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Marilyn Scott
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Hello! My name is Marilyn Scott. I am a dual enrollment student at Cato Middle College High School, and I want to pursue an education in Music Industry Studies. I've been singing since I was 9 years old and it's always been my dream to be a singer.
Education
Cato Middle College High School
High SchoolMiscellaneous
Desired degree level:
Bachelor's degree program
Majors of interest:
- Arts, Entertainment, and Media Management
- Business, Management, Marketing, and Related Support Services, Other
- Visual and Performing Arts, General
Career
Dream career field:
Music
Dream career goals:
Record Label Owner
MYEP Intern
Coca-Cola Consolidated2025 – Present1 year
Sports
Dancing
Club2014 – 20162 years
Awards
- N/A
Arts
School Choir
MusicN/A2017 – 2020
Public services
Volunteering
Keep Charlotte Beautiful — Picking up trash and recycling.2022 – Present
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Advocacy
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Entrepreneurship
Marcia Bick Scholarship
Motivated and high-achieving students from disadvantaged backgrounds deserve opportunities, such as scholarships or grants, because the adversity they face makes them more competent, hardworking, and resourceful people, as opposed to students who've faced very few challenges. Take my life, for example. I come from a low-income and single-parent household where hardships were common. On occasions when my parent was unable to assist me with something- whether it be paying my extracurricular activity fees, providing transportation to school-sanctioned events, or simply helping me with my homework- I would have to take it upon myself to solve my problems, sometimes with unconventional solutions such as offering to pay my friend's parents gas money if they drove me to and from our elementary school field trip. As a young girl, overcoming these challenges made me feel extremely overwhelmed and alone. I was certain my life would only get harder. However, as I grew older, I became accustomed to handling those aspects of my life independently. I soon realized that not only had I developed productive habits and routines to keep me focused, but I had also developed an optimistic mindset, which helped me gain confidence in myself and my abilities. If I hadn't experienced those obstacles in my childhood, I don't believe I would be the strong person I am now. I believe the same can be said of any student who comes from a disadvantaged background. Disadvantaged students learn to work hard and use every resource available to them because they know it may be their only option. For this reason, they deserve, and must have, the opportunity to receive scholarships or grants.
Support from this grant would help me achieve my goals by allowing me to start my adult life debt-free. Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms, my dream has been to become a singer. Recently, I took a major step toward my dream. I applied and auditioned for Berklee College of Music's Music Business/Management program. To my pleasant surprise, I received my acceptance letter on December 18th, 2025. This marked my first potential step toward success. Unfortunately, even after financial aid, the cost of tuition is still extremely high, but with the support of this grant, I can begin lowering the cost and potentially meet my goal of attending college debt-free.
Lotus Scholarship
Coming from a single-parent household has led me to persevere through challenges by helping me discover that adversity builds competent and resourceful people. On the occasions when my parent was unable to assist me with something- whether it be paying my extracurricular activity fees, providing transportation to school-sanctioned events, or simply helping me with my homework- I would have to take it upon myself to solve my problems, sometimes in unconventional ways. As a young girl, having to overcome these challenges made me feel extremely overwhelmed and alone; I was certain my life would only get harder. However, as I grew older, I became accustomed to handling those aspects of my life independently. I soon realized that not only had I developed productive habits and routines to keep me focused, but I had also developed an optimistic mindset which helped me gain confidence in myself and my abilities.
If I hadn't experienced those obstacles in my childhood, I don't believe I would be the strong person I am now. That belief has inspired me to want to create a scholarship and financial aid foundation for students worldwide who've faced any form of adversity. The foundation would offer its own set of scholarships available to any student who signs up for a free account using their email address. Once the student's information is processed, they will be sent information about other scholarships and financial aid opportunities based on their geographical location. In the future, I hope to fund this program with the money I earn as a singer.
Recently, I took a major step toward my dream. I applied and auditioned for Berklee College of Music's Music Business/Management program. To my pleasant surprise, I received my acceptance letter on December 18th, 2025. This marked my first potential step toward success.
