“Hey Stephanie, can you grab somethi- " My grandpa paused as he realized he called me by my mother’s name. My mom and I are incredibly similar, even in how we walk and talk. He constantly gets us mixed up, and every time, I smile.
I remember watching TV alongside my grandpa, waiting to hear her keys unlock the front door. At the time, I didn’t understand why she came home so late. As I aged, I learned she went to school, worked full-time, and raised a toddler. She drove to Denver every morning, went to school, and then worked nights at a restaurant in town. After she graduated, she bought our first home. Even though she had to budget intently and work long hours, the childhood I had never suffered. Although she worked often, she gave me the ability to be creative, silly, and just be a kid. She pursued Veterinary Medicine and became a technician at a local clinic. Soon enough, she moved to Specialty Internal Medicine and found her passion.
In middle school, I started visiting her work. Learning from the doctors about medical terminology and the meaning behind the diagnosis, and watching surgeries sparked something within me. My mom would sit at dinner and tell us about her day after work. She would talk to me about some of the cases she saw. Some of them were grotesque, though I learned about how my mom aided in the patient’s recovery. She would also teach me the correct terminology, certain IV fluids, and how to centrifuge blood. You name it, we talked about it. Our talks made me think about how I wanted to help patients someday. I will never forget the tense atmosphere in the ICU. Machines are beeping, Techs are talking, dogs are barking, and I look over to see my mom, calm, comforting her patients. Seeing her hard work as a full-time Technician and single parent motivates me every day to try my best and help others, whether they be humans or animals. Although medicine is fascinating, I doubt my interest would be as strong without my mom’s example.
My mom’s story taught me that regardless of the situation, you overcome hardships and follow your passion. I also learned to be inquisitive, “Why does this happen?” “What can I do to find the solution?” In the future, I plan to major in Biology, and after I complete my degree, I plan to go to medical school. I will achieve my goals, but I want to give back to my community and help others. Science and Medicine are fulfilling fields to be in, but I want women and other minorities, like my mother and I, to have the same level playing field as those who are more fortunate. Overall, my goal is to help others and allow them to have a successful future. My mom has always provided me the tools to be happy and prosperous. She’s why I continue to work hard in academics and strive to improve. My dream is to walk across the stage at graduation, find her in the crowd, and say, “This is all for you.”