My mom, her name is Magaly Cordon, and she is my role model in life. Ever since I was a kid, I always admired her, she is the most hardworking, loving, and caring person that I have ever met. My parents went through separation when I was about six years old, even though my dad was supposed to be taking care of my brother and me, he never supplied much for us. When this happened my mom did not hesitate to work even more and provide whatever we needed, even taking us on trips sometimes. I was too little to understand everything, but when I turned twelve, my mom left to go to her hometown, so I only saw her during weekends. My mom went through abuse, physically, mentally, and emotionally when she was with my dad; even still, she never wanted us to hate my dad. But my mom did not let that stop her, she graduated with a degree in business and administration, and later in life she got her master’s degree in humanities.
I always looked up to my mom, not just because she never gave up, but because she was not afraid of work; she would work in any area, even if she had no experience in the job. She is not afraid of phasing new things and challenges, she did all of this with a purpose, and that purpose was her kids; she is willing to do anything and everything for her kids. And one of the things that I admired the most about her, is how she loves to take care of people, she always told me that one of the things that I could not feel bad about spending my money, was when I used that money to take care of others; she never denies helping others, not even people that hurt her extremely, including my dad.
I told her that I wanted to move to the States when I was 16, and she looked at me and said “Okay, let’s come up with a plan” She was supportive since day one; it was a big deal because I am the only girl, and the youngest in the family and moving countries is not an easy thing to do in Guatemala. She helped with all the paperwork to get my visa, and she even got a loan to show her financial statements to the embassy; my mom was the only one who had helped me financially during all of these years. I moved here in 2019, my mom prayed thousands of dollars per year, just so I could get my education here (1 dollar is almost 7.5 Quetzales in Guatemala) including personal expenses, and she never complained about it. She is proud of me, and everything I do, I do it for her. I want to show her that all her hard work was worth it. I wanted to give up so many times being here, but she always had the right words to say. She showed me how to be independent, and to have a mentality that I can achieve everything that I put my mind to it.