Nabi Nicole Grant Memorial Scholarship
I used to dread the question, “What do you want to be when you grow up?” Not because I didn’t know, but because I was embarrassed by the answer. Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms, I knew I wanted to be a singer. As a young girl untouched by the crippling feeling of self-doubt, I wanted so badly to experience the glamour and glitter she sang so passionately about at the beginning of every episode. Unfortunately, my childlike hope wouldn’t last long, as I was soon introduced to new fears and insecurities from others.
As a young child, adults entertained my dreams and aspirations. They believed it was too harsh to taint a child’s innocent mind, but as I got older, that special treatment slowly started to disappear. Each year, when I answered, “I want to be a singer,” the adults in my life felt it would be helpful to offer me some “realistic” advice. “That’s a lovely dream, but why don’t you pick something more attainable?” “Oh, but you’re such a bright young lady–why not study medicine or law?”, and “Is that even a real job?” These questions meant to steer me away from naive goals only extinguished my passion and began fueling my fear of failure.
The more I listened to their skepticism, the more I began to internalize their doubts. I soon found myself avoiding GOD's calling for me. Once I started high school, my insecurities ran so deep that I almost considered giving up singing as a career altogether. I figured that settling for a different career path I was good at, in this case, Marketing, would still give me some fulfillment. Thankfully, GOD ended up taking the wheel out of my fearful hands and started to steer my life in His direction. Right before the beginning of my senior year, as I was transferring to middle college and choosing what to study, I felt the Holy Spirit speak to me. It happened on the drive to get my new college ID. I was staring lazily out the window of my dad’s car when I suddenly started imagining what my life would look like five years from that moment. I saw I had become a successful marketer who owned her own firm and had many loyal clients. I thought the future me would be happy, but all I saw was a woman living a life full of regret. I watched as the most successful client from my firm lived her dream of being a singer. I knew at that moment what GOD was trying to tell me; if I didn’t stop running away from my dream, that vision would become my reality.
From that point on, I decided to put complete faith in GOD and his plan for my life. I know He’s given me this gift for a reason, and I shouldn’t waste it simply because I received a few defeatist comments. As much as I wish I had started believing in myself sooner, I’m still extremely grateful for that experience because it taught me how destructive it can be to let other people influence the most important decisions in your life. Those irrelevant opinions almost made me give up the one thing that I felt I was created for. So now, when people ask me, “What’s your dream job?”, I can confidently state that I’ve always wanted to be a singer, and if GOD says the same, one day, I will be.
Sunni E. Fagan Memorial Music Scholarship
Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, I was mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms. This stylish pink-haired woman and her band were the spark that ignited the fire within my soul. I watched as she executed each musical number as smoothly as a swan gliding over water, and as a young girl, I wanted so badly to experience the glamour and glitter she sang so passionately about at the beginning of every episode. From then on, my ultimate goal was to become a singer.
Unfortunately, as I grew older and began to delve deeper into the world of entertainment, I started to recognize a hidden reality masked under the fancy clothes and expensive cars. The more documentaries I watched, and the more I learned about the careers of my favorite entertainers, the more I noticed a pattern of exploitation within the industry. It seemed like a canon event among entertainers, especially young artists. It baffled me how these insanely famous singers, who had numerous hits topping the charts, were broke during what would be considered their prime. My confusion led me to discover that the cause of their financial state was usually the absence of a trustworthy manager or a lack of basic industry knowledge in general. After that realization, I found myself driven by a new passion. Rather than simply achieving the position of a singer, I also aspire to create and own a record label that functions like a school for young musicians as a way to give back through my career. I want to give any artist signed to my label the option of learning how to manage their tours, music production, distribution, and record deals. My goal is for every artist who chooses to learn the business to eventually "graduate" from my label and start managing themselves. If they'd rather not choose to learn the business fully, and want to stay signed to my label, I plan to grant them full artistic freedom and all of the credit for the work they produce at my label. I want to protect not only myself, but also many artists.
