"You got a dream, you gotta protect it...You want something? Go get it." -Chris Gardner, The Pursuit of Happyness
During my Junior year of high school, my film studies teacher announced that we were going to watch a movie called "The Pursuit of Happyness." I expected an inspiring story about perseverance or whatnot, the kind of movie that makes you feel inspired for a couple of hours, then simply fades into memory.
It didn't fade.
The film follows Christopher Gardner, a father who, after being left by his wife, was evicted from his apartment and left homeless with his young son. He lands an unpaid internship at a brokerage firm, hoping to improve his life, despite a 1 in 20 chance that he'll land a full-time position. Chris and his son go through many hardships - sleeping in shelters, subway bathrooms, and Chris studies endlessly wherever and whenever he can. Every moment of survival requires sacrifice. Every step forward costs something.
Most people say the film is about determination, but for me, the main lesson I took away from it was empathy.
One scene never left me. Chris's boss at the brokerage firm asks to borrow 5 dollars to pay for a cab. Chris looks in his wallet, and 5 dollars is all the money he has. Chris hesitates to give up his money, but the boss insists. To the boss or anyone else, it's just 5 dollars, but to Chris, it was all he had to feed his son or help them survive another night. This scene revealed to me how easily we misunderstand the weight of someone else's reality. How 5 dollars can be pocket change to one person, and a lifeline to another.
After watching the film, I couldn't stop thinking about the quiet struggles happening around me. Most of which I had never truly seen. Not because they were invisible, but because I didn't care enough to look.
Soon after, I began volunteering at a local food bank. I expected to hand out groceries and go home. Instead, I was allowed to connect to my community in a way I never had before. Parents were calculating how to stretch meals for their children, elderly were choosing between medication and food. Individuals who carried dignity, resiliency, and dreams far bigger than the circumstances they were living in.
I believe that most people are not failing-they are fighting. The world is full of people doing the best they can. Most people wake up, and despite all the struggles they're facing, they keep pushing forward, try to take care of those they love, and hold hope in their hearts.
I think if I hadn't seen that movie, they might've just been a blur of people, but I understood that this wasn't just a group of people; it was individuals. Lives. Stories. Experiences.
I'm grateful I saw that movie that day because it reshaped how I understand humanity. It made me feel responsible to notice, to care, and to act.
That sense of responsibility is why I volunteer in my community. It's why I've chosen Public Health as my major. I want to help communities gain access to proper hygiene, health education, and disease prevention. These resources aren't only essential, but also allow people the opportunity to live with dignity.
Empathy is not just understanding someone's struggle. It's choosing to do something about it. That film taught me to truly see people, not just their struggles, but them as individuals with dreams, families, people they care about, and unique experiences. Once you learn to see, you can never look away.