My favorite part of golf is the way it creates connections between people. Unlike many other sports, golf is built around conversation, patience, and shared experiences over several hours. Some of the most meaningful relationships in my life have been strengthened through golf, whether that meant bonding with my father, connecting with teammates, or simply talking with strangers at my local course. Golf has become much more than a sport to me; it has become a lifelong source of discipline, confidence, and community.
My journey with golf started almost as soon as I could walk. When I was around one year old, I would swing yellow plastic golf clubs around the house while watching my dad practice and play. Growing up in the Philippines, I spent a lot of time observing him and learning the basics of the game through him. By the time I was three years old, I picked up a real golf club for the first time. I played regularly until I was around five before eventually stepping away from the sport for several years.
Even during those early years, golf impacted my character because it gave me time with my father. Some of my favorite memories growing up involved being around golf courses, watching him play, and learning lessons about patience and composure. Golf taught me that frustration does not solve anything. A bad shot cannot be undone, but the next shot is always another opportunity.
One of the biggest challenges I faced came when I moved from the Philippines to the United States before my junior year of high school. While moving created new opportunities for me, it also meant being separated from my father, who remained in the Philippines to continue supporting our family financially. Even today, he continues supporting both my education and my golfing journey from thousands of miles away. That separation was difficult because golf had always been something closely tied to our relationship.
At fifteen years old, shortly after moving to the United States, I picked golf back up again, and it transformed my experience entirely. Joining my high school golf team gave me a sense of belonging during a time when everything around me felt unfamiliar. Through practices and matches, I built friendships, became more confident socially, and found a community that helped me adjust to a completely new environment.
Golf also became one of the ways I stayed connected to my father despite the distance between us. Every time I practiced or played a round, I felt connected to the memories we built together growing up. Knowing that he continues to support my passion for golf motivates me to work harder and appreciate the opportunities I have been given.
What I love most about golf is how naturally it allows people to connect. At my local golf course, I have had conversations with older golfers about business, careers, and life experiences. As someone interested in business, entrepreneurship, and computer science, I value the way golf creates relationships and opportunities through simple conversation and shared passion.
Golf has taught me patience, resilience, and discipline. More importantly, it has shown me the importance of connection — both with others and with the people who shaped me.
As I prepare to attend Northeastern University, I plan on continuing my passion through club golf. What started as swinging yellow plastic clubs as a child has become a lifelong passion that I know will remain with me far beyond college.