I'm passionate about pursuing music because singing and performing have always felt as natural as breathing, and I would love to help artists who share the same feelings get full credit for their work if I'm allowed, because I would want someone to do that for me. As a Christian, one of the first things I was taught growing up was the Golden Rule: to treat others the way you want to be treated. That principle is what I want to build not only my label on, but also my legacy. I hope that through my efforts, I can level the playing field between young artists and corporations within the music industry in a positive way. Even though I may have to postpone my dream of being a singer, if it means I'll have the ability to help others in the future, I'll gladly wait for my time to shine on stage.
Neil Margeson Sound Scholarship
Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, I was mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms. This stylish pink-haired woman and her band were the spark that ignited the fire within my soul. I watched as she executed each musical number as smoothly as a swan gliding over water, and as a young girl, I wanted so badly to experience the glamour and glitter she sang so passionately about at the beginning of every episode. From then on, my ultimate goal was to become a singer.
Unfortunately, as I grew older and began to delve deeper into the world of entertainment, I started to recognize a hidden reality masked under the fancy clothes and expensive cars.
The more documentaries I watched, and the more I learned about the careers of my favorite entertainers, the more I noticed a pattern of exploitation within the industry. My extensive research on the subject led me to discover that the cause of their financial state was usually the absence of a trustworthy manager or a lack of basic industry knowledge in general. After that realization, I decided the best way to avoid that reality would be to tweak my goal and change my strategy. Making music had always been my dream, and it led me to take numerous classes on music history and song composition, but I knew that learning about the business behind it would better serve me. So, with my new mindset driving me forward, I changed my major to Music Business and spent days researching institutions that offered programs that focused on the business behind music, while also nurturing a student's creativity.
An avenue that I recently took to make my dreams come to fruition was applying and auditioning for Berklee College of Music's Music Business/Management program. To my pleasant surprise, I received my acceptance letter on December 18th, 2025, marking my first potential step toward success. At Berklee, I hope to gain substantial knowledge about the music industry and music production, while also gaining experience through internships. I'm passionate about pursuing music because singing and performing have always felt as natural as breathing, and with a Music Business degree, I aspire to create and own a record label that functions like a school. I want to give any artist signed to my label the option of learning how to manage their own careers, so they can eventually "graduate" from my label and manage themselves, if they so choose. I plan to protect not only myself, but also many artists. Even though I may have to postpone my dream of being a singer, if it means I'll have the ability to help others in the future, as well as myself, I'll gladly wait for my time to shine on stage.
Richard W. Vandament Music Scholarship
Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, I was mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms. This stylish pink-haired woman and her band were the spark that ignited the fire within my soul. I watched as she executed each musical number as smoothly as a swan gliding over water, and as a young girl, I wanted so badly to experience the glamour and glitter she sang so passionately about at the beginning of every episode. From then on, my ultimate goal was to become a singer. I would spend hours researching schools and organizations I could join that would teach me how to hone my craft. My biggest role models, Stevie Wonder and Max Schneider, commonly known as MAX, inspired me to continue pursuing and practicing music, despite lacking a formal musical background. They also expanded my musical taste, introducing me to numerous genres, including K-pop, Reggae, and Latin Pop, among others. Unfortunately, as I grew older and began to delve deeper into the world of entertainment, I started to recognize a hidden reality masked under the fancy clothes and expensive cars.
The more documentaries I watched, and the more I learned about the careers of my favorite entertainers, the more I noticed a pattern of exploitation within the industry. It seemed like a canon event among entertainers, especially singers. It baffled me how these insanely famous singers, who had numerous hits topping the charts, were broke during what would be considered their prime. My confusion led me to discover that the cause of their financial state was usually the absence of a trustworthy manager or a lack of basic industry knowledge in general. After that realization, I found myself driven by a new passion. Rather than simply achieving the position of a singer, I also aspire to create and own a record label that functions like a school. I want to give any artist signed to my label the option of learning how to manage their own careers, so they can eventually "graduate" from my label and manage themselves, if they so choose.
