kapoo had stumbled upon a website before he passed away that merged tea and D&D. When Chantel was going through Kapoo's things after he died, she found the website and ordered some tea so I could have a gift from him even though he was no longer with us. I had never realized that Kapoo kept his tea buddy in the back of his mind and it made me feel so much love and regard for the man that always kept a smile on my family’s faces. He was the most thoughtful and considerate person that I have had the pleasure of knowing, and I am certain others feel the same. I saw this specifically at Kapoo’s memorial service. Everyone who knew him understood that he would not have wanted a traditional service, but rather a performance to commemorate his time in the school's theater where he worked…it also happened to be the place where he proposed and married his wife. During the performance, close friends of Kapoo were asked to perform something that honored him, a portion of a play or on-stage stories about how Kapoo had impacted their lives. By the end of the memorial, there was so much love running through the room, and I realized that Kapoo would always be there encouraging my family and me as he always had. I see now, every time I open a new book or play a board game that Kapoor had influenced me in a way that I will never forget and I am so grateful I had as much time with him as I did. Everyone who knew Kapoo knows how wonderful and angelic this man was, and while he had never had biological children, he was the father of so many of his students and a role model for many others, myself included.