I have always loved traveling because of how much I learn from it. It goes beyond the cultural differences and the food that you learn about. It starts at home, when you learn new tricks to search for flights, when you receive tips from hotel reviews regarding restaurants in the area, and when you get that excitement exploding in the family as you proceed to checkout on the flights and hotel. It is then that you realise to value the laughs and smiles, the trip has not happened yet but the family is already exhaling happiness.
I believe that is when we start our growth journey, before we leave home. Learning to value and cherish the moments we have with our family is a valuable lesson about empathy and love. These two things can transform perspectives and opinions. If someone is happy, they will see more positive things in the world. They will be more grateful for the little things and able to value both the little and the big moments in life.
That is just the preparation for the travel. When it is time to fly, we see ourselves in huge airports filled with different people who have the richest stories and most heartfelt memories. That is when we learn that life is not static, that life is like an airport, where many people come and go, and a few stay. Nevertheless, we still have the memory of people who were only in our lives for a connection flight. Sometimes, an airport is the place of goodbyes, and tears. However, at other times, an airport can be a place for greetings, welcomes, and laughter.
Meting people in airports is an enriching experience because it is usually unexpected. People are coming from different places with completely different stories. These can expose you to what to ask, what to listen for, what to expect. Most of the time, an airport can simply be quiet, a place where people don't have many memories because they are just anxious about getting to their flights in time, and so is life. But when you travel, you learn to slow down, you learn to appreciate the opportunity to be exactly where you are. You learn that from them on, it will just get better.
It does get better, when you arrive at the travel destination, and you have the chance to explore the place you have dreamed of. You see the monuments that someone created, you try the food that someone made, and you listen to stories someone tells. At the end of the day, you learn to value people for what they did, and appreciate them for who they are.
This might just be the most important lesson we learn while traveling. That is, to value things and people for that they do, and appreciate them for what and who they are. This is the most important lesson because it goes beyond language, culture, memories, history, and perspectives. It is when these things change you. When you travel and learn about another culture, you re-think yours. When you lear about another language, you compare it with yours. When you see things from a different perspective, you cannot believe you had never thought of doing so before.
This is when, you can take all that you found missing in your own customs and ways of living and improve them. You have the chance to change your own conceptions and stigmas for eve, which ultimately leads to personal growth and development.