An avenue I took to make my dream a reality was auditioning and applying for Berklee College of Music's Music Business/Management program. To my pleasant surprise, I received my acceptance letter on December 18th, 2025, marking my first potential step toward success. At Berklee, I can gain substantial knowledge about the music industry and music production, while also gaining experience through internships. I'm passionate about music because singing and performing have always felt as natural as breathing, and with a music degree, I plan to help artists get full credit for their work while also teaching them how to make wise business decisions. With the experience I gain from helping artists, I hope to level the playing field between artists and corporations within the music industry in a positive way, and I hope my actions leave a meaningful impact on the business side of the music industry. Even if my dream isn't fully cultivated during my lifetime, I hope my efforts inspire future generations who can keep the ball rolling in the right direction.
Vision of Music Scholarship
Since I was three years old, staring bright-eyed at my boxy old playroom television, I was mesmerized by the songs and dances performed on screen by Jem and the Holograms. This stylish pink-haired woman and her band were the spark that ignited the fire within my soul. I watched as she executed each musical number as smoothly as a swan gliding over water, and as a young girl, I wanted so badly to experience the glamour and glitter she sang so passionately about at the beginning of every episode. From then on, my ultimate goal was to become a singer. I would spend hours memorizing songs and watching interviews, trying to soak up every bit of knowledge I could glean from my favorite entertainers. My biggest role models, Stevie Wonder and Max Schneider, commonly known as MAX, inspired me to continue pursuing and practicing music, despite lacking a formal musical background. They also expanded my musical taste, introducing me to numerous genres, including K-pop, Reggae, and Latin Pop, among others. Unfortunately, as I grew older and began to delve deeper into the world of entertainment, I started to recognize a hidden reality masked under the fancy clothes and expensive cars.
The more documentaries I watched, and the more I learned about the careers of my favorite entertainers, the more I noticed a pattern of exploitation within the industry. It seemed like a canon event among entertainers, especially singers. It baffled me how these insanely famous singers, who had numerous hits topping the charts, were broke during what would be considered their prime. My confusion led me to discover that the cause of their financial state was usually the absence of a trustworthy manager or a lack of basic industry knowledge in general. After that realization, I decided that I wanted to change my dream. Rather than simply achieving the position of a singer, I also aspire to create and own a record label that functions like a school. I want to give any artist signed to my label the option of learning how to manage their own careers, so they can eventually "graduate" from my label and manage themselves, if they so choose.
I chose music because singing and performing have always felt as natural as breathing, and I would love to help artists who share the same feelings get full credit for their work if I'm allowed, because I would want someone to do that for me. As a Christian, one of the first things I was taught growing up was the Golden Rule: to treat others the way you want to be treated. That principle is what I want to build not only my label on, but also my legacy. I want to be remembered as someone who tried their hardest to level the playing field between artists and corporations within the music industry in a positive way, and I hope my actions leave a meaningful impact on the business side of the music industry. Even if my dream isn't fully cultivated during my lifetime, I hope my efforts inspire future generations who can keep the ball rolling in the right direction.
Alexander Hipple Recovery Scholarship
My indirect experience with drug and alcohol addiction has affected my beliefs by forcing me to learn to sympathize with other people, instead of judging them. Before I understood what addiction was, I used to pass prejudice to people who were open about their struggles because I thought they were being overly dramatic about their situation and were using their struggles as an excuse for their actions. But after seeing some of my friends and family battle with their addictions, I began to realize it wasn't dramatics but an actual struggle with substances and learned that it is something that needs to be discussed more.
It has affected my relationships by showing me that sometimes, the best thing you can do for your loved ones, is just be there for them. After having to witness certain family members experience trials with their minds and willpower, I realized I needed to stop being apathetic toward others who were struggling and start supporting them in any way I could. Even if that meant doing something as simple as writing them letters while they were in jail or calling to congratulate them after a successful couple of weeks in rehab. I started doing my research on substance abuse, while also trying to figure out if I had missed signs from those around me that they too struggled with addiction. I also looked into ways of improving their state of mind through support groups, self-help techniques, and possible therapy. I provided them with information even though I didn't know if they would ever use it. Just being able to help in the smallest ways was enough for me.
