Some of my earliest memories of the Philippines come back to me in pieces. I vaguely remember sitting on a box at the airport in the summer heat, surrounded by crowds, and, of course, I remember the food. I was born in the United States as a first-generation Filipino American, but at only four months old, I was sent to the Philippines. Because of that, the Philippines was never simply the place my parents came from. It became part of my own story, too.
My parents came to America from the Philippines after my father joined the military. Like many immigrants, they were searching for greater opportunities and their own version of the American dream. What I understand now, however, is how much courage that dream required. They had to leave what was familiar, adapt quickly to American culture, and build a life in a country that was completely different from the one they knew.
Their decision eventually gave our family a life that stretched far beyond either country. Through my father's military career, our family lived and traveled from the Philippines to California, Okinawa and Yokosuka, Japan, Virginia, Bahrain, back to California, and eventually Spain. The dream my parents left home to pursue became bigger than simply living in America. It gave our family the opportunity to experience the world.
Growing up this way taught me that opportunity means very little if you aren't willing to work for it. My parents taught me the importance of family, hard work, resilience, gratitude, independence, and education. They also showed me Bayanihan long before I fully understood the word: the idea that we don't move forward alone. We help each other, support our families, and remember the people who helped us get where we are.
I carry those lessons with me now as I work toward becoming a dental hygienist. Higher education has challenged me, and I know reaching my goal will continue to require patience and persistence. But I was raised to believe that if you work hard, believe in yourself, and stay grounded in the values your family gave you, you can create opportunities that once seemed out of reach. Every prerequisite I complete and every step I take toward my career is part of building the life I want while honoring the sacrifices that made it possible.
My parents left the Philippines believing there was a bigger world waiting for their family. Because of their courage, I grew up seeing just how big that world could be. Now, I hope to honor their journey by creating my own, not by forgetting where I came from, but by carrying those values with me wherever I go.