My life path shifted dramatically when I became a mother right after graduating from high school. I had the grades, I had the acceptance letters, but I did not have the support I needed to pursue a college education. In my family, college was not something you pursued if you had children. It was a crazy dream, not a plan, so I went to work. I joined the retail industry and climbed the ranks quickly at the shoe store I worked in. I felt pride in providing for my daughter, but I also felt as if something was missing. I craved a spark that I first experienced in my childhood. That spark was curiosity.
When I was a kid, my parents had a rule: I had to read the encyclopedia for an hour before I could go outside and play. At first, I did it just to earn my playtime, but I eventually started looking forward to those moments of discovery. I did not know what STEM was back then, but I knew I loved learning how things worked. That curiosity never left me, even when life got complicated and I became a mother.
As a shoe store manager, I had to work closely with performance brands like Nike and Adidas and learn about the development of their shoes. But my curiosity got the best of me. I started asking deeper questions: How do materials affect comfort? Performance? Sustainability? That curiosity turned into a new dream—I did not want to sell shoes anymore. I wanted to be the person behind the science; I wanted to be an engineer.
I enrolled at Southwestern College and eventually transferred to the University of San Diego, where I am now pursuing a degree in mechanical engineering with a minor in physics. Since then, I’ve 3D-printed my own designs, worked with biomaterials, and traveled internationally to conduct research in Mexico and Chile. My journey has not been easy; I carry responsibilities my peers often do not. While many students spend their evenings studying, I spend mine doing Instacart deliveries to cover expenses. When I get home, I help my daughter with her homework and do not start my own studying until she has fallen asleep. Sometimes, something as small as paying for a doctor’s note means not having enough money to cover my gas expenses to get to campus. Still, my resilience keeps me going. Each experience reaffirmed that I belong in STEM, not just because of my skills, but because of my values and passion. Curiosity led me to STEM; resilience has been my fuel to keep going, and equity is what motivates me to achieve my long-term goals.
My goals include working in a research and development lab focused on biomaterials and sustainability, helping build a circular bioeconomy that reduces waste and improves lives, and pursuing a PhD in Materials Science Engineering. But my ultimate goal is to return to the community college where I began as a professor. I want to promote equity in STEM and support students like me: older, working-class, first-generation, and full of potential. Eventually, I hope to create a scholarship fund for students like me—those who do not fit the traditional mold but show up anyway. Because dreams should not come with a price tag, and no one should feel like they do not belong in science because of where they started.