Lastly, it has affected my career aspirations by giving me the idea to broaden my employee scope. While researching, I found out that a lot of addicts that go to jail or have a history of substance abuse on their record, don't get the same job opportunities as their sober counterparts. As an aspiring entrepreneur, I want my business to be built on positive values rather than discriminatory views. I want all potential employees to be screened the same whether they have addictions, disabilities, etc. I plan on continuing to spread this mentality with my friends and acquaintances in the future business world. I encourage others to do the same. In a world ready to judge you, it's good to know you have a few friends in your corner.
Once Upon a #BookTok Scholarship
On my ideal bookshelf, some must-have titles are, 'It Ends With Us' by Colleen Hoover, 'Archer's Voice' by Mia Sheridan, and the entire Grishaverse series. I have come to love these books and I would recommend these titles to anyone willing to read them or anyone looking to start and grow their book collection. They expose you to multiple genres and writing styles. And even though some of the plots are drastically different, each one has made an impact on, not only myself but also the #BookTok community.
The first two books, 'It Ends With Us' and 'Archers Voice', are both contemporary new adult romances that focus on the depth of relationships and life experiences. They were also both nominees for 'Best Romance' in their respective years. And while 'It Ends With Us' did receive the award, it does not undermine the quality of 'Archer's Voice'. Both books deal with heavy topics such as domestic violence and childhood trauma while offering a side of romance between relatable and complex characters that moved audiences and made them sympathize with the events in the story.
The final set of books, the Grishaverse series, is a young adult fantasy with intense action, enticing drama, and a side of swoon-worthy romance. It is mainly set in an imaginary land called Ravka that is separated down the middle by a shadow wall called 'The Fold'. The main characters are called Grisha who are human beings with special powers based on natural elements. Corporalki- Heartrenders, Tailors, and Healers-, Etherealki- Squaller, Inferni, Tidemaker, Sun Summoner, and Shadow Summoner-, and Materialki- Durasts and Alkemi. About half of the books have been nominated for an award including the 'Goodreads Choice Award' and 'Best Young Adult Fantasy & Science Fiction'.
After the release of those books, many creators and authors took a liking to the genre and series similar to them. Creators made entire fan accounts for the books with series recommendations, fanart, and merch. Some authors, those who were inspired by the writing, even wrote their books in the same genre. These books also opened up the floor to readers who may have been going through similar situations as their favorite characters such as an abusive parent, a toxic spouse, and even common relational drama. They contributed to the normalization of speaking out against violence and inappropriate behavior, while also creating a community where survivors can feel comfortable, seen, and heard. Overall, these books have not only had an impact on the #Bookok community, but on society as well.
JAH Scholarship for Art
Ultimate K-Pop Stan Scholarship
Even though I know it's cliche, my favorite K-pop group is BTS. Now before you jump to conclusions, I do know other songs besides 'Dynamite' and 'Butter'. And while those are great songs, if those are the only ones you listen to, you won't get the full BTS experience.
I started listening to K-pop in 2017 at the request of my best friend. Well, it wasn't exactly a request, it was more like she shoved her headphones on my head and begged me to let her play a song. The song in question was, 'Come Back Home' by BTS, and it blew my mind. I had originally thought that K-pop was just American pop covers sung by Korean artists, but after listening to that song, I realized I was wrong. The first thing that shocked me was that the song starts with English lyrics. I thought I'd be listening to gibberish on top of a beat, but it reminded me of a hip-hop song. After that, I was hooked.
