Communication is one of the most powerful tools a person can develop. I have learned that the ability to speak with clarity, confidence, and authenticity can open doors, but it can also take time and lived experience to fully develop that voice. As an African American student with Indigenous ancestry on my maternal side, I have come to understand how identity, assumptions, and representation influence whether a voice is heard, or overlooked.
The first time I experienced what it felt like to struggle to use my voice was in elementary school. I had transferred to a new school after previously experiencing serious safety concerns, including repeated threats from another student at my former school. I hoped the new environment would feel safer and more supportive, but instead I quickly became aware of how different I felt there.
The administration was entirely white, and there were very few Black teachers, only a small number across the entire school. Most Black staff members were not in classroom or leadership roles, but instead served as paraprofessionals, cafeteria workers, or custodial staff. In that environment, I often felt out of place and overly observed, as if I had to constantly prove that I belonged.
Over time, I began to feel singled out in ways that affected my confidence. I was treated with suspicion in academic and social spaces, as if I needed to justify my presence. Instead of speaking up, I became quieter and unsure of how to advocate for myself in a space where I already felt unseen.
Eventually, the situation became serious enough that my mother had to advocate for me directly at the district level after observing how I was being treated. That experience taught me that when your voice is still developing, it matters who is willing to stand beside you until you are ready to fully stand on your own.
Today, I serve as a National Youth Council Member with the Big Brothers Big Sisters National Office, which gave me the opportunity to travel to Washington, D.C. for Capitol Hill Day. In this role, I met with staff of U.S. Senators as part of an advocacy effort focused on youth mentorship programs and expanding opportunities for young people.
During preparation for this experience, I had a separate and deeply impactful moment within Big Brothers Big Sisters. A representative from the organization asked me if I had ever been involved in the juvenile justice system. The question was not based on anything I had shared, but rather on assumptions tied to how I might be perceived as a Black young woman in that space. In that moment, I recognized how quickly narratives can be formed about people before they have the chance to define themselves.
Instead of stepping back, I remained engaged and continued participating in the advocacy process. That experience strengthened my understanding that communication is not only about speaking, it is also about staying present, grounded, and intentional even when you feel misunderstood. It also deepened my awareness of how often young people from marginalized backgrounds are mischaracterized before they are given the opportunity to fully express who they are.
Following that experience, I chose to use my voice in a more direct way. I spoke with leadership within Big Brothers Big Sisters about what occurred and how it reflected broader concerns about assumptions in youth-serving spaces. As a result of those conversations, I learned that the organization strengthened its commitment to cultural awareness by developing additional sensitivity and inclusion training for staff. They also implemented a practice where a representative from their national office is present during Youth Council meetings and other spaces where young people engage with adults, helping to ensure that participants feel supported and safe in all environments.
These experiences have shaped how I understand both voice and identity. My heritage and lived experiences have taught me that identity is not always fully seen or understood by others, and that assumptions can often replace understanding if we are not intentional about speaking for ourselves. Because of that, I have learned the importance of defining myself through my own words rather than allowing others to define me.
My experience at Capitol Hill Day helped transform my perspective on communication into something more active and purposeful. I realized that speaking with confidence is not about never feeling uncertain, it is about choosing to show up anyway, especially in spaces where your voice is needed.
Ultimately, my goal is to use my voice to advocate for young people and families who feel unheard or misrepresented, particularly within African American communities and other historically marginalized groups. I plan to pursue a career as a family and social justice attorney so I can continue using communication as a tool for advocacy and systemic change. Through law, I hope to ensure that people are heard and fairly represented, especially in moments where their voices might otherwise be overlooked or misunderstood.
As I pursue this path, financial challenges are also a reality for my family, especially after my mother experienced a layoff last year, making the cost of college a significant concern. This scholarship would help make it possible for me to continue my education and fully pursue my goal of becoming an attorney who serves and advocates for others.
My identity and experiences have taught me the importance of speaking with intention and truth. I want to carry that forward by helping others find and use their own voices with confidence and clarity. Ultimately, I hope to use my voice not only for myself, but to uplift others, ensuring that future generations feel seen, heard, and empowered to speak without hesitation.