Confidence is not something people are born with—it is something they build. This belief became real to me through cheerleading, but more importantly, through the guidance of my mentor, Coach Kelli, who helped me push past the limits I once placed on myself.
As a Filipino-American cheerleader at Leilehua High School, I have always balanced academics, athletics, and my goal of pursuing a career in healthcare. Cheerleading has been the backbone of who I am, shaping my discipline, teamwork, and resilience. However, during my sophomore year, self-doubt began to overshadow my abilities. Even when I knew the routines, I constantly second-guessed myself during stunts and performances. Instead of trusting my training, I focused on everything that could go wrong.
By the summer of 2024, the pressure of managing cheer, school, work, and an internship led me to burnout. Cheer stopped feeling like something I loved and started feeling like something I had to prove myself in. I began questioning whether I was strong enough, skilled enough, or confident enough to continue. For the first time, I felt disconnected from something that had always defined me.
At my lowest point, Coach Kelli stepped in as more than just a coach—she became a mentor who saw potential in me that I could not see in myself. She refused to let me quit on myself. She reminded me that confidence doesn’t come before the work; it comes from trusting the work that has already been done. She told me that my struggle wasn’t a lack of ability, but a lack of belief. That perspective changed everything. Instead of focusing on fear and failure, I began to shift my mindset toward trust—trust in my training, my teammates, and myself.
I started applying this lesson directly to my stunt group—Kelsey, Rose, Priscilla, and me. We struggled repeatedly with our extensions, often failing more times than we succeeded. Before, those failures would have confirmed my self-doubt. However, with Coach Kelli’s words in mind, I began to approach each attempt differently. I stopped overthinking every move and started trusting the process. I learned that failure was not something to avoid, but something to grow from. Slowly, we improved. By the end of summer cheer camp in 2024, we finally hit our stunts. That moment meant everything to me because it showed that confidence is built through persistence, even when you feel unsure.
One of my proudest moments came on January 13, 2025, at a stunt clinic, where I accomplished skills I once believed were impossible, such as full-ups and extensions to liberty. I remember pausing in that moment and realizing how far I had come—not just physically, but mentally. The same person who once doubted every move was now performing skills she once thought were out of reach. I had learned how to turn fear into focus and doubt into determination.
This mindset didn’t stay in cheer—it became a part of how I approached every aspect of my life. In school, I began to participate more and challenge myself academically, even when I wasn’t completely confident in my answers. At work, I stepped up to take on more responsibility, trusting that I could handle challenges as they came. In leadership roles, I learned to lead with confidence, understanding that being unsure doesn’t mean being incapable.
This growth has played a major role in preparing me for my future in nursing. Through Leilehua’s Health Services Academy, I had the opportunity to volunteer at Age to Perfection and Lanakila Adult Daycare in Wahiawa. These experiences showed me that healthcare is not just about knowledge and technical skills, but about presence, patience, and compassion. I approached these environments with the same mindset Coach Kelli helped me develop—trusting myself to connect with patients, even when I felt nervous or inexperienced. I learned that just like in cheer, confidence in healthcare is built through experience, empathy, and the willingness to keep showing up.
Because of Coach Kelli’s mentorship, I now feel more prepared and passionate about my goal of becoming a Family Nurse Practitioner. I plan to attend the University of Hawai‘i at Mānoa so I can stay close to home and serve the community that raised me, especially in Wahiawa. Her encouragement taught me that believing in myself is the first step to helping others.
Coach Kelli didn’t just make me a better cheerleader—she helped me become a more confident and resilient person. She showed me that my limits were not real, but something I had created out of fear. Now, I carry that lesson with me into everything I do. Whether in a routine, a classroom, or a future clinical setting, I will continue to push beyond doubt, trust my abilities, and lead with confidence. Just as she guided me through my struggles, I hope to one day guide my patients with the same patience, trust, and heart.