I started doing more research on BTS and the genre when I stumbled upon their 'Love Yourself' campaign. During that era, they had released multiple albums that conveyed messages of self-love and acceptance and had their own nonprofit. I had been dealing with self-esteem issues for a while and was trying to find healthy ways to cope with them and learn to change my mindset, so I started listening to more of their music and watching some of their videos. I ended up learning a lot about myself and how to be authentic no matter what society says. Their message of self-love helped me grow to be a more confident person while also changing my views on cultures that are different than my own. A lot of people, including my parents, were skeptical about me liking K-pop. They worried about the messages expressed in the music, what they were teaching me, and what the community was like. But after many discussions and days of me playing them the music, they eventually realized that K-pop can and does have a positive and meaningful impact on society.
Now, fast forward six years later, millions of people- young and old- enjoy K-pop and have started to explore not only Korean culture but other cultures as well. Fans have started non-profits under the influence of their favorite idols and have created groups and communities for fans alike to come and talk about everything from upcoming concerts to mental health issues. It's a very diverse and welcoming community that anyone of any age can be a part of. I encourage everyone to give K-pop an honest listen and to form their opinions about the genre.
Barbie Dream House Scholarship
If I had my own Barbie Dream House, it would be located in Washington state. Somewhere near Puyallup. That may seem like an odd place to have a Dream House, but that is my home state. So if I'm going to build a dream house, I'm going to build it somewhere I want to be all the time. It would be three stories high with six rooms and four bathrooms on each floor. It'd have a neutural color scheme with many varitions of browns and whites. I'd like to pick an inconspicuous color for the outside, as not to draw unwanted attention. I'd like a wrap around porch with a long walkway and windows in the front room. I'd like a backyard patio with a pool that goes as deep as seven feet. But also add a smaller pool that only goes up to four feet for children. On the inside I'd like two open staircases that lead to their respective floors. Along with elevators incase I recieve guests that have disabilities. I'd like two slides that start inside the house and end at both the pools, but the slides have automatic openings that lock after a certain hour so nobody can accidently slide into the pool. I'd like half of my rooms to be guest rooms, each with their own themes, and the other half to be my personal rooms. One room would be a closet, then a library, then a theatre, and so on. I'd like a huge kitchen with state of the art appliences and marble coutertops. I'd also like my Dream House to have hard wood floors except in the rooms, the rooms would be carpeted. And lastly, the security system would be iris identification so no one could come in without scanning my iris first or without me letting them in.
Lulu Scholarship for Music Vocation
A woman in my life who has inspiried me to chase my dreams would be my Aunt. My parents got divorced when I was three years old but my father was still active in the military, so he asked his sister to move in with us, along with her daughter. My Aunt agreed and stepped into the role of my Mother from then on, helping parent my siblings as well. I've always wanted to be a singer, it's a secret passion of mine, but I was always too shy to share it. Even though I have been in choir since I was a little kid, I never volunteered for solo's and if I was asked to deliver one, I came up with excuses to back out. I had terrible stage fright. But, my Aunt never stopped encouraging and helping me to over come my fears. Without her I wouldn't have delivered my first church or school choir solo. Thanks to her, I was asked to join my high schools music company due to the fact that my choir director had witnessed my talent. She will forever hold a special place in my heart and be a huge contributor to my success.
Book Lovers Scholarship
If I could have everyone in the world read just one book, it would be The Little Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupéry. It presents those mature philosophies in such a manner that any child could understand. The book begins with the narrator sharing his opinion on the grown-up's inability to perceive "important things" and thus, creates a test to support his statement. The narrator later becomes a pilot and ends up crashing in the Sahara desert where he meets a small boy nicknamed, 'the little prince'. Upon meeting the prince, he gives him the same test he gave adults and the prince passes it, gaining the respect of the narrator. Later learning that the pilot only has enough water for eight days and a broken plane, the prince decides to share his life story to pass the time. The prince talks about his home planet, B 612, and the people he's met on his journey to Earth. The people he meets and the discussions they have together symbolize issues like materialism, conceit, and redundancy while trying to provide solutions for them. Although the adults the prince met while traveling to different planets played a large part in his story, the most significant character would be the fox. When the prince arrived on Earth, he encountered a fox who had the desire to be tamed. So, the fox taught the prince how to tame him. The fox taught the prince that by being tamed something goes from being ordinary and just like all the others to being special and unique. The prince learned that the things he once thought were common and ordinary were special because he had 'tamed' them by investing his time and energy into them. At the end of the book, the prince and the pilot are both dying of thirst and want to return home. The prince ends up finding a well, saving both of them, which allows the pilot to get the energy to fix his plane. Earlier in the book, the prince met a snake that told him he could help him return home if he wished it so. The prince bids farewell to the pilot and tells him not to watch his special departure back home because it may look like he died. The pilot see's him fall, and it is up to the reader to determine if the prince returned home or died.
