Adversity is found in all areas of a person's life. For a child diagnosed in the autism spectrum, navigating school is challenging. When I was in elementary school, I needed a teacher's aid in the classroom just for me. I couldn't stay on task and complete assignments on my own. As a developmental disorder, autism impaired my social interactions, communication skills and I couldn't control my emotions, causing an abundance of behavioral problems in school.
My parents were convinced that the biomedical treatment for kids on the spectrum would help me, and they were right. As my digestive system healed, I began to improve my social and communication skills. By middle school, I was a little more independent, but still needed a lot of help from my mother to complete assignments at home. That was distressful for my parents, as every mother and father dream of their kids going to college and having a successful career.
My dream is to be a Paleoscientist; how was I supposed to achieve my goal if I didn't do well in school? Well, I never gave up, neither did my family. Every struggle with assignments, every school meeting to discuss my Individualized Education Plan, known as IEP, was a lesson well learned. We stayed strong with my biomedical treatment, and I kept improving.
The start of high school was also a start at a new state. I was very nervous about starting high school where I wasn't familiar with anyone, and no one knew me. I was allowed to visit the school to situate myself before the school year started, and the people I met were friendly and courteous. It was hard in the beginning, once I had trouble controlling my emotions, a person recorded it and posted it on TikTok. I am happy for my old friends from elementary school that saw it and reported the incident to protect me. I felt destroyed, ashamed, and humiliated. I joined JROTC, and the structured program helped me develop leadership and team-working skills. By my Junior year, I had improved in all aspects and was awarded The Most Improved Cadet by my JROTC teachers.
Being the firstborn son to immigrant parents, and a first-generation student to go to a college, navigating the college application and scholarship application has been a challenge in itself. The amount of information that is required is extremely overwhelming to me. I am grateful for my mom being resilient and staying with me while we get through this process together.
I pushed through and worked hard; I explored different areas, and I found I have an artistic side. I discovered piano and art. I broke through my walls, and I am climbing high mountains. I am semi-independent, and yes, I am apprehensive about the college journey; coming out of my comfort zone isn't something I can do easily. Sometimes I need a quiet moment during the day, my counselor gave me a breathing strategy to keep myself under control and she allows me to go into her office for a few minutes in order to slow down.
As I approach the end of this stage in my life I am happy with what I accomplished. This scholarship will give me the freedom and opportunity to go where no one in my family was able to go before. I learned that my "disability" is my ability and no one will tell me I can't go where my dreams are taking me.
1- To get a college education to me is the first step towards my goal of becoming a Paleoscientist. It means making my family and myself proud of what I can do. It is moving forwards to my professional success.
2- When I am not in school I like playing video games with my online friends. I live in South Carolina, so the weather here is almost always great, so I go to my subdivision park and play pickleball with my family and friends, when we are finished I take walks in the trail around the park and observe nature, I love animals, that is one of my favorite things to do. When I am at home I also like to read books, watch an encouraging message from our Pastor on Youtube, practice piano, draw dinosaurs, and enjoy a good meal with my family.
3- I feed my curiosity by reading about subjects that interest me. I have a fish tank, so I am always looking for a way to improve the quality of the water, and the best tank environment for the fish I have there. I am truly passionate about dinosaurs, so I am always looking for news of new fossils that are discovered. I have encyclopedias on Dinos that I do some research on, and I find good knowledgeable you tubers that give interesting information. I also talk to people around me about things that they like, and I always learn something new. Diversity is what fascinates me. We just had family from Brazil visit us and I was able to observe some of their culture and customs, and even though we have a language barrier because I don't speak Portuguese and they didn't speak English, we were able to communicate and learn from each other.