JADED Recovery Scholarship
My indirect experience with drug and alcohol addiction has affected my beliefs by forcing me to learn to sympathize with other people, instead of judging them. Before I understood what addiction was, I used to pass prejudice to people who were open about their struggles because I thought they were being overly dramatic about their situation and used their struggles as an excuse for their actions. But after seeing some of my friends and family battle their addiction, I began to realize that they weren't being dramatic and that having struggles with substance abuse is something that needs to be discussed more.
It has affected my relationships by showing me that sometimes, the best thing you can do for your loved ones, is to be there for them. After having to witness certain family members experience trials with their minds and willpower, I realized I needed to stop being apathetic toward others who were struggling and start supporting them in any way I could. Even if that meant doing something as simple as writing them letters while they were in jail or calling to congratulate them after a successful couple of weeks in rehab. I started doing my research on substance abuse, while also trying to figure out if I had missed signs from those around me that they too struggled with addiction. I also looked into ways of improving their state of mind through support groups, self-help techniques, and possible therapy. I provided them with information even though I didn't know if they would ever use it. Just being able to help in the smallest ways was enough for me.
Lastly, it has affected my career aspirations by giving me the idea to broaden my employee scope. While researching, I found out that a lot of addicts that go to jail or have a history of substance abuse on their record, don't get the same job opportunities as their sober counterparts. As an aspiring enteurpaneuer, I want my business to be built on positive values rather than discriminatory views. I want all potential employees to be screened the same whether they have addictions, disabilities, etc. I plan on continuing to spread this mentality with my friends and acquaintances in the future business world. I encourage others to do the same. In a world ready to judge you, it's good to know you have a few friends in your corner.
Brian J Boley Memorial Scholarship
I have overcome mental illness by learning ways to keep a positive and healthy mindset. Before COVID, I used to pass prejudice to people who were open about their mental health struggles because I thought they were being overly dramatic about their situation or had a tendency to over-analyze certain things, which caused them to feel the way they did. I hadn't been through an experience like theirs, so it became easy to judge or feel like I was better than them. But after being isolated from most of my friends and family, I began to realize that they weren't being dramatic and that having struggles with mental health is something that needs to be discussed more. Something that people need to take seriously.
After experiencing my trials with the mind, I realized I needed to stop being apathetic toward others who were struggling and start supporting them. I started doing my research on mental health subjects such as depression and anxiety, while also trying to figure out if I had missed signs from those around me that they too struggled with their mental health. I wanted to be able to go back and apologize or maybe even help people whom I may have overlooked or offeneded with my self-righteousness. I also looked into ways of improving my state of mind through support groups, self-help techniques, and therapy. I learned the importance of staying healthy both physically and mentally.
Now, I apply the techniques I learned from my research, teach others about the importance of a positive, non-judgemental mindset, and talk openly about my mental health struggles. I want to be able to educate other people who may have felt the same way I did. I want to be able to show society that it's not right to judge others based on a biased opinion. I have gained many friends and acquaintances along my journey who've embraced my philosophy and made me feel accepted within their circles. I plan on continuing to develop an open personality and strive to be an advocate for mental throughout my adult life. I encourage others to do the same. I encourage others to put themselves in someone else shoes, in someone else's mind, for that matter. Living in a world that sometimes makes struggling with mental health a taboo subject, it can be difficult to feel understood. But if we work to educate one another on this subject, we can make a vast improvement in society as a whole.
Ethel Hayes Destigmatization of Mental Health Scholarship
My experience with mental health has shaped my goals, relationships, and understanding of the world by forcing me to learn to sympathize with other people, instead of judging them. Before COVID, I used to pass prejudice to people who were open about their mental health struggles because I thought they were being overly dramatic about their situation or had a tendency to over-analyze certain things, which caused them to feel the way they did. But after being isolated from most of my friends and family, I began to realize that they weren't being dramatic and that having struggles with mental health is something that needs to be discussed more.
After experiencing my trials with the mind, I realized I needed to stop being apathetic toward others who were struggling and start supporting them. I started doing my research on mental health subjects such as depression and anxiety, while also trying to figure out if I had missed signs from those around me that they too struggled with their mental health. I also looked into ways of improving my state of mind through support groups, self-help techniques, and therapy. I learned the importance of staying healthy both physically and mentally.
Now, I apply the techniques I learned from my research, teach others about the importance of a positive, non-judgemental mindset, and talk openly about my mental health struggles. I have gained many friends and acquaintances along my journey who've helped me embrace who I am and feel accepted within the world. I plan on continuing to develop my personality and strive to be an advocate for mental throughout my adult life. I encourage others to do the same. In a world ready to judge you, it's good to know you have a few friends in your corner.
Share Your Poetry Scholarship
What Is Love
Love,
A feeling that expresses more than words can muster.
Something that causes more pain than a bullet,
Can cause more happiness than holidays,
And more sadness than death.
Love,
It can come in different places, people, and situations.
It can be between yourself, another person, or the world around you.
Most people see love as a feeling between two people,
Such as a married couple or a teen fling.
But what they don’t realize is that you need to learn to love yourself,
Before anyone else.
Love,
Is complicated.
Like a puzzle you just can’t solve.
It’s something that doesn’t come with a manual,
You’ve just gotta try your best to figure it out.
And just when you think you’ve got it,
It throws you outta balance.
Love,
Is tricky.
Something most people see in movies,
But are disappointed when they try it in real life.
Something that can be kind,
Yet selfish at the same time.
It requires trust, respect and a special type of love too.
The X-Factor.
Love,
And the X-Factor are like siblings.
We all know Mother Nature,
And Father Time,
Death is the Sister but on the bright side,
There’s Love and X to gives us hope,
Our life on earth was made for something.
Love,
Is something everyone treasures most.
Something we can’t live without.
Something we know we need.
And if we don’t receive enough,
It can take a huge toll on us.
Whether its deep depression,
Or just the mere fear of getting hurt.
Love,
Is sad.
It doesn’t always work the way you want it.
It can be like a roller coaster at times.
And for some,
The ride lasts forever.
For others,
It’s just a quick adrenaline rush.
It can leave you feeling empty and useless.
It can have you thinking you weren’t good enough.
But at the end of the day,
You still will enjoy looking back at the love you once had.
Because you know,
Out of the billions of people in the world you chose that person,
And you made the best out of it.
Love,
Is beautiful.
The feeling of another human being sharing themselves with you,
Is heartwarming.
The little things they do to make you smile,
Is tear jerking.
The way they look in flattering things,
Is breathtaking.
Just everything about them makes you love them more.
Sometimes the idea of a life without them pops in your head,
But then you realize,
You should enjoy the moment while you can.
Love,
Can leave you hanging.
If you get used,
You never want to try again.
If you learn heartbreak,
You think it can never be fixed.
If you have an amazing romance,
You never want it to end.
If you had a great one,
You think it’s never gonna be like that again.
It leaves you in a tight spot.
Where you have to choose between listening to your head,
Or your heart.
Overall…..
Love,
Is weird.
It’s probably one of the worlds biggest wonders.
Something that will take centuries to figure out.
Something that not even the smartest person knows how to solve.
Not even the smartest scientist has a formula for.
But what I can say is,
No matter how weird it may be,
It’s something we all love...ironically.
And since we’re all human we tend to do things our own way,
And take on new challenges.
And this is one of them.
And I hope we all succeed.
-Marilyn Scott